This preacher reminds me of one a long time ago…
Years ago I got a call from a preacher about making a estimate for a move for him. After talking on the phone I requested to see the home items myself, making a appointment. Most churches have a tight budget and I did not want to put them in a spot. It was only 60 miles away, not a big trip for me. He finally agreed to meet with me. I was at his door at 8:30 am, as per his request on that date. Thing is- he comes out of the home and tells me his family is sick. He could not let me in. We stood outside as I made him go room by room to try and make a honest estimate.
Turns out I got the job, and the crew and I went to do the job. Now- when you walk in it’s a mess- dry food on the floor, old bowls of food on the nightstands and end table. This is not a weeks worth of dirt- I mean the people lived like pigs. And the roaches? Big as my thumb. Now I see why he did not want me in the house. I mean- we had to kick the dirty clothing off the basement steps to get down there. If I had step into the home I would never of taken the job. He knew that.
After a talk with my guys, and the church people telling me they had to have him out of the home that day, we started to move them. Got the job done, and pulled the truck out of service for a few weeks to use bug bombs in, and air it out from the sink. Not our first dirty job, we have hauled burnt, dirty, wet, damaged items before. I sent the bill to the church he was moving to as they was to pay the bill. After a few months I called to see why the bill had not be paid, it was not above the estimate. That is when I learned of the shit fit they was having.
My guys put the bunk bed up wrong. Now- it was the kind with the bigger bed on the bottom, smaller on top. Kind of hard to put it up wrong. He had some damaged items, and I asked what? Furniture was scratched. Please- I had to have a two dozen or more of my pads washed because of the dirt. Items broken in his packed cartons are just to bad, as he knew my insurance would not cover them. Hell- they only started packing when we got there, throwing stuff in cartons. What did you expect?
This was a deacon of the church, and I listen to his comments then had my say. One- I should of never moved the man as his house was nothing but a bug infested home a pig would not live in. That whole cleanness thing the bible talks of… not working with this guy. He did not believe me. I told him to call the church he came from. Or has he visit the preacher yet, in his home? Silence told me he had not. Would love to see his face when he does.
I addressed his other issues and then he told me “In no uncertain terms- we will not pay this bill.” I looked over at my mother who was at her desk and I knew to do as she would. “That is fine then sir. Let me tell you in no uncertain terms you WILL be paying this bill. I will give you two weeks to have my money to me, or let me tell you how this will turn out. I will come to your church on that Sunday and I will sit in the back row, at the end. When the money plate is passed around, I will take out all the cash. I will stand up, tell the whole church membership how much that is, and then tell them how much they still owe me. As the church was to pay the bill- the church members can dig into their pockets for more.”
He told me I was bluffing.
I told him I was not.
He called me eleven days later to make sure I had the check.
I did.
Oh my god! I love you Moonie! I just found it... LOL
*hugs*
Thank you very very much.
*announcers movie voice*
Coming to a few messages and profiles near you- Rat Pissed Off.
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*giggles*
You're welcome my sweet Rattie xoxox
Morning spent working on a estimate I did a visual survey on Friday. Some reason or another- I don’t like him. Why? One- he is too freaking nice. I mean- telling me I smell good? I got four compliments before we ever left the church office. Sorry- but that is just bullshitting.
*sigh* He had a strike against him as the most pain in the asses, un honest people I move is preachers, lawyer and doctors. The whole God complex just rubs my nerves the wrong way. Sorry if that offends anyone. Anyway…back to the preacher.
He ask me if I was a true XXXX (last name) I tell him yes. He tells me he knows my dad, or am I a grandchild of his. *Ding* another reason to not like the guy because if he knew my dad he would know he did not have kids till he was in his mid 40’s. And hello- I do not have that fresh out of the oven look about me. *pats gray hair* Control...Confirm bull shitter… confirmed.
We chat as he takes me thru the house, and I listen. Best thing to do when you field someone out- just listen. He is just the type to let the whole truth out if you give him time. Example- he made a point to tell me the local mover is NOT moving him again. “Oh?” and a look of innocent eyes gave me all the information I needed.
His side- the damaged everything. They put his furniture out on the porch for the rain to ruin. They did not start unloading till 5:00pm, and they talked rude to his wife. What I found out by listening to him-
The mover did not bring enough men or truck for the job. This is the movers fault- but then if you go by a phone survey… on this kind of job… I mean- it’s a preacher. You know he will have tons of stuff. The location alone told me it would be a hell of a location to move to, so the mover, who’s town this is, should of known that.
But then…
Damaged done when the items places/ stacked on the porch. Why? Because the house was not clean, and the wife would not let them put the items inside till she cleaned the floor, mopped. Now come on, its moving day. I know the house was to be ready- but who believes that crap? You go and check, right? So the mover did all he could as he was paying labor to sit there- he unloaded as the wife took three hours to clean. Rude to her? Gosh.. I wonder why?
Then when he tried to claim, and trust me- he did not have any good furniture, over $4,000.00 worth of damaged- the mover told him no. Reason he would never allow the man to touch his furniture again. Ok then. Quick thinking of my head- claim he tried to file was the cost or close to the moving cost. Both sides made mistakes- or at least what I see of it. And that is what I have to go by, to build my impression on.
So I left him with his words of “I am not calling any other mover- you are the ones I want to move me.” ringing in my ears. Always brings up a red flag for me. Don’t get me wrong- it’s a nice paying job. But its also one hell of a job. Narrow one way street that you have to park on, blocking a lane a street over from Main St. Four bedrooms, two living rooms, two dinning rooms, and all those books they have. Three story home, with tons of junk in the basement to dig out. Even more steps down to the truck. Two days to load as it will take time, and in the middle of Summer. One to one and a half for delivery. And I asked- only one level at the new home.
If I am going to do this, and put up with him and his wife… with the little voice in me telling me to watch out- trouble is brewing… its going to cost them. So I aimed the estimate high, knowing the weight tickets will tell the truth at the end, and the bill will go from it. Best to over estimate then to underestimate with these folks. Then when you come under the budget they have for it- they are very happy.
*sigh* I can be as nice and sweet as apple pie. I just have to cover all my bases and be ready to control the move, aka- the guys and the customers. He wants a good move- I will give him one. For the right amount of money.
Ha ha ha..
Had trouble logging into this account this morning. I know I used the right password.
Started to think I was thrown off- banned.
But I have been nice. Well... there was Thursday...but still... and Friday... OK- I have been nice this weekend, damn it! I wasn't even on much.
Hehehe... so you know I was nice. ;)
But I waited the time and took two tries to get it to take my password.
Yeah. :)
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Ah, you though Cancer finally caught up with you eh?
:P
lol Well... yes, I did.
:)
*rat stays low to the ground*
Lol that reminds me of one of my nightmares LOL.
You mean it didn't work when I snuck in and changed it? 0-0
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Well hell birdy- I was blocked too. LOL
Our very first.
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Ahhh ain't we SPECIAAALLL. :P LOL
Ok- off to put up the Walmart stuff, then ....dinner is at Connie's right? Tonight?
Call me when you know what time. I am home, Linda Loo has a cold and she stayed with mom this weekend.
I even sleep till 10:30. :)
By the way- I spent WAY more $$ then I should at Walmart.
SHOULD CHILDREN WITNESS CHILDBIRTH...
Due to a power outage, only one paramedic responded to the call.
The house was very dark so the paramedic asked Kathleen, a 3-yr old girl to hold a flashlight high over her mommy so he could see while he helped deliver the baby.
Very diligently, Kathleen did as she was asked.
Heidi pushed and pushed and after a little while, Connor was born.
The paramedic lifted him by his little feet and spanked him on his
bottom. Connor began to cry.
The paramedic then thanked Kathleen for her help and asked the
wide-eyed 3-yr old what she thought about what she had just witnessed .
Kathleen quickly res ponded, "He shouldn't have crawled in there in
the first place ......smack his ass again!"
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rofl...you made me spill my wake up coffee...no more, I will just read your journal to wake up lol
Ok- Portfolio is back up. Still need to get Nita's computer for my sunrise shots I took on the beach. And I want the one of her on the boat- sun in your face to add. I should never cleaned off my camera memory card. Lesson learned.
I wonder- do we have to rate them again? Hmm
So... its not up to what it was, but still. I even put some pictures of me on it. For now.. you know how I am. They will not be up long.
Speaking of not up long- off to bed.
Nighty night all.
Have to talk about our prince Cancer so get ready to make fun of me for brown nosing. :P It starts yesterday when my new notebook kept shutting off on me, giving me the blue screen with the memory dump. Remember this is the new notebook sent to me for a replacement of the one I had so much trouble with before. November- I have not had a reliable laptop since I purchase the Dell.
So yesterday I spend three hours on the phone with Dell- telling them I wanted another one- or I send this one back for a full refund. I was sent to the tech support. After telling them I did not want to work on the system, they assured me that a system restart from the factor setting would solve my problems. I would lose everything- but I would have no more problems. Now- you know what happen, right?
I pushed buttons, I sat and waited as it ran test. Reliability test screen… some or another showed the man 24 OS failures within a time frame of a month and some. “What is an OS?” “Over all systems” “OK- doesn’t that show there is something wrong with the factor system?” “Ohhh no… something I put on it… blah blah double bullshit blah.” “Ok- I added ProZoom2 to this computer since I have had problems with it from the start, as my call history shows. Are you telling me the one program I added did this?” “No... blah blah computer speaking blah.” “So I can add any program I want to this machine?” “Yes… if it is compatible.” If I put the same program back on it… isn’t that going to happen again?
Do you see the issue here?
So we started this hard drive test. I said I had run this program before with someone from Dell. “No. This is a different… take ten minutes.” “No. I have- and it took well over an hour” “We need to run…” “FINE. Let’s run your stupid ass test.” Yes- I cuss when I am mad. Thirty minutes later- it’s at 23%. He aborted the test. “I say we do one more test- how about the number of hits against my desk it takes before I break this freaking thing?” I have had enough- 6 months and a thousand dollars later and I don’t have a computer I can use.
We reset the computer to the factory settings and I lost the few docs and the program, but know I can go online and download it again after I go thru finding the payment info for the code to download updates. It’s running fine. We hang up, and I start to search my saved email and the SOB went blue screen again.
I called Dell back and let’s just say it was not pretty. I told them I was returning the piece of shit, and its over. The lady said she would have a supervisor call me from the tech department.
Just as I walk into my home this afternoon from a long day that started at 5:30 am I get a call from Dell. I am getting yet another new Dell within ten days, tells me to send that one back when I get it. All I wanted is a working new notepad. Is that so hard to get? I paid for it, I want it. Why can’t they just admit they are making pieces of shit and correct it? Why does a customer have to fit for every thing? Why can’t they accept the responsibility?
So I come online to my home away from home- VR. I read the system wide message from Cancer telling us of the … ok- its computer stuff, so… but he also tells us he is sorry about the failure. He is giving us more time on our paid accounts. He is working to see that it will not happen again.
I know Cancer and VR are not Dell- and I thank god for that. Doesn’t matter how big or small- it is how he treats his site, business that impresses the hell out of me. He treats his customer/ members with care and respect when it comes to site problems. He understands and he addresses the issue. He is a professional businessman. People are going to bitch and moan- but I will say good job.
It’s an internet site folks and even the huge sites have problems, those that have hired people who do nothing but sit and keep the system running. Cancer, as far as I know, does it on his own with no help. Give the man credit for what he does.
Cancer I thank you for all your hard work and this is still the best site on the web.
COMMENTS
Get ready......am bringing my laptop to you too..so you can get Dell again..:)
Bring it sis- you need your replaced too. Grrrr.... Next raw mood I am in is yours. lol
got 1 toshiba, 1 IBM, 1 labtop Dell and 1 tour Dell....spend lots of time on the phones..hours (yep like you) for blue screen errors...so indeed when it comes to business, Cancer is the best and I would not bitch or whine,I would thank him....this site is so far (been here 3 years total, changed account 3 times du to ex's jealousy of coven memberships lol) So Cancer IS a responsible, serious, honorable honest, true Businessman..(no I don't need a kleenex, I don't kiss ass, I say what I beleive, wihout fear) *hugs*
Profile:
hi my name is jalissa
and I love ever thinke will not ever think
but most thinks
Funny Videos
O.O
Then this one:
Alright c i have a lil issue with werewolfs umm ive been attacked by 2 and its not pleasent not fun in my opinion vampires and werewolfs are enimies and that will never ever change if your a good werewolf sorry very sorry for drawing a line between us but im just 2 hurt by your type to trust you and im agin very sorry
hey im christabelan im a little confused on what i am right now i hunt animals and do drink there blood no joke but im stuck between still being a human and its really annoying if there are any ppl who could help some id appriciate it exspecially if you are a mentor that would help alot for me my freinds say im a vampire but i now that im stuck between being a human or a vampire ugh and im a orphan i have been adopted though they accept me i love them if you have questions or help msg me on here or XXX
love, christabelan
Ooookkkk then. Funny- I am not confused at all of what you are.
Three times in a row now I have gotten a collect call from a woman who's name I don't know... from the city jail.
O.O
Is today "Freaky Tuesday" and no one told me?
huh?
COMMENTS
It's me! Take the god damn call!
:P
ROFL. Oh my god.... LOL
I told you not to write your phone number on the wall of the jail cell! See---see!
You know- if I meet a lot of people on this site in person...I swear I would just enjoy the slap down I would give them.Dumb fuck.... respect my ass... you just got pissy because no one kissed your ass because you are in the service.
Guess what? Other people in the service would not respect you either with the bull shit you pull and act like.
Here is what I think- IF you are in the service- show some respect and act like it. You do not attack people because they are not speaking to you, showing you the respect you THINK you should have. Respect earned- not demanded. Any branch of the military tells you that. USMC would not stand for the way you act.. and IF you are one, you know that.
Vamp Box is not the place for that shit- take it to your journal or profile.
And by the way- you have no idea who I am or how I help support the military people of this country. I see them as most people don't- I see the child crying as she talks of her father who is leaving for the next year and a half, I see the wear and tear on the family as they pick up and move again.... and I see the impact on the ones left behind as they come face to face with the death, knowing they will never see the son, daughter, mother, father, sister or brother again.
Do not say I don't respect the military serviceman. I have work around and for them since I was born- you little shit.
Thanks goes to the Otter, Ferret and Tammy for trying to keep me calm and away from this guy. I should of known not to stir the pot. *sigh*
Stay away from the other children on the playground,,,, stay away from them. As in real life- I just need to stay away from stupid people who get me angry. So... that is about 9.99% of the site....
And I stay here because of...what?
COMMENTS
Go rat go. *Wolf loves her Rat*
He is an arrogant fool with his head up his ass. I just don't want you to get in trouble by reacting to such stupidity.
Ignoring people who are like that is what hurts them the most.
Joo stays because we lubbs joo!
What do you like most about the vampire?
Started by: lavisbre
Mar 24 2008
The romantic side
The sexual side
The power side
The evil side
No side it’s not real
*rat reads the poll*
Ok- the sexual side. But... its the power that makes it sexy.. or is it the evil side? Damn it! I hate polls like these.
LOL
Ok- sexy because of the power. Power because of the evil. Unless its a good vampire. Would I find a good vampire sexy? *rat throws up her hands* Grrrr.... Evil. *points clicks*
Or should it of been the it's not real one?
:)
As with my real life family- I can call my sisters bitch, talk of how much of a ass they are. I even been known to tell them to there faces...... but you ever say something about them to me... I will slap you into next week. That is my family, and I am the only one who can say anything about them.
That is how I see the Zoo and my friends here. I see issues we all have, even my very own. But you ever try to come out and hurt them and I will quickly come out to defend them if needed. These men and women are very strong people, and I think you just don't like them.
Big freaking deal. Just keep it to yourself and we will get along just fine. You start with the smart ass remarks I will shut you down. I pick who my friends are- and maybe you need to do that as well.
Friends don't let others talk shit about them. Or at least I don't.
Two things- I keep missing the private chats I am invite to. :( Dang it. I mean - they are from people I would love to chat with, but I always find the invite after they are closed. Double :( Just don't give up on me- I swear one of these days I will show up in time. *sad eyes*
And to Blazewolf (Tim) the excuss of " im sorry i didnt know it was you" is bull poo. I never understood the need to change your name here. If you get caught in a lie, or you get people mad at you for something you did- own up to it! Having some balls and stand up for what you did. Or say you are sorry, you made a mistake and learn from it. Don't just change your name and start the same bull poo again.
People who change it just so they can get a better rate... that is just stupid. And I am not going to talk of the rating system on this site.
But either way---
I have always been Vampirewitch39 on VR.
I will always be Vampirewitch39 on VR.
I would not want to be anyone else on VR.
Even my other accounts- I am the same person.
Ok- took a sleeping pill so I am rating till it kicks in.
Remember when the most costly thing about your car was the insurance per month?
Grrrr...
I spent $45.00 to gas my car up, and $32.00 for my pickup that had a little less then half a tank.
I spend about $200 a month on gas. My insurance is $89.00 or so a month. Thank god for multi policy discounts.
*sigh*
Hope I don't need a repair any time soon. Or tires... Yeaps.
So I stayed close to Connie this week, and would check on her sister often, especially at the funeral home. So I guess that is where it started. Nah- it started before hand. I just don’t get why women can’t be friends without it being talked about.
I hang out with Connie and Nita. I hug them even, when I think they need a hug. I am not gay, nor think of them in ANY way but as sisters. I don’t want to put up with a male- been married, divorced, and it takes a hell of a man to even catch my eye in that way. Don’t see me ever getting married again.
So at the graveyard, as I stand beside Connie as she said good bye to her mom’s family and her Uncle said “Come visit us. Bring your friend even, we accept you both.” My eyes open wide, looking over at Nita as she was standing beside us.
It took everything in me to not bust out in laughter. I could just see the glare if I had, and I know it was not the place or the time, but hell… I also know it would have been a bad time to tell the Uncle how Connie and I had sat on the first roll of the family members, and checked out the butts of the cops who walked up to the coffin. Even joked how Mom would have been doing it herself. LOL Hey- it made Connie smile, so screw you if you think I was wrong to bring up the cute asses.
But the Uncle’s comment…Yes… not the place or time. I just looked over at the coffin and smiled. Mom would have loved it if I had. She always loved when you did things that made people pause, step back. She was a hand full herself.
And I will miss her.
COMMENTS
YAY to hetero partners! :P
I've had that asked to me at weddings... the bride's father... stopped everyone. Luckily he was drunk enough that when I responded with "no penis no point" that he was amused... *hugs*
Lmao, let them all wonder. It is kind of funny when you think about it though. People are going to think what they like about others, no matter how many times you try to convince them different.
I'm still pissed that I missed it completely when he said it and my brother was the one who joked about it when we got back home, what I get for being busy crying. If he ever asks I'll set him straight but it don't bother me since the invite was because he saw just how important you were in my life. I find it wonderful since he's over 70 years old and so accepting of something I know his faith (which he is very strong in) teaches is wrong. Old time southern baptist don't accept much change or teach acceptance so I'm actually very proud of him.
Spent the night doing a new profile. I was going to rate but was not in the mood to deal with the whinney butts. That and the mood I am in everyone would of gotten a one.
Grumpy most of the day- but spent time with my Mom, Connie came over for lunch (Meaning she brought it...lol) and me and Nita had a nice long talk on the phone. Never did get my nap I wanted all day. I started working on the profile and could not stop. Four hours later its done and my picture edit enough that I can live with it.
The new profile is a little strange, but .....its me, giving into/facing that side of me.
Now I am going to take something for the pounding in my head and sleep for ten hours.... I hope. Got company coming over Sunday afternoon, but only for a few hours as I have to be up early for work Mon and Tuesday.
Hope to wake up in the mood to cook dinner or at least a dessert for us. Night.
Video does not match the song.. or at least how I see the song. A song that just hits home to me tonight.
I will be the answer
At the end of the line
I will be there for you
Why take the time
In the burning of uncertainty
I will be your solid ground
I will hold the balance
If you can't look down
If it takes my whole life
I won't break, I won't bend
It will all be worth it
Worth it in the end
Because I can only tell you that I know
That I need you in my life
When the stars have all gone out
You'll still be burning so bright
Cast me gently
Into morning
For the night has been unkind
Take me to a
Place so holy
That I can wash this from my mind
And break choosing not to fight
If it takes my whole life
I won't break, I won't bend
It will all be worth it
Worth it in the end
Because I can only tell you that I know
That I need you in my life
When the stars have all gone out
You'll still be burning so bright
Cast me gently
Into morning
For the night has been unkind
Answer By Sarah Mclachlan
From:Blazewolf (AKA- .. hell been four or five accounts now)
01:33:51
Mar 23 2008
wow whats with the 3
From:
Missydarkfantasy
02:10:50
Mar 23 2008
Hey girl, I really don't mean to take up space in your life lol but after reading your profile I think you will under stand where I am coming from (by the way I am also Gwendolyn)
You rated one of my friends/covenmates a 3 and yes I know it isn't real, but it bothered him enough to come to me with it as his friend and acm in coven.
Truly he is a sweetie and it bothered him his pro wasn't that bad lol
Sorry to bother you with it, but as you mentioned in your pro I am also very protective of my friends.
Thanks for listening to me and have a nice day and no I do not do childish things like down rating back lol
I went and re rated him and left this comment:
With you having been on VR a few times under other accounts- you know to ask me to re rate. I gave a three when you had nothing on your profile- when you first started. Only reason you get a ten now is because you are a paid member. Work on the way you ask for a re rate- we have been thru this before Tim.
And sent this back to his girlfriend, the ACM:
On 15:43:40 Mar 22 2008 (-6 GMT) Vampirewitch39 wrote:
Well for one thing- he never asked for a rerate. I rate the whelps every day so he had nothing on his profile, or something stupid when I did rate him. As Tim knows- as he has been on this site under many profiles- all he needed to do was ask for a rerate. The "poor me" shit doesn't work for me.
Two- His message of "What is with the three?" Came just over thirty mintues before yours. Now- I would hate to think I need to point out that members are not online 24/7 here. I myself have been dealing with a death in the family- and if your or his feelings was hurt that I did not answer his rude comment licky split- then that is your problem.
As you are his newest online girlfriend- you might want to check the use of your ACM to get him rates when a simple request as he had updated would of worked.
Now- hope to not hear of this again. Like you said- space in my life is limited to those who act as adults.
On 15:50:46 Mar 22 2008 (-6 GMT) Missydarkfantasy wrote:
Oh hell I really wasn't trying to come off like I obviously did! I am so damn sorry! The on line gf is a joke on our CM.
I am 49 years old and am really way to old to be playing Rave drama games. I sincerely apologize for any offense and did not realize that he had been sarcastic and played me.
Yes he played me and it won't happen again. So once more my absolute sincere apologies.
You can ask queenmorbid I don't do games She knows me and has known me as gwendolyn for a long time.
Sorry
I sent back, as she knows my Wolfy, and shows herself as a adult...
Message To: Missydarkfantasy
I understand- just watch yourself with people on this site as you know they are not what they seem. :)
Sorry- I might of came off a little strong as I myself am very tried and on edge.
No hard feelings, and we will just chalk it up as lesson learned about each other. lol
Deal?
Come online to rate, rest my mind a little and what do I find? Two messages- one from a member that I rated a while ago a three (Whelp rating I am sure) asking me what the hell and then one from his Ast. Coven Master asking me why- and not that she would down rate me, but......
Really VR is getting out of control on this whole rating shit. If I was in a pissy mood I would go give him a one, and everyone in the freaking coven a one. But I am too tried to deal with this childish shit. People- more in life then a damn number on a web site, trust me.
I swear if rating did not calm my mind down as I did it, I would never rate another profile- Sirehood be "F"ing damned.
Really- getting out of hand. Whiney to your coven..... what? made a thread about it? Am I on a hit list? *sigh*
Grow the fuck up. And I will go over and see what I think of the profile now, then rate you again. The ACM? Not worth my time.
Its after 500 Friday. The funeral is over, and Connie and her sister is at their homes, with family.
Connie did good, and her sister- who almost fainted at her dad's funeral had a few bad moments.
I left her ready to take a nap if she could, but with her brother, they all was ready for a nap. Nita is here in the guest room asleep, And me? I am laying in bed reading the news, I have yet to cry- to face mom is gone, but its coming.... when I am alone and not needed to be doing something... it will hit. I had to stay cold these past few days, turn my feelings off, the only way I could help Connie and her sister.
Sure I added another "cold hearted" mark against me as I never cried all this time. But I has sisters who needed me, who had to have some help. Nothing new being called cold hearted. Hell took me years to get that name,
But I will remember the times, the past, and I will cry, I will break. Soon.
COMMENTS
You're far from being cold hearted. People have their own ways of grieving, those who don't understand that need a little smack upside the head.
Be patient with yourself, don't force anything, emotionally pamper yourself for a few days, remember to relax and feel however you want to feel, your inner self knows exactly what you need, so stick with that.
Know also that you have people here who love and admire you, if you need someone to talk to, we're always here for you.
*rat jumps on the otter and gives a sigh* You are the best friend. I have just been shut off since Tuesday morning... it will take me a while to open back up.. and feel the pain I know is there.
I feel so sad for Connie and her sister, family.
Otter is very right. Take your time. All of you- this is one of those times where others do not matter, except those you want to matter.
Let us know what we can do. *hugs*
You dont need to call yourself that...cause you are a wonderful person...you did what you needed to do to help connie...and I know shes very greatful for that.....
Hey rat *puppy pads in and plops down*
We'll all be here for you, whenever you are ready to let go- just like we would for the cat and birdy- we wubs you....
AhhhHemm:
What they said...You are far from "cold hearted" a cold hearted persone would not be there for their friends, would be callous to other's feelings...You put other's needs before your own. That's pretty damnd warm hearted to me.
Much love!
Been asked a few times, so I am putting this here. I don't like talking about Connie or her family but I will tell you she is doing ...well. It's a hard time for her and her family, as anyone who lost a parent can understand.
She is holding up well and we all are seeing that she is eating, and her suger is doing alright. But tonight is the viewing, and Friday is the funeral. I will be at both, and Nita will be there when she is able to tonight after she gets off work, and Friday.
All I can say is keep her in your thoughts the next few days, and she is being taken care of by those who love her, as is all her family.
Thank you all for your concern.
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Thanks for the update VW.
We know we can count on the Rat and the Birdy to keep the Cat surrounded by love.
Give her a hug from me if you think of it.
Yes thank you for posting this. Give them all a big hug for me and you all remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Reading some journals and it seems VR has had a reset. Ok...
People are talking of having lost pages and time, people lost numbers on their favorites and stuff. Ok...
I took a look- still a Sire. Pages count.... *shrugs* I don't know. Time spent....*shrugs* looks the same. On Friends List.... hmmm think I lost two or three...but I am sure they are no big lost as they never talked to me.
Nothing else I notice..is there anything else?
Ok- all in all guess this is not a big issue for me
*rat goes to play on the swingset*
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Ohh you know people love to complain....
My second account slipped back...That' part of being on a website, things happen. Still...
As the big man himself once said...
I don't know what people would do if they couldn't bitch...
*pokes rat*
YOU'RE ON MY SWING!
*hangs up side down from the cross bar*
ppphhhfffttt- he's right- I know some people on ehre would damn well explode if they couldn't bitch...lol
*pokes back* Not got your name on it. lol
Yeap- if they can't bitch... they would have nothing to do. Sort of like those people who bitch about how you do some thing, but never offer to do it themselfs.
Hate those too.
Blackwingedwolf was it's name... the mosquito that buzz around the Rat's head.... leaving a #2 on her profile, with no comment. Even as a paid member he still has only the "If you want to know ask the Wolf" sentence that Rat rated before. He did add some pictures tho....
Rat flattens the mosquito with a hard slap, leaving her #2 in place as she goes about her day.
Bugs- I am so not in mood for bugs. And if you are so keen on rating what your worthless shitty profile is worth- might go back and give you a one.
Yes- that makes me judgemental. Show of hands who did not know that already.
You Are 76% Pure |
You're pretty pure, and you have no plans on changing that. You do have a devilish side though... and it will probably get the better of you. |
They Walk Among Us and Many Work Retail
I was at the checkout of a K-Mart. The clerk rang up $46.64 charge. I gave her a fifty dollar bill. She gave me back $46 .64. I gave the money back to her and told her that she had made a mistake in MY favor. She became indignant and informed me she was Educated and knew what she was doing, and returned the money again. I gave her the Money back ..
same scenario! I departed the store with the $46.64.
They Walk Among Us and Many Work Retail
I walked into a Starbucks with a buy-one-get-one-free coupon for a Grande Latte. I handed it to the girl and she looked over at a little chalkboard that said "buy one- g et one free." "They're already buy-one-get-one-free," she said, "so I guess they're both free"
She Handed me my free Lattes and I walked out the door.
They Walk Among Us!
One day I was walking down the beach with some Friends when one of them shouted, "Look at that dead bird!" Someone looked Up at the
sky and sa id, "Where"?
They Walk Among Us!
While looking at a house, my brother asked the real Estate agent which direction was north because, he explained, he didn't want the sun waking him up every morning. She asked, "Does the sun rise in the north?" When my brother explained that the sun rises in the East, and has for sometime, she shook her head and said, "Oh I don't keep up with all that stuff."
They Walk Among Us!!
I used to work in technical support for a 24/7 call center. Oneday I got a call from an individual who asked what hours the call
c enter was open. I told him, "The number you d ialed is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week." He responded, "Is that Eastern or Pacific time?" Wanting to end the call quickly, I said, "Uh, Pacific."
They Walk Among Us!
My sister has a lifesaving tool in her car designed to cut through a seat belt if she gets trapped. She keeps it in the trunk.
They Walk Among Us!
My friends and I were on a beer run and noticed that the cases were discounted 10%. Since it was a big party, we bought 2 cases. The
cashier multipli ed 2 times 10% and gave us a 20% discount .
They Walk Among Us!
I couldn't find my luggage at the airport baggage area, so I went to the lost luggage office and told the woman there that my bags
never showed up. She smiled and told me not to worry because she was a trained professional and I was in good hands. "Now,"
she asked me, has your plane arrived yet?"
They Walk Among Us!
While working at a pizza parlor I observed a man Ordering a small pizza to go. He appeared to be alone and the cook asked Him if he
would like it cut into 4 pieces or 6. He thought about it for some time before responding. "Just cut it into 4 pieces; I don't think I'm hungry
enough to eat 6 pieces."
Yep, They Walk Among Us!
They Walk Among Us,
and they Reproduce,
and Worst of all ............
THEY VOTE
Please send your thoughts and prayers to Nightgame as her mother past away early this morning.
I really just don't know what to say... I have always called, and thought of her as my second mom since I was 13? 14? years old. She sure treated me like her daughter. *smiles*
I just can't believe Red is gone.... I talked to her Sunday, but for just a few mintues.
Heaven has its hands full today- I can tell ya. Now that Red has come home, and back to her normal self.
She will be missed.
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Talking with Meeper and Sevenn of late- and unable to sleep at 3:30 am lead to this find...
Beep Beep!
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Ewww!
I would have taken photos and sent them to the van line guy, the husband and his new C.O. at Ft. Jackson. He must be a real winner to still be an E1.
Ya know....I am a former AF wife....we lived in base housing the first 4 years of our marriage...
When you got orders to transfer, they came and packed your stuff, that they were moving. And it had ALL better be clean when they got there. Then, once all that stuff was out of the way, EVERYTHING had to be cleaned, down to the nth degree- we even pulled the stove outside to scrub it down, so we could house everything out just in case.
I had to wash the walls
I had to strip the wax off the floors
I had to take a pumice stone to the toilet and scrub the tub down to the porcelan
If the inspecotr came through and found ANYTHING, your ass didn't go ANYWHERE- and if you weren't at your next base when they said you should be, you was AWOL- plain and simple....
The AF don't play that shit, honey, trust me...
But if this was private housing, I FEEL for you, truly I do...
And yes, I have been in some base housing that was that bad- babies and all...makes me shudder to think about it.
So while everybody is ranting and raving about how military gets treated, bear in mind, they have white trash and OTHER trash just like everybody else....
If some of you know, sometimes it's a choice in the courts down there- Jail or SERVICE- take yer pick...
*Vomits At The Thought*
Can I Just Beat This Woman?
I Swear If I lived In A House Like That I Would Shoot Myself
If you need help finding the number let me know I'll find it and the name of the strictest social worker they have available. Stupid ass people, why can't a looser like him be in the war zone?
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I do I do I do!!!!!!
If we wanted the shiney happy illusion we wouldn't actually care what the response was nor would we have the words to respond to the truth. I'd put money on her not responding. The people that do give a damn though have left markings all over your in journal, your inboxed, your saved messages, and your respective society.
You are so right Meeper. :) And I have the best friends in the world. :)
I have to say- never spoke to this woman, or if I did I don't remember her. Not worried about it.
I leave you with the old adage:
"I know you ar fine...But how ARE you?"
Well hell, I'm coming over with chocolate and a "stuffed" puppy cause I ain't paper training any animals. *hugs* Let er fly Rat, we loves you.
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I often wonder (well maybe not all that often) what exactly makes sex worth X number of dollars. Are there special tricks, measurements, taboo acts, or what that bump up the rate. In other words- how exactly can I get paid $5k an hour?
That is what I mean! For that kind of money I would lay on my back, on my knees,,, how DO you get paid that?
Must be one hell of a twat, magical even.
lol
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I know what you mean. Many that I used to think of as gods/godess, now that I'm among them & see them for who they really are. It just disgust me to be included in a category with them. However at the same time, I must realize that I'm sure there are probably a few that feel the exact same way about me.
I'm afraid I have to agree with you and I'd agree to take a test too for sire and coven master for sure. lol
Oh I agree Siredom does not carry the same sort of currency that it once did. Now you have complete idiots as Sires and coven masters who know nothing on the subject matter let alone the VR rules.
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Pouts: well that didn't work. I have a response to this in my journal.
And curse you both for making me dredge this up from the cobweb infested regions of the brain.
(Looks for the VR Duc)
Actually, the thought of a vampire duck is kinda horrifying when you get down to it. Imagine...you take your kids to the lakefront with some stale bread and begin tossing pieces to the lovely ducks who swim over, little tails whisking happily, quacking and nibbling at the bread, then with no warning, the sky darkens...WHAM! Ducks everywhere, flapping at you and you can't fend them off...blood soaking your blouse, those weird, webbed feet touching your face...kids screaming...they keep coming..OH GOD! DUUUUUCCCKKKS!
During my stay here at VR I've heard all sorts of ridiculous things, but never a quacky vamp mob member.
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FOK OFF!
That would have been mine...
Well it was two words. First started with a H and the second a N. lol
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MMMM Donuts!
Is there anything they can't do?
Now I know just what to do if I ever piss you off! We have green donuts on St. Paddy's day here! :p
I'm gonna fake being mad so maybe my staff will buy me donuts!
I'll come over and yell at them when you want more donuts! :)
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If it makes you feel any better, when I first joined the site, I saw a comment from Daire that he had never rated a profile higher than an 8. Keep in mind this was a while ago, but I think the sentiment is the same. All things being equal, I would consider that a good rate from Daire. ;)
Thank you. That makes me feel better. :)
He's Irish. :P
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Here is a napkin to wipe that brown stuff off your nose... :))))
You think? Hmmm.... if you say so. But as he will never see this, you have a flaw in that. lol
HE SEES ALL!
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Any of your friends know you will always stand up for them and Stabb is one of them. *hugs*
You know it's drama like this, that really makes me wonder how many people live their lives online and not in real time. *sigh* Sorry that they are being stinky to you!
Tell me to whom I need to pop the proverbial can of whoopass with, sugar- Puppy got your back
What the HELL? Do I need to kill someone? Stabb adores you and so do I. Ohhhhh...wait, never mind. I know what this is about. *hug* Not worth your anger, heart.
I've often wondered exactly how an online forum and site of enjoyment turns into a drama cyclone of hate. People need to get over the petty hissy fits, grow up, and get a real life to cry thier eyes about.
*Word in red not sent with letter, just what I wanted to say. Damn- that mask is tight today.*
Mr. XXXX
XXX Newspaper
XXXXXX, Ky.
Sir,
In regards to your phone call yesterday I wanted to respond in writing on this matter. So I have a record of this, so you can not misquote me, little shit. I have talked to my men that your wife encountered Showed her ass in front of and, while you are upset about them turning in your driveway, I do not see where they made a mistake. Can we say drama whore? it’s a FREAKING ass driveway- guess what? They are made to DRIVE on, dick. My men stated they never saw a tile under the driveway as the grass was up to the street, but even if there was one, they checked the driveway before they backed up twice, putting only one axle on your driveway. The truck was not heavy enough to damage, nor did it. Asshole.
As far as your concern about people using your driveway to turn around in, might I suggest a small sign at the driveway marking it as a private drive, or stating “No turns” I am sure you have seen these signs on other driveways, and we always honor them. Or better yet- put a freaking gate up, pimple on a snails ass. Bitch about something that matters- and you are in charge of what we read in the newspaper… *rolls eyes, and goes back to the bullshit letter*
Concerning the comments made toward your wife, I can only say I am sorry she was upset. If my guys was rude, then I am, truly. But taking into account your reacting to it, when they say she just stood and screamed at them, telling them to get off her driveway- which they was trying to do, I don't think they did. As she asked them for the phone number to the company, they only told her what she asked to know. And if she is that blind to not see them on the truck- how the hell did she even see them on the drive? The crew do not carry business cards, and anyone who ask them about jobs, or cost of a job, they direct them to the truck sign. Maybe they could have been nicer as your wife was upset at the time, but I do not think they overstep. Your wife needs meds, if that is all that sets her off.
In regards to your comment yesterday of doing a editorial on our company, my only comment is this. I hope the newspaper owner sees it the way you do as I will be forwarding this letter to him, pointing out the events that have lead to your threat. You are not even my customer, so you and that paper can kiss my ass. I do hope your newspaper understand the line between editorial and slander, as I can assure you my lawyer does. You are not the only one who can make threats, little prick. Thing is… I will back mine up as I have one hell of a lawyer. I am a kitten to her, trust me. She likes nothing better then to chew dicks off males.
Again, I am sorry your wife was upset by my truck turning in your driveway, and what your wife saw as a lack of concern my men showed of her emotions on the matter. She could not even call me? She told you, and you call and tell me what you expect me to do- demand me to do. And when I did not bend over backwards to kiss your ass, you threaten me. Let‘s see how far that goes, shall we? Thank you for your time and understanding.
Miss. XXXXXX Kay XXXX
CEO.
XXXX XXXXXX and XXXXXXX.
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How tempting was it to include the words in red? lol
But they can't argue with that letter. You have apologised, while at the same time let them know that should they wish to take it further, there will be repercussions to them. Yet you haven't stooped to making threats. Keep us posted as to how it pans out!
you should totally put in the red parts
ROFL Go Rat!
Does your lawyer have a license to practice in GEORGIA??
I could shore use her with the stepmother's bullshit- yours chews the balls off men, and unfortunately, mine doesn't have the balls he was born with-
Or maybe he does, and while HE is the side of a house, his balls haven't dropped yet...
OMG this is GREAT ♥
Why do some people have to be moronic assholes?
Way to keep you calm while putting him into place, and no newspaper would risk being associated with libel to even think about doing an editoral.
:) Thanks you guys! I was very tempted to leave the red in, but .... I was trying to play nice.
Yes- he knew it was a empty threat when I did not beg him not to. The threat, I am sure, has worked on others, and that is sad. Little shit should not get away with it. Reason I sent it to the owner- he might see it for what he did.
And the lawyer- she frighten me most days we talk or meet. Not a lady I would want mad at me, or meet in a court room. She is $$ but worth every penny. I just love to watch her at work. Sort of like the Female Admin on here- take no shit and smile as you put them in their place.
You exercised great tact, sis. He and his wife need to read some real news and figure out there are real problems out there that need attention and if their drive is so precious to put up a damn sign!
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Oh ye gods! Ok I can see it back when our grandparents and great grandparents were growing up and lived like you said on farms but now? Wtf? Do these idiots even know what birth control is? Do they not realize how expensive that just 2 kids are? I am a mom of two, I am a divorced mother, and no matter how much I bust my ass working and their dad pays child support, they are still expensive and the older they get the more expensive they become.
It should be illegal. Call me a Nazi, I don't care, it should be god damn illegal to have that many kids, I don't care how rich you are or who you are.
I'd like to see all women preggas 'till menopause.
EGADS... Agreed, although I have a friend who is youngest of 9 and their dad COULD and DID pay for all of them. He was MD. So the only thing I would say is- unless you can prove you can afford it, sniptty snip snip snip!!!!
How in the world does he provide for his kids? It might sound harsh but I think there should be a threshold of required income in order to reproduce. Meaning if they can't pay for their kids currently and he hasn't figured out how condoms work then he needs to be fixed just like a dog.
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Well.... he would do in a pinch. ;)
Can I borrow Ty when your done? I have some things I need him to do for me as well. ;)
When you're all done send him my way, I'll break something if need be :)
i could get you a good one, but im not sure he'd go out there and im sure you would find him attractive but sorry he's married XP
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meeper
21:56 Mar 31 2008
Damn you have balls... and I envy them.
Vampirewitch39
13:36 Apr 01 2008
Wow. That means a lot coming from you Meep. :)