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Warning - Rant Time

20:57 May 27 2009
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You know I hardly ever read someone else's journal and then comment on it in mine except for maybe Rat and Cat and we often refer to each other's journal becuase we share similar events.



But today I ran across someone's journal that I actually can not remember the name of becuase I had never seen it before. The very first sentence caught my eye and has well....pissed me off royally.



"I used to want to do this in real time. Be a therapist that is. It seems I don't need a degree to play one though. I have no problems with that."



I read a bit further and yes indeed she did mean a therapist as in counseling.



I have no problem with people being good friends and being a listening ear and all that. But I do have a problem with people "playing" a therapist.



Why? Becuase it has taken me 5 years to get a BSW (I couldn't decide) 2 more years to get a double Master's degree. MSW and MAPA



THEN I took a huge national test and paid someone to supervise me for 200 hours of consultation and then took another national test.

The supervision lasts a minimum of two years.



So far we are looking at 9 years of education.

On top of that I have to do continuous hours of education to keep my liscense.



I have worked at my craft of being a therapist. I have worked inpatient psychiatric and chemical dependency. Done outpatient services, consulation for children's services, supervised others and now teach so that other students can be good therapists.



After all that.......I read that someone PLAYS at being a therapist? Do you know what damage you could potentially do?



When you are a therapist you have someone's mental health in your hands. And worse case scenario, you damage that further and they kill themselves or someone else. Could you live with that?



I could not.....that is why I was EDUCATED and TRAINED in how to BE a therapist. And I am GOOD at it. But I would never attempt to PLAY at counseling someone when I did not know the first thing about it.



My suggestion to you is if you think you are that good........get the education and training and be a damn fine therapist and quit playing at it.



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sahahria
sahahria
22:24 May 27 2009

Amen. I feel the same way about my profession.





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
23:17 May 27 2009

Ohhh they hit a hot button for you. Damn people getting the birdy all upset.





Contessa
Contessa
00:55 May 28 2009

Slides Birdie some chocolate... you tell em sugar!





RedQueen
RedQueen
07:16 Jun 21 2009

People who "play" at serious things like that make me want to grab them by the throat and shake them. You have every right to rant. It looks like they are making light of all your hard work, and that is bullshit.





 

17:58 May 27 2009
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Note to self...NEVER mix

Arby's roast beaf with Grippo's BBQ chips, deviled eggs and LEMONADE.....



*rubs chest and stomach and feels the fire grow*



And this is AFTER taking protonix.....SIGH....

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Sinora
Sinora
18:38 May 27 2009

Wow...you do like to live dangerously don't you ? lol





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
18:54 May 27 2009

Ok- I said to eat the eggs... the rest was your own doing. lol





Nightgame
Nightgame
20:14 May 27 2009

Did you add BBQ sauce to the roast beef too? omg!!!





RedQueen
RedQueen
20:24 Jun 05 2009

*runs for the chili dawgs*



good LORD child- if you're gonna nuke us, give us a BIT more warning...LMAO





 

17:42 May 18 2009
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May is such a hectic month in my world.


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meeper
meeper
21:07 May 20 2009

It will be over soon enough. Hope you make it through with your sanity :)





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
00:45 May 23 2009





 

03:36 May 10 2009
Times Read: 768


I really HATE full moon days on the psych unit.



14 new admits. I am EXHAUSTED.



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animefreak09
animefreak09
03:51 May 10 2009

I can understand exhuastion.





KCRC
KCRC
18:25 May 10 2009

I guess that's where the term "Lunatic" for those with mental health issues originated!





Nightgame
Nightgame
01:34 May 11 2009

Sorry sugar I wish it had been a better day for you :(





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
04:38 May 12 2009

You can ask, anyone that works in emergency services. During the Full Moon, you are busy as hell. Put your feet up hon. It won't last forever.



 

21:09 May 06 2009
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I have discovered - again - that sharing feelings with people is not always allowed for me.



You see...I seem to be perceived as being strong, put together emotionally at least, and not in need of a listening ear. Why? Because I am a social worker...I DO counseling and therapy and education for a career.



So when I need someone to listen...what I usually get is:



*You already know what to do about that.



*You already know what I think about it.



*Huh.....so....let me tell you about.....and proceed to tell me about THEIR issues.



*Well it is your own fault you are the social worker..fix it. (Even if it is what someone does to me)





Well you know what folks. ...



I CAN NOT FIX EVERYTHING FOR EVERYONE



I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS (especially if I am not even on the damn premises)



I SOMETIMES NEED A LISTENING EAR TOO - WITHOUT JUDGMENT AND WITHOUT FREAKING INTERRUPTION WITH SMART ASS COMMENTS.





LUCKILY I HAVE THIS JOURNAL IN WHICH TO VENT.



Ok, I feel better now. Thanks for listening to me journal.

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xxEmaeraldxx
xxEmaeraldxx
22:41 May 06 2009

I can empthaise with you.. it sucks, don't it..





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
01:22 May 07 2009

We may not be as close as I am with Cat and Rat, but they will tell you, I do listen well and I am always here for you.



KCRC
KCRC
02:45 May 07 2009

I know what you need...





*HUGS*





Nightgame
Nightgame
19:47 May 07 2009

Phone works, ears open, mouth shut.... what you waiting for? :)





Sevenn
Sevenn
16:20 May 08 2009

Why does a counselor need to vent? O.o



You know I just had to do it...its like pokin a sleeping dog...which I also do =) I'm a charmer!



Sounds like you DO have a network of people who care for you and will listen. I always tell my very close friend who is a career social worker that he needs to be careful NOT to internalize those messages about "physician heal thyself" and remember to talk to those people who are in his network if he needs it. ;)






 

Playing with a program......

17:59 May 05 2009
Times Read: 811


Images of me.....what do you think of the blue eyes?




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imagesinwords
imagesinwords
19:42 May 05 2009

I like the blue eyes :D





KCRC
KCRC
00:22 May 06 2009

I have no good way to put this.



Hubba Hubba!





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
04:47 May 06 2009



I like them both!!!! Beautiful!!!




Nightgame
Nightgame
13:58 May 06 2009

Wow those blue eyes jump right out at you but you're beautiful to me in all of them :)





 

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05:25 May 03 2009
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