Oh this is priceless! Darkfear11 is now darkfear999, and he decided to message me today with a bite (or three) and a "hello sexy".
Mm-hmm. (channel your inner drag queen or Oprah audience member for that noise)
So, I gently reminded him of our last conversation, where he told me to drop dead, to which he said "oh that was my brother". LOL!
When I called out that bit of bullshit, he backtracked to it being a "friend" instead.
Mm-hmm.
When I get chance, I'll post the whole hilarious exchange. In true darkfear fashion it takes place over several different message threads (honestly, why do people do that?) so I need to piece it together.
Stay tuned for the next exciting installment of Darkfear: The Boy Who Never Grew Up!
So it looks like darkfear11 has a second profile: darkfear999. Similar profile, similar MO - perhaps he's been blocked by all the women on 11 so he's starting again?
From a psychological standpoint, it's a fascinating case. A man of 40 (apparently), completely unable to function as a decent human being. Narcissistic, entitled, immature, and completely oblivious to the word "no" or any variation thereof.
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I just saw your post. He's been bothering me as well, but I find he doesn't like being told off but he does back off. Insult him as he would you and you find he quickly disappears. It seems he only responds to brute commands. That new profile has already viewed mine, but no message. I think his want for attention is being outweighed by his cowardice and no desire to be strung up by the ears.
He is a fascinating case, I do agree. I've dealt with this type before. It's best to put them in their place early on.
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wanna block me and find out? i can give honor in about a half hour.
Thanks, but no need. I've already had it confirmed that purple can still leave honor comments when you've blocked them - unless you're a premium member, in which case they can still leave comments but you can choose to hide them from public view.
Needless to say, that pisses me off a bit.
ya thats stupid
Reformatted for easier reading, here's my oh-so-pleasant conversation with darkfear11. Granted, this isn't the worst I'm sure this odious being is capable of, but it is rather telling as to his nature.
It started off, as these things often do, with a back and forth bite (him, then me). Then this...
[my thoughts and inner monologue like this]
darkfear11: thanks . how are you today. are you single
Le Moi: Why does my being single matter?
[For the record - no, I'm not single. However, the amount of people who ask this rather personal question straight away then act like I'm not worth talking to just because I'm already 'claimed' really pisses me off, so I thought I'd try a different tack]
darkfear11: i just asked ok. i was wondering if you were single is because i would like to date you.
[now if he'd phrased this like "I was wondering if you'd be open to considering a date" or similar, then I'd have probably reacted differently. This was more like a "I want to purchase this object" and that got my back up, hence my snarky reply]
Le Moi: Oh, and do I get a say in that too? What if I don't want to date you?
darkfear11: yes you get a say in it. do you want to date me yes or no?
Le Moi: Aren't you engaged to someone? [according to his profile he is]
darkfear11: do you want to date me yes or no?>
Le Moi: First tell me why your profile says you're engaged to someone yet you're asking me to date you. Does your fiancee know and agree to you asking women out on here?
darkfear11: i havent changed my profile yet .
Le Moi: Changed your profile - you mean you're no longer engaged? When did you split up?
darkfear11: we split up 2 weeks ago
Le Moi: Oh, rebound. Every girl's dream. Not.
darkfear11: why are you being so mean.
[at this point, he sent two other messages, both calling me 'sexy' and containing his phone number, asking me to call him, in two separate conversation threads. So my reply looks harsher than the reply here warranted as I was reacting to those too]
Le Moi: Fuck off creep, I'm not interested in you.
darkfear11: you fuck off you cold hearted bitch. drop dead
And there we have it folks, the lovely darkfear11. This is fairly tame compared to some conversations I've has the displeasure of (Cornholio, I'm glaring at you here), but imagine one of our younger members getting this.
Oh, and as I write this, darkfear11 has visited my profile yet again. Are you liking all this attention princess? :D
Since I posted those entries about darkfear11, many others have come out of the shadows with similar stories. Why this odious being hasn't been banned from this site yet I don't know, but to show the admins a little of what he's like, here's my conversation with him. I implore others to do the same - show everyone what this, and other, creeps on here are like! I know this isn't the worst he's done.
This started with him sending me a bite, I sent one back, then...
(Image not working, I'll add in a text version when I get chance. Sorry to everyone who had commented so far - I have saved them and will add them on!)
Ooh look, VR's resident creep has come to visit me yet again! Darkfear11, what's the matter princess? You miss me? :D
*update* and back again! Aww bless your heart
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LOL He's been doing this shit for years; in fact, this is my journal entry about him and a message I received from him that I posted over 3.5 years ago. Haha
Ok, let's see if we can answer all of darkfear's questions. *rolls eyes*
1.how old are u
Hmmm, old enough to sodomize you with a machete.
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2.where u from
Some place you'll never be.
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3.are u sexy
So I've been told, but considering you're likely only into things with four legs, you probably wouldn't find me that appealing.
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4.do u have skype,webcam,yahoo messanger
What the fuck is messanger?
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5.do u have a cell phone
Sure, I'll give you my number as soon as I get my lobotomy.
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6.do u work
Towards becoming a parole officer.....which I'm guessing you'll need when you get out of prison for some type of sexual offense. P.S. - Don't come to me.
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7.do u have a sexy body
I have a few actually. In fact, I hear one screaming from the basement right now. ;)
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8.do u have sexy titts
Yeah, but they'll never be as big as yours.
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When is this repugnant dumbass going to learn that the women on here have no interest in his disgusting, disrespectful advances?
Great answers! Sadly, scrotes like him don't have to answer for their behavior on here, they just get blocked and move onto the next female profile. So they never learn.
He hit on Lily... again. Course when she turned him down he calls her a bitch. I told Lily today to block him which she did. Problem solved. You ladies should not have to put up with this you; block him.
Yeah...problem is, creeps like that don't care about getting blocked because they just move onto the next one. Blocking also doesn't stop them leaving comments on your honor list either.
That lowlife should not be allowed to roam around scott free, sexual harrassment is illegal and its also in the TOS under member conduct. He should be banned.
I totally agree. He's not the only one on here like this either, but other than blocking - what can you do? When I've reported harassment like this in the past on here I'm just told to block.
Same, I reported the scumbag as well because he targeted two of my droogs, they have blocked him but there is nothing stopping him from moving on to the next and so on. Its illegal and a violation of the TOS, yet the admins don't seem to care.
Well perhaps if enough of Vr's female members who have been harrassed by that parasite, speak out then maybe the admins will have no choice but to acknowledge it. Failing that I suppose you could report the site itself to the proper authorities because I doubt the law would tolerate a website that allows/ignores illegal activity, well at least I assume it won't. I believe there was even a pedo on this site before and this is a site that allows 13 year olds to join, not good at all. So yeah, there is lot bad stuff going unchecked on this site.
Woo, two creeps visiting in one day! Darkfear11 and Cornholio - I honestly don't know which one is worse. Thankfully they're both blocked so I don't need to put up with their shit.
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Yes same here and he calls you a bitch for turning him down geez grow up
Little boys don't like being told no!
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Agdistis
21:22 Nov 29 2017
Yeah, he offered to make me his "queen" yesterday. (I'm a trans dude, and already a queen ...)
I told him I was in a committed relationship (the only thing that gets an awful man to back off is the revelation that she's another man's property ...) and he respected it and apologized.
... and then came back today to bother me again and try to get into my pants, and when I told him to stop I got profanity.
B L O C K E D
PseudologiaFantastica
22:16 Nov 29 2017
That's exactly his MO! Little boys don't like being told no :D
TheArtistRose
04:48 Nov 30 2017
He gave me his number lol. I'm hardly even on here. Odd.
Werewolfofthenight
18:16 Sep 05 2018
This darkfear guy sounds like a real arsehole
PseudologiaFantastica
18:25 Sep 05 2018
Completely. Though he's calling himself darknight89 now. Still trying to harass me into dating him and insulting me when I say no.