So I was hearing rain coming down a bit harder as I lay in my bed. I got up and looked outside and realized that my canopy swing bench will blow over since I left the canopy attached to it. So I walked down stairs and out into the backyard and wet weather and found that it had disappeared. Yup, it was at the bottom of the pool. So I got it out and unattached the canopy only to find two rips in it. Happens every year when the rain comes. I'd be surprise if it didn't happen one year. Also, because of my fresh tattoo, I can't swim while it's raining either. I love to do that. Oh well. Maybe next time. Ha!
So I had this big cup of raspberry tea in a Styrofoam cup with a plastic lid on my night stand. I reached and grabbed it for a sip and thinking I was going to get mostly the ice water taste, I swirled it around....Well now I'm doing laundry. Yup, spilled it all over my sheets. smh....LOL!
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love it. When I was in my 20s, I went to a tattooist for a raven tattoo and he said he wouldn't tattoo that on such a pretty lady. I was mad!! I said a few things to him and never went back. I still don't have the raven but now I want an owl
Awww...that was messed up of that guy. Owls are nice. ^_^
Hey, what's this wet stuff outside? By SOTU it's rain!! O.O
So my son has been doing very well in college, he's been staying out of any trouble that teens usually find themselves in, he hasn't wrecked my truck that I'm allowing him to drive and he's just been an all around pleasure to live with since moving to live with me. He's my heart. I love him. I was just checking out a few places for him and I to go and have fun together when I remembered that his heart is set on returning back to Florida for a visit. His mom has refused to pay for his trip so he was going to try to save for it himself. Now he doesn't have to. Instead of a trip to do whatever together, I'll use that money to pay for his round trip back to his friends and other family members. I know he misses them. Besides, then I can walk around my house naked again. LOL!
It is written that man is not meant to be alone, but dammit if some women don't try to make that false. LMAO!
HOW TO STAY TRULY HAPPY AS A COUPLE
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don’t check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don’t bother him with his movements
So what’s so hard about that?
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:
It’s really not too difficult but… To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes
www.relationshipsloveandmarriage.com
So I was told that if I keep reflecting the exceptional beauty of women by posting pictures of mostly young, but yes some older exotic looking women and others that I find attractive, that those women who may be attracted to me, but feel they wouldn't be my type based on my attractive preference would not attempt to engage me in conversation knowing that they wouldn't get any further than the friend zone.
My reply, "Seriously? Well that's their issue not mine. In my realm it's more about their confidence, locality, availability, personality, looks, compatibility, commonality, and loyalty. So even though I know I'm not for everyone, that's cool. Their lost, but I'd still say "Greetings". Who knows what magick might happen? ^_^
It is said that divorce is like ripping the skin off your own body. However, my divorces have been like getting a tattoo. Sure it hurts, but something beautiful is left after the pain is gone. ^_^
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You're right, it's not so bad. It can be rather uplifting, especially if one has lost themselves in the marriage. Once divorced, life begins anew and the outlook is amazing!! :-P
I'm a biiiiig fan of divorce! Lol it puts dinner on my table.
Have you ever fooled around on eBay and bid on something just to bid the item up and end up winning the damn thing? LOL! Funny Sh*t!
If you want something, never be afraid to ask. "No" is not going to kill ya. Where one says 'No'...another may say 'Yes'. That's a Life Lesson.
I'm an admire of beauty. Father Universe & Mother Earth possess many examples of beauty, but their best creation was the Smile of a Female....
Lord MOGY
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Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
Leo Buscaglia
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A gentle word, a kind look, a good-natured smile can work wonders and accomplish miracles.
William Hazlitt
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A smile is the universal welcome.
Max Eastman
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I have witnessed the softening of the hardest of hearts by a simple smile.
Goldie Hawn
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Children learn to smile from their parents.
Shinichi Suzuki
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I think that anybody that smiles automatically looks better.
Diane Lane
I love the beauty of the covers of some books. But I've learned all too well to never judge a book by its cover.
There are books with desirable covers containing blank pages that I love because I can fill them with whatever I wish which would be a part of me. However, the ones filled already is more of a challenge.
Authors, Publishers and Bookmakers will go to great lengths to sell their books.
One might love the book for its cover even though what's inside is not to their liking while completely over looking the books with less desirable covers never knowing they may contain some of the best stories ever written.
Some books may have an eye catching book sleeve, but once you remove the sleeve one might discover that the cover is less desirable as well as the pages within.
Some books have a desirable sleeve because the cover failed to effectively advertise the beauty within. Beauty attracts, but content keeps.
It is rare to find a book with both a desirable cover and words within printed on high end decorative paper with a story that makes you never want to put it down. Those are the books where special attention was given to ever detail.
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Now I want to go to this book store that's 45 minutes away. It's a used book store but I spend hours in it because, well, I love books!!
So I think I'll put in some time reading today. Although I really enjoy reading online, there is just something about flipping pages and marking up a book with notes or underlining or highlighting something that moves me or speaks to my spirit. I have a small library in my home in my home office and I'm running out of room with my collection.
I remember donating all my teen novels to a thrift store because I was led to believe I was hording books and the lady I was with ask me to part from them since I had read them already. In retrospect I should have held on to them and if I wanted to part from them, I would have sold them on ebay or again donated them in my on time.
This must be a journal day today. I find it quite easier to journal online than in my book journals. Mostly because I'm a horrible speller and really enjoy the spell check and auto correct features online provides. Ha! But there is something about putting pen to paper that remains....personal.
I'll get around to putting something in them. I really love the covers.
So I've found I've gravitated more to watching online movies and posting on FB and VR than enjoying some of my other hobbies. In fact, I've been posting on my FB page so much that I was asked to Admin for someone else's page and decided to do so since there wasn't a requirement to manage the page daily and it was about Paganism, but I discovered that the two books I've been reading hadn't been picked up for days so now I'm trying to finish those. However, I know I'm going to find another book I want to read soon and end up attempting to read three book at different times again until I'm finished. Reading is one of my passions.
I have a long list of hobbies that I truly enjoy and people now understand how it is that I could be fully retired since Aug 2011 and haven't gotten bored. Boredom is a state of mind and I don't allow my mind to go there. I'm never bored. Hell, I even consider napping a hobby. ^_^
Of the 20 items I've ordered via online shopping, 19 have arrived and the last one is due to arrive on tomorrow. I LOVE online shopping. I've only had my identity stolen twice from it, and the credit card company was quick to resolve the matter both times. It's a bit inconvenient though having to have the one's credit or debit card cancelled, submit a fraud report and then wait on the new card. Luckily I check my account daily so I'm usually on top of anything suspicious.
So I awaked from a dream that I was back in Japan attempting to return to the states and I was on a military base where the guards were all female. When attempting to leave, they asked if I wanted a group photo of them. I said sure. For whatever reason, events kept transpiring that prevented a good photo from being taken before I awaken. Groups of people would jump into the frame and then move just as I was about to snap the picture ruining the shot. I kept counting down to 3 and something would happen at the count of 3 that would just prevent me from taking the picture. I got annoyed and just wanted to leave and board my plane and return home. Weird!
"The difference between success and failure at anything in life is often slim. Handling unlimited spare time is no exception." ~ E. J. Zelinski
A guy trying to just say hello to some females is like asking her to lay down and spread her legs. LOL! Wow! It's not that serious ladies. Not every guy wants your goodies at first greetings or ever for that matter!
LORDMOGY was looking at LORDMOGY's Profile looking at what LORDMOGY was doing....Hahaha!
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lol
Chatting with me under a different profile pretending you are someone new....ok...I'll play along. I Love To Playyyy! ^_^
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lol, sometimes that can be fun, other times, it can be weird.
I was talking to someone under a different profile that I talk to under this one and it was awkward because I forgot to change some of the information on the profile that was given to me, hahahahaha, it still had Male...I was like OH CRAP, it was funny to me but probably not to my friend but they know now that it's me
LOL! Yeah...I could see how awkward that could be.
I have had one individual represent herself as a different person that way, she posed as her friend sticking up for her. I simply mentioned to the admins that I suspected a ToS violation, and low and behold the "friends" profile was suspended.
Now the same member is claiming that "her older sister" shares the profile. Last I heard the "younger sister" is sick. So regardless of whether or not it is true, just because of her previous actions it is suspect.
4:22 am...I suppose I'll get back under the warm covers and try to go back to sleep.
So according to the VA Doctor at my semiannual health checkup, I'm doing well. I was given a pneumonia vaccine and asked if I would like to be seen every 12 months vice 6. I kept it at every 6 months. I rather catch something earlier going on than later. I picked up some Asian food, returned home, I remember my son coming home from school, I took a nap and the next thing I know I'm waking up after 1 am. That must have been either the shot or the itis......HA!
Some people fight who they really are deep down to their core. Me? I blog it, shine a spot lot on it and give free tickets to the AWESOME show which is my life... ^_^
Can't believe I showed up 2 hrs early for a VA appointment. smh...
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Hope all is well.
I know from what my dad has told me with the VA that showing up early is sometimes a good thing.
I remember it taking hours for some of his appointments, but that's our government:-)
So I'll be calling the Red Cross tomorrow to set up an appointment to give blood an then it's on for some new ink soon... ^_^
So tomorrow is Meditation Class Day and wouldn't you know it...my Son wants to come too. Good for him. I think I'll treat him out to lunch afterwards. ^_^
Laundry is done! Now to wait for The Walking Dead to come on...
Very productive day today. Cleaned my entire Master Suite. We're talking scrubbing, dusting, sweeping, mopping, wiping, repairing, hanging, vacuuming, scenting and polishing.
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Great job
You almost motivate me to clean my domicile. But it is not to ram shackled just yet.
Every year I purchase new inserts for my Day Runner telling myself to keep a Daily Journal...Every year I failed to do so consistently. Just like my Dream Journal, nope...I don't keep that up either. Ok, we're only a little pass halfway though the 2nd month of the new year. I can do it! Maybe I need to meditate on it and find out what's blocking me. I suppose to walk 60 minutes a day. Nope, fail! I mean really...the only thing I do accomplish daily..... is being AWESOME! ^_^
Time to eat a medium steak!
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that is sounding really good right now with fried potatoes and onions
So my son came home at the end of the day from college and began to tell me what he has planned for the rest of the day. He then asked me what were my plans, I told him whatever I liked since I rarely make plans to do anything now since retiring. If I get the urge, I do it! That includes the urge to just lay around reading or playing on the internet. So he tells me that I should switch it up sometimes. I asked him why would I want to do that? When I've worked so hard, for so long and sacrifice much to be right where I've always wanted to be in my life, why would I ever want to change that when I'm so content and happy? People may look at your life and think to themselves how they would live YOUR life if they were in your place. They should be more concern about living their own life. This one is taken and doing quite well Thank You! ^_^
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Sometimes that's how I feel but I've decided to shake things up with a move out of state, going to happen in the fall. This gives me time to get things prepared.
I just need a change of scenery and where I'm moving will provide that:-)
AMEN!!!
Now...if only I could retire!
Someone call CNN, I just woke up and feel it's headline news worthy. ^_^
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lol, you always put a smile on my face, thanks for that!!
^_^
Thinking it was empty....I just found 2 more Peanut M&M's at the bottom of the bag.....Priceless! ^_^
I have my meditation class today and then back to my backyard project....
I'm just saying at least with me you know who and what you are getting...I'd tell you up front. You either accept me or you don't. Just the price of being AWESOME! ^_^
If they feel counseling would be a waste of time because they know they are the source of all your problems as a couple and they know they will never change for a relationship they should never had been in in the first place....Let Them Go! Fact is they probably never gave you anything you'd miss anyways.
If they feel counseling would be a waste of time because they know they are the source of all your problems as a couple and they know they will never change for a relationship they should never had been in in the first place....Let Them Go! Fact is they probably never gave you anything you'd miss anyways.
OMG, I hurt worse than yesterday....I have muscles aching that I didn't know I had.
35... 90 lbs bags of concrete...That's 3,150 lbs I'll be moving around....twice! Going to be a long sore day.
The Past...
He had photos in an old scrap album of a few women who remained friends after he had had a relationship with them, but the relationship ended on good terms.
She made him throw away any photos of anyone he had had past relationships with.
He would make love to her.
She would force him to compare their love making to those in his past. She wouldn't stop nagging until he shared it with her.
He had lovely furniture fully paid for.
She asked him to get rid of it because he had shared it with someone in his past.
He would buy her stuff animals.
She asked him to stop because he had done that for someone in his past.
He would bring her cards.
She asked him to stop because he had done that for those in his past.
He would bring her chocolate.
She asked him to stop because she didn't like chocolate, it would make her gain weight and he had done that for those in his past.
He would bring her flowers.
She asked him to stop because she felt it was a waist of money since all they do is die and he had done that for those in his past.
She allowed a guy from her past to come into their life. She even held onto a ring he had given her. When he told her that she couldn't spend alone time with this guy, she told him that he couldn't tell her who she could not see.
He asked her to go. Because it wasn't enough that she was stuck trying to live in his past, she had all along been stuck living in her own past.
Now she had become the one thing she had seemed to be so mesmerized with...
His Past!
How did I know when I woke up that it would be 2 something in the a.m.? Lately, no matter how early or how late I go to sleep, I wake up at 2 something in the a.m. I think I saw a horror movie about that once. I ♥ horror movies. LOL!
Bollywood Beckons from agam darshi on Vimeo.
Narcissism is characterized by grandiosity, pride, egotism, and a lack of empathy. Hey, I'm not a 'complete' Narcissist. I do have the ability to empathize. ^_^
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Isis101
04:11 Mar 01 2014
...and more heavy rain is coning for the whole state...so much for the drought, right?