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Well that's interesting, I laugh at my friend that says he never wants to get married again because it was too crazy & much trouble then went on to brag& talk about fixing his motorcycles & other extramarital things.



What is so interesting , is this pattern in relationships and marriages. I see this over and over again extra romances in marriage, love your hobby more than your partner such as the bike, faking romance for the kid or kids- why and I'm not trying to be rude or judgmental but why can't you take that same energy from all the extra marital stuff and put it into your marriage so you two can keep falling in love over and over again? Realistically yes it's very much possible, if two are willing to tango & work together along with chemistry& common intersts and also contrasting interests. Other common problems are ,People don't know what they want, they set high expectations in their partners, don't think the relationship is going to shift & grow or break, don't know themselves or they do- but refuse to acknowledge all of themselves, expect their partner to be perfect, end up in a relationship depending on the other for happiness- not sharing the happiness, have a kid then fake marriage for the kid meanwhile screwing everyone else because they don't want to use the same energy to fix the marriage or the balls to remarry someone else. it just easier to take easy path, never mind the kid....



That's why I'm totally laughing at this man with his motorcycle if you put as much love into your relationship as you do your bikes and kids......

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ZorayaAurora
19:22 Dec 31 2013

This is so common today. It is so very sad!!!



People think that by having extra marital affairs, they can keep their marriage going but I think the extra stuff just adds to the already troubled marriage even more.



Kids aren't stupid either. Not sure how old his kids are but they'll figure it out and they will voice their concerns. Mine did at a very early age. So in all honesty, sticking together for the kids is a copout. The kids probably already sense something.



I think people stay together for one reason: MONEY. And that's really sad because there is true happiness to be had out in the world to just be stuck in a fake marriage with no love

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deathnitegrl
09:13 Feb 22 2014

People don't know the real meaning of commitment that's why.

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