If you believe some people can't suck the energy, the fun, joy out of you and your life then you haven't been paying attention. Even online they can do it.
At what point do you just stop it? Do you put yourself at the top of the "care about" list?
For me I am starting to see I have to do this or my depression will really take me back to a darken place. Sure they can be fun, great to be around. When they are in good moods. But the draining of my joy, energy needs to stop.
I have one such person in real life, lives to stress me out. Not having it from those I choose to be around? That I can say "Look, you are not in a good place and I can't help you dig yourself out of it. So I'm going to log off, read some, go do a puzzle or color a little to get some pleasure back into my life. Chat later."
If you don't understand what I'm talking about then...good for you. But then maybe you need to start by noticing how certain people make you feel.
Slept over ten hours last night. And that was just Monday. Points out to me I'm not giving myself enough time to recharge. Seems I need to get back to an earlier bedtime.
Trying to get estimates on a metal roof on one of the warehouse buildings. Really the last one that has shingles. $32,000.00 is too high so the look, calling for mote estimates are added to today's To Do list.
Friends bought over the last of green beans, corn from her garden. Dealt with the beans yesterday. 4 full gallon size freezer bags worth. Now it's 2 full paperbags of corn to clean, prep to freeze.
My hands are sore from yesterday so the phone isn't something I'm willing to grip today.
So....off to clean some corn.
Boobs came back all normal. Yeah!
Yes, if you know, you know.
If not...I'm not weird....your weird.
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Hell yeah, normal boobs!
Well it is better to endure the pain of having them smooshed than the pain of having them removed because of breast cancer and going through the pain and heartache of going through chemo and radiation. I am glad your boobies are good. Lol
I am weird, this is true...lol
So glad to hear this!
( .)Y( .) enough said!
Remember kids- don't drink the Kool Aid. ;)
Cult Leaders are so fun to watch, when they have no one to lead.
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I agree
But I want the kool aid!
All Houses posted to-check.
All Covens posted to- check
Journals read- check
Main forum reviewed- check
Stream reviewed- check.
Wheee...offline for a few days, you get way behind. Still got somethings to do but almost caught back up.
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Contrats Rat :)
I feel ya! I am on for now but back to being gone until probably Monday after tonight... maybe a few minutes check in tomorrow. BUSY BUSY BUSY traveling me! So hard top play catch up when you finally get to!
Mammogram done first thing this morning. Use to, at work, my chest was pushed against, banged against, just general work stuff. So they never bothered me till today it seems. Ouch!
The lady was asking me if I had any family history- yes, my mother. "And at what age did she have breast cancer?" I answered her without even thinking of it. "56, 58 or so." But it was as she kept updating my file that I released I am my mother's age when she had her first mammogram. When a spot the size of a pea was found. When she dealt with her own loss of a breast due to it.
Had me thinking of that as the lady did her things, taking several xray of each breast. While it was not what lead to my mother's death, it did take its toll on her.
So I wait. Be a week or so, but I wait to see if I follow in my mother's footsteps.
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*hugs*
*hugs and sends you good Juju*
The cable company did show. And I'm all hooked back up. After Matthew left, it was just a matter of getting all the little extras back online. The alexas, the ring, blink systems. I did them all but the blink....I called in for help. But not bad for me, trust me.
Then I took the time to watch a movie I was looking forward to seeing with FalsexCure. Pope's Exorcist. Great movie. Will watch again for the special effects makeup alone. The eyeball, two in the eye? Yes! The way they took the kid darker, sunken in his body, the way they changed his face shape. Worth a second watch. Take the pig out, been even better.
Then onto the new profile layout on PaganSamhainWitch vXVampre did his code magic when I was asking about how to remove the code off my main profile, he took my words and did a simple code for me. One I can figure out. :) I had two little issues putting his code in, but I figured them out all on my own. Yeah me! All looking at code, seeing the error. Few things I would change but by then it was late.
Ended the as I normally do, joking around with False on some silly subject. 🤪 you think cheesy pickup lines are bad? Try funny, odd containers for ashes of a dead body. *laughs* That will lead a whole new window shopping on Amazon from kitchen trash bags, just saying.
Now onto shower for brother. MRI in a hour.
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I watched that last night. I hope they make a follow up to it!
Sounds like a good day. :-)
That was a great movie.
It was. And yes, I hope they make more. :)
You little mother fer better show up today. Or I start with a Rat "taking to church" rant at 11:01 a...freaking ass...m.
And when you go outside to carry the cases of pop in out of the car and your sister see you on the security cams...that work, as internet is on at this time... and text you "What happen to your hair?" You know it's too red. If not her goodbye as you say got to go, talk later... "OK Bozo"
Middle finger flip to cam. Her LOL .
Family...
Seems the internet is on, running this morning. But as I tried to use the laptop to get into one of my alts, it drops. Same in the afternoons. I can use my Alexa, my security cams...but the second I try to log in or use a streaming service BAM. Can not connect.
*rat growls*
And it sucks as I have a pretty new code to show off on one of my alts. I haven't even seen it fully, on a big screen. But know I sure the hell ain't trying to change it on this phone screen.
Oh well....back to cable TV, and phone to try and do my online duties, fun. And hope the repair guy shows up Sunday.
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I certainly hope he does...this sounds like a total pain!
*kicks your internet*
Whole lot of butt shaken going on. :)
Is it bad I want a Rat one?
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Made and sent ya one. :)
lol
Thank you CTD! Love it. ❤️
Work it girl friend
Seems my home internet is out, going in out due to equipment issues. On one minute, drops next. And vr times out on my phone with all the ads. Not worth the pain to keep logging on really.
Homestead has internet, but we have lots of dr apt coming up.
And don't see me sitting on phone much.
To fix it Sunday, but they will not show on Sunday. And Monday, Tuesday, Thursday dr apts. So might be a while before I post, be around. If I'm on be here on main account.
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Our service was out until about 5 yesterday.
There was an issue with the server across the board from what they were telling me. My modem kept trying to get me to initiate with it- by saying it was a brand new equipment and service line and to activate it to start service.
Lol the tech was like "don't do it. It's broken." 🙄
Well there goes trying to get the postings I have drop the ball these last two days. Internet is down, 2nd time in 2 days. On phone, apt on Sunday to replace all the 6 year old equipment and work on a splitter going bad .
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This one has TMI so you are warned. I have a class A CDL license ( commercial driver license) to be legal in driving anything up to a tractor trailer. But for a few things like fuel truck, school busses, hazard materials. Those I would need to pass a written test on, as they carry certain rules governor them. Endorsements.
While I have not driven a tractor trailer in many years, a straight job was always one I was more confident with. (Think school bus) I did pass the written test many years ago when it became law (100 thank you...Proud of self) but got grandfather into it on the driving test. But since I was driving trucks since I was 16, not a big issue. Did I take the tractor trailer one when I couldn't pass the driven? Maybe. I would of had to practice more, but sure I could of. But as my Father was the driver on his trucks, I had no concern. Could I do it today? With practice. The 13, 18 split shift, air brakes, downshifting would come naturally, the backing up, control of the movements of the trailer with the 5th wheel not as much.
Ok- so I do not use this license as not driving commercial. But each year I do the physical just to keep it active. $100.00 but worth it as I know I could step out the the job field with a clean driving record, able to pass any drug test, no criminal. And pretty much have my pick of a job. If you watch the news you would of seen KY has a huge shortage on school bus drivers. Within a week I could take the testing, and start driving those little ones around. Or a limo. I always wanted to drive a limo. "Big black limo!" From a movie I always loved, My Chauffeur.
9:00 a.m. at the place I go to for my yearly testing. Yes, I could have my regular Dr. do the testing, but learned long ago to let a business set up just for these testing do it. They file it with the state, know the rules. Don't get me started that story, another time.
They lady who does the test is late to work but paperwork keeps you busy. Asked to give a urine sample to test my sugar. I knew it was coming so drunk a large glass of water this morning with food, and was sucking up a themo of water. And could not do it. Mind you, this is a place next to our truck stop so not the most niceties place. Told to have a seat, and they moved on to next man.
Talk about embarrassing. One man offered to walk over to the truck stop, get me a coffee as it always makes him pee. No, thank you. And as I am PM here with False, who would find that hilarious, I had to share with him I couldn't pee! Woukd loved to seen that random information look on his face. lol
( Yes, you in my PM's you get the real me. )
So the lady ask me if I believed I could give a sample now. All looking at me. I said maybe. I mean for goodness sake, I chugging water. And I feel like I'm disappointing my fellow truck drivers. I SHALL FILL THE CUP!
2nd attempt- nope. But learn I regret the ton of brussels spouts I ate last night. Now this bathroom has no running water, only to pee in...so I went and told the lady no luck. But believe I need to go to the bathroom.. (I warned you!!! TMI) . Of course everyone hears me. Made me want to say "Hey, everyone poops, don't judge me" :D
So I leave, go to truck stop. Use the bathroom, and yes I peed. Damn it. Got two large bottles of water and returned to the testing. Only to drink one, still no lucky. By then the one guy who is left is just giving me pity smiles. Or at least I take them as pity. Let's enjoy my discomfort. lol
The Dr started my test, which passed easy enough. Told to go back out to the waiting room, drink. I did two large waters...and still no urge. Dr and her nurse just smiled as they suggested ways to get it flowing. So it was jumping jacks, knee lifts per Dr request. All with a water baby aboard. Yeap, did the trick. I passed, got my card, and left with a " I Peed!" grin on my face.
Only to have peed like 5 times in the last few hour. Damn shy bladder. But it also pointed out just how dehydrated I was, as the Dr warned me. * looks at water glass she is holding*
Whatever.
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Lort! So now your bladder is like.... we're gonna pee allllll day long! I was just a little shy to perform for you earlier, but I am here for you now! lol!
Lol!
And this is the first thing I read when I wake up...absolute WTF perfection! Lolololol Luvs you Sis!
Morning Tuesday! 😃
It's going to be a good freaking day.
I will admit you whooped me Monday. The self doult, the sadness, and grief did beat me down. Starting way before dawn, you just kept at it. Drilling in my head all my failures, fears, flaws. The 3 big F's.
Well by midmorning I had another F. As in fuck you. Calmer, collected, and capable in my actions. Questions put to rest, a calming influence with me. A understand of my own actions in my life.
And just how freaking awesome I am. :) Joking, always have that inner voice nagging.
You left me with a headache, wanting to hide in a cave, alone. But I didn't. Well....I did hide a little, but with those I wanted to talk to. Then narrow down to one that put me to bed with hopes of a goodnight sleep.
So did it work? Yes. Till about 4am. But then I have sleep under me, and was able to shut you up. Sleep was fitful but I'm able to face today with a smile. Maybe with just a little wickedness.
So Tuesday, let's play nice.
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You're wonderful :)
You ARE freaking awesome. I adore you.
You are amazing! :D
I suspected you may have been having that sort of day yesterday, but I knew that, as always, you would in time concur and march forward. It is no joking matter that you are a star in the night and awesome is an understatement!
Gosh guys.. thanks. :) Yes vX- you and another always catch my very very early morning pity party for one. But can't keep a good woman, or Rat, down.
And am always a message away from help, no matter the time.
Don't you dare question yourself again! I know your reasons as good as you and wouldn't have done differently.
I love you!
💜💙💙💜💜 Always love yourself and know that others love you just as you are!
And the system message error keeps giving. 😀
Now I'm loving these from a new member of the site. In the message, due to her job, she said she flirted with talk on how to dispose a body. Oh honey, you are on the right site. 😉
Cheesy pickup lines? You decide. I don't believe she is even close.
_______
I actually know a few bad pick up lines that are quite science geeky (I'm a scientist) and really bad...
"Are you DNA helicase? Cause I want you to unzip my genes"
and one more suggestive: "can I stick my pipette in your tips?"
and some non geeky thing:
carve your phone number into a popato and roll it towards the person to flirt with :D
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Hey, I’m writing an article on the finer things in life and was hoping I could interview you.
Ohhh.. that one is not super bad, but still a little cheesy.
I will forever love the classic Joey pick up line "How you doin"
I think OS wins -laughs-
Yep, that one is a classic. :-)
Very much so. And I can so see him doing it? lol
It is very touching when someone gifts you with words, written in the hopes that I would find them appealing. FalsexCure knows I am a fan of his style of word crafting. So much so I, while not hounding, do drop hints that he is a hidden jewel in the vast darkness of the 'lurking' site.
This morning I was gifted with two stories that building off a character, loosely started, was based on him. The BoogeyMan. And the plot has grown. In a way it is the two of use growing in our friendship of many years. But also the realm of the darkness is a escape of my own harsher ways. He understands this and the written Boogeyman has developed its own life in a way.
He gifted me two version, ever the perfectionist, and I posted the one I liked best in LadyVampir journal as that is the home of the storyline. But I wanted to save this second version, as the written word is a gift that can not be compared to any other gift. Frozen in time nothing will change the words, or the expressions behind them at the time they are written. I thank you False. Your friendship, acceptance of my many sides, means the world to me.
**This is written by the talented xXBOOGEYMANXx himself, as a gift to me. I chosen to share his words.
The moon hung low in the sky, casting an otherworldly glow upon the world. Within the confines of her chambers, LadyVampir stood in contemplation, the dark dress before her like an invitation to a forbidden realm. Her heart raced as she hesitated, feeling the weight of its allure. Tonight, she would take a step into the unknown, embracing the touch of darkness that had long been stirring within her.
With a steadying breath, she donned the dress, the fabric clinging to her like shadows, feeling as if it were a second skin, whispering secrets only she could decipher. The transformation was undeniable. The radiant princess now stood transformed into an embodiment of enigma and allure, her very presence shrouded in the mystique of the dress's enchantment, her own beauty only being enhanced.
As she stepped into the moonlit garden, a current of anticipation swept over her. The shadows seemed to dance in tandem with her newfound allure, weaving an atmosphere of danger and exhilaration.
And there, emerging from the depths of the darkness, the Boogeyman materialized before her. His presence was magnetic, drawing her toward him like a moth to a flame. His eyes, twin orbs of intensity, reflected the very darkness she had come to embrace. "Ah, LadyVampir," he purred, his voice a velvety caress that sent a shiver down her spine, "you wear your darkness well."
LadyVampir met his gaze, her heart pounding in synchrony with the rhythm of the night. The touch of darkness within her resonated with the energy he exuded, creating an electric connection that defied their contrasting natures. It was a dance between light and shadow, a mesmerizing intertwining of their essences.
Extending his hand, the Boogeyman's touch carried with it an anticipation that sent a thrill coursing through her veins. With a mixture of curiosity and trepidation, LadyVampir allowed her hand to rest in his. The moment their skin met, an electric charge surged between them, a shared acknowledgment of the illicit desires simmering beneath their respective facades.
"In this night," the Boogeyman whispered, his voice dripping with a seductive promise, "we are bound by the tapestry of darkness. It is enough that we are alone together. Just the two of us." Together, their movements became a hypnotic dance, a slow and deliberate exploration of their connection. Each step echoed the rhythm of their forbidden desires, weaving a saga of intrigue and allure that danced in the moonlight's embrace.
As the night deepened, and their dance continued, the first traces of dawn's light began to streak the horizon. The Boogeyman's form began to waver, his touch growing fainter as the shadows receded. With a lingering gaze, the Boogeyman dissolved into the shadows, his form seamlessly blending with the darkness from which he emerged. Alone amidst the receding night, LadyVampir felt the darkness within her slowly ebbing away as the enchantment of the dress gradually faded, replaced by the gentle embrace of daylight and the memory of their dance etched upon her very soul.
As the sun ascended, LadyVampir was left with the knowledge that she had tasted a world beyond her own, a realm of allure and darkness that would forever remain a part of her, a testament to the fleeting connection between light and shadow, innocence and temptation.
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He has a way with words. :)
Wow, this is awesome!
absolutely beautiful....
Remember you asked for them: Cheesy pickup lines. If you have one not sent to me, tell us in the comments. :)
Speaking of pick-up lines:
I'd give an A because you're awesome;
I'd give you a B because you're beautiful;
I'd give you a C for your confidence;
I'll give you my D because you Deserve it.
You're a lot like my little toe, because I'm gonna bang you on every piece of furniture in my home.
Hi. Umm...I seem to have lost my number. Can I have yours?
Do you want to hear boring pick-up lines or would you rather go someplace where I can pin you down?
I'd call you beautiful, but beauty comes from inside of you and I haven't been there yet.
You're so hot, even my zipper's falling for you.
Are you a drill sergeant? Because you got my privates standing at attention.
Nice dress. Can I talk you out of it?
Hi. I'm going to have fantasies about you later, and I just needed a name to go with the face.
Do you drink soda? Because you look sodalicious.
You know, if you're feeling down, I can always feel you up.
Your hand looks heavy—can I hold it for you?
Are you a time traveler? Because I absolutely see you in my future.
Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend material.
I thought this was a (bar/restaurant/etc.), but I must be in a museum because you’re a piece of art.
You know, your smile has been lighting up the room all night and I just had to come and say hello.
Hi, I’m (your name). Do you remember me? Oh, that’s right—we’ve only met in my dreams.
What does it feel like to be the most gorgeous girl in the room?
I can’t tell if that was an earthquake, or if you just seriously rocked my world.
I just had to tell you, your beauty made me truly appreciate being able to see.
If you were a fruit, you’d be a ‘fine-apple.’
I don’t know your name, but I’m sure it’s as beautiful as you are. I’m (your name).
You are astoundingly gorgeous, but I can tell that’s the least interesting thing about you. I’d love to know more.
The sparkle in your eyes is so bright, the sun must be jealous.
One night I looked up at the stars and thought, ‘Wow, how beautiful.’ But now that I’m looking at you, nothing else can compare.
If I had a nickel for every time I saw someone as beautiful as you, I’d still only have five cents.
If beauty were time, you’d be eternity.
I think the only way you could possibly be more beautiful is if I got to know you.
I don’t know which is prettier today—the weather, or your eyes.
I swear someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
In my opinion, there are three kinds of beautiful: Cute, pretty, and sexy. Somehow, you manage to be all three.
Yeap- the pickup lines are bad... lol
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If I told you that you had a nice body would you hold it against me?
Cheesy. A 5 out of 10. :)
Oh that is bad... lol.
That is dress is so becoming on you...if I was on you I'd be coming too!
Are you a parking ticket...because you got FINE written all over you!
Not mine- sent to me.
Were you a girl/boy scout cause you sure know how to pitch a tent!
Why don't we go camping and make this in tents (pronounced as intense)
Kismet is from a song I heard this morning, post by Vodka. Swear I need to just make a playlist and call it V.
It stuck with me, so. .. kismet.
Then PhoenixXAngel was kind enough made me an avatar to go with it. :)
And have to say, you guys need to work on your pickup lines. The ones I have had sent to me, cheesy mess. Some just laugh out loud awful. 🤣 But then that is what was asked for. I'll post them if anyone is intrested. Let's just say the imaginary trophy would not been mine last night.
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BUT would that trophy be made of CHEESE!?!
Yes, do share! I could always use new material.
LOL, glad you love the tunes! I shall keep em...coming....hahahahaha
Haha...sorry folks. I hit the wrong button. :)
FalsexCure and I have been sharing corny pickup lines today, thinking who could come up with the worst ones.
I won by the way as I can not do a decent one to save my life.
Sorry again....just go about your night. Nothing to see her but an embarrassing blush from me.
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I probably could have come up with something cheesy just to win but I'll certainly let you take the trophy for this tonight. -laughs softly-
Winner winner... chicken dinner! Now... I kinda wanna know what you won with... LOL!
See I might have fallen for this one: We should go out for a coffee sometime because I definitely like you a latte.
-chuckles-
Dawwwww, you want some coffee with that sugary pick up line?
See? That is what I have to put up with. lol. And you know I hate the stink off coffee.
Honey are you a bank loan? Because you have my interest.
Oh... oh I know: Roses are red, my face is too, that only happens when I’m around you!
* rolls eyes* Excuse me, is it hot in here or is that just you?
:)
Ok how much more corny can you get then that? hahaha
Yeah, ok you still take the trophy tonight.
There of course is the oldie.... Did it hurt when you fell? Fell? Yes fell from Heaven.
Ohh...that is an oldie. Oh well, time to take my trophy and go to bed. :)
I hope it is a giant trophy made of cheese!
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LOL! It took me a second to understand but now I get it. LOL!
One of the sexiest songs ever!
hahaha... I never though it would be a question. :)
Since last week when the weather man said we would be cooling off a little, I have waited. So this moring at 7:30 a.m. when Alexa informs me as I'm opening my eyes that the current temperature is 64 degrees, I smiled. A cooler day. I threw back the cover and sheet and started my day.
Visions of a campfire at night, flames licking at the wood like a hungry beast. The smoke, a gray that blended with the darken sky filled with stars as the moon was but a sliver of light as it is waning toward a new moon. Chants coming out of my phone as I took in the cooler air, legs tucked to my chest, letting myself be pulled into the dance of the flame.
All this wonder and joy filled my head as, 28 minutes later, I open the door on my way to the homestead, expecting a small shiver of the first cool morning to touch my eagerly awaiting skin...and get hit by the muggy hot steam bath of the last 4 months. Temperature was now 69, per my car. And it's 95% humidity.
Well played summer, well played. But just know your days are limited. September is just around the corner.
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That is just not right! What a horrible prank to play!
Humidity and curly hair, what a delight!
You know it!
Oh, it will be summer here until November. Then it will be cold. We no longer have fall. :-(
Can't wait for the cooler, crisper evenings
Me too sugar, I so wanted a sweater day!
im sorry but hopefully fall hit there for you sooner rather than later so you can enjoy the days like you want
The longer I feel like this, the more I'm ready to sing...
A B C D E FUCK YOU...
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My Monday theme song!
Uh oh... Is someone pissing off our Ratty? Do we need to gather the troops?
No troops. Just a little self reflection.
If I have to be dressed, and at the homestead, at 4:53 a.m. at least the 6 fireman and 2 EMT was funny. Who knew Sponge Bob would be a running joke.
:)
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Love to know the whole story behind this.
Is everyone ok!!!!! I don't know what happened but sounds like there is something interesting story there.
We are all alright. Just a slip, fall. Sis is fine, just sore.
Glad that everyone is okay
OMG, I am glad that everyone is ok!
It only took the first few minutes of episode 1. The Witcher will not be the same without Henry Cavill. 💔
I know he dies, don't tell me. ... no spoilers!
Ever just had a song stick in your head? I have, this wonderful great mind worm. Had to dig out the Halestorm to get it out.
Song- Who Let The Dog's Out? Woof Woof.
Guess it's the doghouse of my mind, holding me to my musical standards.
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I get tunes stuck in my head all the time! It drives me insane!
LOL, happens to me all the time!!!
When my daughters listen to the same tunes over and over again it gets stuck in my head ugh.
And now I'm looking up who let the dogs out, thanks lol
Grrrr...never had such a problem to get my boobs squished. Between the hospital saying they need a order, Dr saying no you just call. ... I'm about ready to call it done.
But Mom had, fought, lost a breast to cancer at my age so I guess it's back to calling the Dr. office again.
Good to see the medical field is so streamlined, caring.
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I'm going through the same.
Both my mum and aunt had breast cancer and the aunt had a breast removed because of it. Same age as me. They keep trying to tell me it's not necessary to be checked. 🙄 My mom has had it twice and my aunt three times. Four people in my family died from it.
But not necessary. Umph.
That is so dumb. Because of the history, we need to be on top of it. Go get your boobs checked Ducky.
I have little family history of it and I still do it once a year, they should not make it this hard for any grown woman to get a breast exam with or without a doctor's order, one per year at least!
I will be more diligent on my check ups and I have done the booby thing and it is not fun. I just wish there was a way to do it without the pain of it, but I rather have the pain and not go through what my mom did.
FalsexCure made me something. :) Thank you, I love it.
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I can't really claim credit for it, the image was AI generated. I just happened to come across it and thought it fit you so I changed a few prompts before going in to fix and change the eyes myself. The outside blackout frame was later added as well.
It looks great! Love it!
nice work falsexcure
Very very pretty
Nightshade Banes Coven, a coven in my Alliance, held a contest. For the one who has the most forum post, wins a month membership. I won. O.0
Yes, I freaking talk a lot, enjoy posting.
I had another chance to notice this as I had to dig out a message out of my message center just now. Thank god the Moonie was able to give me a date, so that narrowed the 4500 plus messages down somewhat. :)
The Golden Bachelor? Now that one might be worth watching, older men do approach the relationship differently.
So do younger men, if they have a clue on what you find attractive. Those who take the time to understand what makes you seek more or turns you off so badly.
Clue are there I have learned, well... if that person is willing to share. Me? I share a lot. I mean... A LOT. :)
But it take someone to really care, to really be willing to take the effort to read between the lines, to see what I need to be happy. To stay interested.
So yes- I do think any older man, in age or actions, have a leg up on the rest.
Another day out in the heat and...well...people. Brother dr. Apt at 11am, the going to a few stores. Tennis shoes are needed, along with eggs and cream cheese. :) Always forget something on the Kroger order. Bank too.
Sure I'll add more to this day, always do. I know I have to catch up with the maintenance man as a light fixture fell off a ceiling in a bedroom. Yeah, question that one . lol
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??????? LOL
Why are Monday always the longest?
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Because it is the furthest away from being the weekend again. SUCKS!
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Theodora
14:22 Aug 31 2023
Completely understand.
DiamondRose
21:27 Aug 31 2023
I know what you mean
Vodka
01:23 Sep 01 2023
I fully understand this as I have a friend who does this, I love her but I cannot be her savior.