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Bullying has always happened. Ever since the first members, there was bound to be people who didn't agree.

Calling people names isn't against the TOS, thus it's not an admin's job to ban people for it. If they were to ban people for it, BOTH parties would be banned, which would then cause even more arguments.

The site's "drama" is handled by admins on the thoughts that people will act like adults and sort things out maturely. Not continue to bicker and squabble. Cancer's given people the tools to block - he shouldn't need to do more.

your right name calling is not aganst the rules but but haressing and stealing profiles is the block should prevent people from even going on the profile and lets not forget about people that make profiles just to block and cause problems the bulling was never this bad

Yeah, well, I have been here for seven plus yars, and really, the bullying has always been there. It was just brought out more into the public eye with the creation of the cams and the honor features. Either you can accept the way things are and utilize the tools given to you to ignore these people you precive as bullies, or you can leave the site. The administration team isn't here to hold your hand and protect you from the mean people calling you names and being mean to you. That is not their job. They intervene when the TOS is broken. Other than that they have no obligation to make your hurt feelings better.



If you can't handle names and people who dislike you, the internet is probably not for you. Suck it up and grow a thicker skin.

lesten imortalkiss or deity what ever you call yourself if you came down from you ivory tower and look whats going on then we would not have this convertsation my concerns are not for myself but people that get haressed for no reason and deity are you just waiting for me to write in my journal and lots of the bullies broke the tos you guys are just blind

Deity? You have me confused with someone else. But, it still stands. Bitching that the administration team doesn't get involved in your petty disputes is pointless. It's laid out, the administration team does not get involved in member disputes. Your premiered "bullying" is nothing more than a member dispute. You can choose to ignore the users bothering you, you have a block feature so use it. You don't ignore it, you and your ilk make pointless journal entries about how everyone hates you and blah, blah, blah, bullshit because you thrive on the drama that comes from it. Ignore the nonsense and everything will be fine. If you stop giving these people the attention they crave they will get bored and move on to someone who will give them what they want. It is common sense.

blocking dose not work are you not hearing they keep on making profiles to harsses people they protect all the wrong people when ever some one needs help they don't

And you are not hearing me. Ignore them. If you stop giving them the attention and devoting journal entries to them they will get bored and move on. People who harass others do it because they get a response from those who are on the receiving end. You take away that response and they go seek it from someone else. It's pretty simple.



Lashing out at the administration team and claiming they do nothing is also the wrong route to take. They do all they can, but that doesn't mean they are going to hold your hand and solve your problems for you. You are an adult, act like it.

clearly your not hearing me ignoring dose not help and i'm not lashing out if you think is nonsence then don't come here

Probably because you haven't even attempted it.



And yes, it is lashing out when you claim that the administration team does nothing. They do what's within their power when the situation arises. Just because they don't side with you doesn't mean they don't do what they need to do.

i'll say it again if you don't like what i got to say in my journal then don't come here its that simple

You are completely right Milosh,these people just don't get it.

thanks those others just have their heads up their assess

I've got two Lifetime Member accounts and feel rather short changed by a few idiots.

i know bud the admins are supposed to enforce the terms of service and they don't because they don't care

I have a friend I know on here in the flesh,we were both in HannahRose's coven,she said to keep away from her and shes been traded,well I refused and was blinded,i asked to be traded to my friends coven,so she sends me to ''trepidation''and this guy blinds me as well,telling me he finds favor in watching me fade away.So I had to delete my profile.My friend felt so bad about what happen she gave me this one.God Bless ''SWEETRAVEN''.My point in all this cyber bulliing madness.Its just not right.But this goes on and things need to change.Blinding someone forever should not happen.Namaste' Elviscat