You know, sometimes you can be a totally insensitive bastard. And right now I don't like you very much. God forbid my feelings get in the way.
"I'm gonna look" .....nice.
Last night Pinja brought me home Calla Lilies. Apology flowers. At the rate we are going I could have my own greenhouse by the end of the year lol. Now, if I could just figure out how to get these upgraded to jewelry .... ;)
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hmmm...try a little sniffling and some tears this might get ya neckless.
I thought those were death flowers lol
I try to learn from my mistakes. I own up to them, try to understand them, why I did it, why it is indeed a mistake or an error in judgment and/or action and apologize. I don't make the mistake again. I most likely hurt someone the first time. Continuing the same mistakes only lead to one thing.
YOU on the other hand...........not so much.
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That my friend is all that that we need to remember, to learn from our mistakes.
its a hard lesson learned but sometimes one we need , but some people never get it. loves ya Hun.
You know,I will second that entry because it is some thing I have seen for myself about you.
I cant and wont say anything about the other party cause I dunno who or what and like it that way.
If we didn't make mistakes we would have nothing to learn from. Hope all works out for you.
Sometimes though it is difficult to learn from the first time event if you do really like a person, as we so often forgive them..
Yes mistakes are to be learned from and also to be forgiven, because they can be all to easy to make.
I suspect we all have made some right clangers in the past and will keep on doing so.
There has been a recent issue in my personal life that has made me realize that I judged my ex-husband Jason wrong concerning the same issue. It has been turned around on me. And now I see that what I thought was him being controlling was in reality him just missing and needing me and what he asked of me would of been a small sacrifice for me but would of made his heart ache a lot less. I see now that I really hurt him.
Karma is a bitch and I guess it's true that we never stop learning. I can't change the past but I can take this lesson and try and grow from it.
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Karma.. There is always a reason for that. Don't be too hard on yourself Pandy, and well thanks for the Birthday woshes.
Karma.. There is always a reason for that. Don't be too hard on yourself Pandy, and well thanks for the Birthday woshes.
yes don't be to hard on yourself, learn from this and what you have now will grow. Lots of positive energy your way =^-^=
Rejection and/or lack of interest in the most intimate of ways is devastating and very damaging to the relationship.
I try to put on a "complacent" face but the truth of the matter is that you have no idea how much you are hurting me.
It's leading to a recipe for disaster.
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I am sorry to hear things aren't going well.
Dam *hugs*
*shares the rum and cherries*
*slides you over the bottle of jack I am drinking from tonight* Rejection does suck and yes it is painful - especially when you love the person whom is rejecting you. HUgs
I'm also keeping my fingers crossed that all goes well soon, once the kinks are smoothed out.
Every night I go to bed by myself, alone. I thought you said we would never have to sleep alone again? Instead you stay up to play video games, AGAIN. Not like you don't play the minute you get up every day as it is. You average 4-6 hours a day.
Get your priorities straight. But maybe that IS your priority.
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Video games are fun lol
Men...can't live with them...can't legally lock them in the basement and make them suffer...lol
Video games are fun and the issue is not to lose track of time while playing them, or play them together perhaps!
Mrsban won't have me go to bed with her at the same time because I always fall asleep first and fart and snore. So I have to wait at least an hour before I can snore and fart on her : (
He will probably kill me for telling this but I just can't resist hehe ;) Pinja and I were wrestling around, tickling and tormenting one another when he thought he would get the upper hand and just pick me up and toss me over his shoulder. Well he went to grab me, started to lift and SHAZAM! He farted. Like really loud. I told him to go check his pants...LOL.
You have to remember. This is still the part of the relationship where no one feels comfortable doing those bodily functions around one another, it was hilarious, I laughed so hard I cried *grins*.
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LOL (:
I have never bothered about farting or belching in the early stages of any relationship which is why I spent most of my life single lol!
Psst...did he poop?
I didn't ask lol
That's cool! We all need those moments to lighten the load, if you know what I mean. Laughter eases a lot of the tension.
It wasn't supposed to be like this. It was supposed to get better. Do we stay together just because we don't want to admit defeat? Are we just too stubborn to not want to see he truth of the matter. No one is happy.
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no easy answer to that question.
That depends on what you both want and where in the middle you both meet!
Self-esteem? That would be the easiest for you to believe wouldn't it? When the truth of the matter is that it is about love and respect for your partner when you and your so-called friends have it down to a game, a one-ups-manship. So you can pat each other on the back like little boys and say look what I did.
Tell me that's not the truth. How is watching tv while having sex a turn-on? And in case you haven't figured it out, it's NOT a turn on for the women. I'm disappointed and disgusted that you would even let it cross your mind.
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I'mma jump in here and push my little nose where it definitely does not belong and say that; if you guys perhaps sit down and say this stuff calmly to straight to one another it may be resolved quicker, and very probably take the sting out of each of you reading the other's public journal entries directed at you.
Whoa run-on sentence.
Again, I soooo know this isn't my place so--apologies profound. But you guys are so cute, arguing doesn't fit. Haha . . . haaa.
I know. But I am really angry and hurt at the moment.
I can imagine so. That's reasonable and natural.
But I can see it from his point, too. . . . I've been thinking of posing some, erm, activities to my guy. . . . I don't want to put him off and if he doesn't want to that's cool. I just don't want him to think I'm sick or anything for suggesting it.
Ugh. It's all kind of a lose-lose situation from both sides.
I don't like the idea of sex/love making while watching a TV. Yes listening to music but not watching the TV.
How can one focus on the object of desire if they are watching TV...maybe it will mean the man will last longer ^^ as they are thinking of something else lol
My point exactly Ray :)
I agree...no damn TV...and while we're at it, I don't really want any music either. Basically, I should be hearing only one sound...
Would you watch tv while having sex with me?
Apparently I have been told that all men think about it. If you are so distracted or chose to watch tv while having sex with your partner then obviously the sex isn't all that good!!!!!!
So tell me boys and girls...me or the TV?
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>.>
I've done that before...
And I'm sure most if not all guys have at least thought about having sex while watching tv...
Now actually doing it is another story... or asking you to do it... "hey baby, you wanna ride me while I watch tv?" yeah... that's basically his death warrant right there... =.=
What is so hot about watching tv while having sex? If that aren't focused on the moment then that kind of says it all.
Distracted? No, I recall closing the door so it couldn't be a distraction. I also recall engaging willfully, not once asking you to ride me or be ridden while I watch tv.
Sorry to generalize, a lot of guys that I know have joked about it. Not every guy, can't prove that.
The sex is great, but you can go ahead and continue to let your self esteem be attacked by your own interpretation of my words.
Why do people feel the need to multitask and choose between the 2?...if it's during the superbowl then ill have to go with tv however if it's just an old episode of law and order ill go with sex. lol
It can only be love making...no TV that's just not right.
I think I could literally streak across the living room stark naked, stop, touch myself quite naughtily and he would just tell me to move he can't see. Heh.
The things you learn about someone when you live with them.
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heh. Awesome :P
NO! that's not awesome.... :P
things not so good?
She was teasing. I'm not even watching tv lol.
Though me thinks someone needs a german sparkle party now. I'll get my dancy pants.
Well with what he plans to eat tonight it sounds like he blow a hole in the chair, never mind you sweet lady hehhe x
No, you are playing XBox heh.
perhaps stripping infront of the tv ?
hey! Ob and I want to know if he,s blind or not.cause if not someone needs a serious beating.
What man in his right mind would ignore something like that, lol?
Hmm the Xbox is great though I know what one I would choose!
Theban...lol!
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