I'm sitting here with the laptop on my lap, and I have been reading someone's journal. For the first time in a long while I'm at a loss for words. I feel a pull to this person, and I truly want to help them. I feel though if I'm to blunt as I usually am, they may just shut down. I find that I want to discuss their journal with them, Ive told them if they ever need to talk, they can talk with me, I also know trust is earned, and things take time. I just wish I knew what to say, to begin the path of earning the trust, and therefore be able to help them. I know empathy is very hard, and can take its toll on you. being a empath myself, it can come in waves so high it knocks you a flip, and every person you let close to you, you feel it all so intensly. I feel his pain, I sense his dreams.. I just don't know how to get through and not spook him away. Should I just talk with him? or wait?
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Tristesse
09:51 Feb 04 2017
I am always getting in the bad books because I cannot keep my mouth closed. :) If you ask me, I would say it's better to talk to him... at the risk of spooking him away. Just my two cents, miss.
Voelk
16:06 Feb 04 2017
nothing ventured, nothing gained
if you don't ask, the answer is already no
DarkestTemptation
03:41 Feb 07 2017
I say why wait go to him an ask what you have on your mind I hate beating around the bush. Who knows you might be able to help them out or you have a crush on him? Some feelings can be overwhelming. I hope things work out for you Hun.