I am an adult and as such my profile reflects that... so no under 18’s please!
I’m 42, a career-woman, independent and self-sufficient. If you can see past the 30kg’s I seem to have picked up virtually overnight, I am apparently not too bad looking, 1.68m tall, brown eyes with auburn hair (at the moment, but tomorrow, who knows!).
We are all human, we get lonely, we need friendship, companionship, love, and understanding. I have existed in virtual isolation for almost 2 years, and it’s time for me to start living again. Time to dream again, dare again.
I’m here to meet likeminded people and to make genuine friends!
I am a lady kinkster of extreme contradictions, broadminded in some ways, yet at the same time very old-fashioned, and a hopeless romantic at heart. I have had to accept the fact that I will never be able to have a plain vanilla relationship ever again.
I can be very impulsive, sentimental too, can’t read a good book or watch a film without crying (in all the right places of course). Love nature, animals etc. I’m creative and an artist. Also over-sensitive, moody, impatient, distrustful, and at times downright difficult. I do not suffer fools gladly.
I have a number of very dear Gay, Lesbian, Bi-Sexual and Tran-Sexual friends whom I adore and support fully.
From a personal sexual orientation point of view, I like my men as straight as arrows. If kink was politics, my campaign slogan would quite likely have been: “Me woman, you man!”.
I don’t pretend to be something I’m not and expect the same from you.
If you are in here for quick, cheap thrills, please stay away. Ditto if you think BDSM is an easy way to get laid...
I am a very proud member of The Coven of Ancient Eqyptian Mysteries.
Honesty, respect, loyalty, courtesy, dignity, trust, safety, discretion, decency, communication
Dishonesty, liars, abusive people, senseless violence, disrespect, cheap-thrill seekers, people who exploit others for self-interest, cheating married / engaged /involved spouse's / fiance's / girlfriends, cybersex and e-mail games
Abhor child porn and bestiality!!
My fav quote not of my own creation:
You can’t change your nature. You can’t contain it, you can’t shift it. You can only be what you are meant to be... (Addicted to Murder)
My Quotes:
I ache, therefore I feel.
I bleed, therefore I live.
I dream, therefore I endure.
I hunger, therefore I am.
Those inquisitive souls whose eternal thirst for knowledge, truth and understanding guides their steps on the path of consciousness and discovery - With honesty, compassion and tolerance for the exquisite diversity of all beings.
Alt, Astronomy, Astrology, BDSM, Bearded Dragons & Iguanas, Cats, Celtics, Crystals and Gem Stones, Divination, Dragons, Drumming, Elemental Beings, Energy Work, Erotic Pain, Esoterica, Fantasy, Firedancing, Goth Culture, Healing, Holistic Medicine, Life, Lycanthropes, Magic / Magick, Medieval, Meditation, Metaphysical, Mythology, Native American Spiritual Beliefs, Nature & Animals, Paganism, Rituals, RP/RPG/ Roleplaying, Rugby, Shamanism, Sigils, Spiritualism, Stones, Supernatural Occurences, Tazmanian Tiger/Wolf (Thylacinus Cynocephalus), Tattoos, Valkyries, Vampires, Vikings, Were-Creatures, Werewolves, Wicca, Witchcraft, Wizards, Wolves
Computers & Technology, PC Gaming, Arts & Crafts, Drawing, Oil Painting, Roleplaying, Music, Dancing, Drumming, Reading, Web & Graphic Design & Development, Writing Poetry(mostly Dark), Playing Keyboards, Good food and good company.
Favorite Music:
Very much depends on the mood I am in. Its gotta have good lyrics and a beat that touches my soul.
Genres:
EBM, Electro, Gothic, Gregorian, Hard Rock, The lighter side of Heavy Metal, Industrial, Latin, Meditation, Old School Rock
Fav International Artists:
Beautiful South, Billy Idol, Bob Marley, Bon Jovi, Bryan Adams, CCR, Crash Test Dummies, Deep Purple, Def Leppard, Dire Traits, Duran Duran, Enya, Eric Clapton, Good Charlotte, Guns 'n Roses, Led Zeppelin, Link182, Meatloaf, Meredith Brooks, Midnight Oil, Phil Collins, Queen, Robbie Williams, Roxette, Savage Garden, Sheryl Crow, The Eagles, Transvision Vamp, Within Temptation
Fav South African Artists:
The Legend : Koos Dup, Machine OEM, Falling Short, Duskant Ombliksem, Love jones, The Slashdogs, Running with Scissors, Seether, Springbok Nude Girls, Karen Zoid, Mathys Roets, Fokofpolisiekar, Fly Paper Jet, Chris Chameleon, Fahrenheit, Louise Carver, Mark Allen, Prime Circle
All time fav songs:
Bed of Roses (Bon Jovi), On a Hot Summer's Night (Meatloaf), Cocaine (J.J. Cale), Love Me Tonight (Beautiful South), Blonds in Black Cars (Autograph), Never Ending Story (Within Temptation), Smoke on the waters (Deep Purple), Two Steps Behind (Def Leppard), Have you really loved a woman (Bryan Adams), Old Time Rock 'n Roll (Bob Seger), Bitch (Meredith Brooks), Tubthumping (Ghambi Wambi), Sultans of Swing (Dire Straits), Beds are burning (Midnight Oil), Sledgehammer (Peter Gabriel), Truly Madly Deeply
Favorite TV Shows:
Who's got time to watch TV? Yeesh.... life's too short to waste vegging in front of a telly
Loved some of the series though: The X-Files, Charmed, Dark Angel, The Twilight Zone, CSI, Battlestar Galactica, House MD, Smallville, Heroes, The Outer Limits, Ripley’s
Movies:
Genres:
Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Thrillers, Suspense, Action
Fav Actors / Actresses:
Sean Connery, Nicholis Cage, Arnold Swartzenegger, Bruce Willis, Eddie Murphey, Johny Depp, Milla Javovich, Robin Williams, Sylvestor Stallone, Tom Hanks, Robin Williams, Johnny Depp, Hugh Jackman, Kate Beckinsale
Fav Movies Seen:
Flubber, Goticka, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Love Actually, Matrix, Monster inc, Powder, Rocky, The Green Mile, The Fifth Element, The Butterfly Effect, Van Helsing, The Crow, Wolverine, Underworld, Dragonheart
I am a ferocious reader and never seem to have enough books to read.
Apart from books related to my fields of interest, the rest have to be as far-out and fantastical as possible - to allow escape from my otherwise way too orderly, logical, controlled existence!
Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Erotica, Suspense, Thrillers. No non-fiction unless it pertains directly to my interests
Fav Authors:
Anne Rice, Charlaine Harris, David Eddings, Dean R Koontz, Irene Radford, Isaac Asimov, Jacqueline Carrey, J.R. Tolkien, Janny Wurts, Laurell K. Hamilton, L. Ron Hubbard, Margaret Weis & Tracy Hickman, Miller Lau, Robert Silverberg, Robin Hobb, Stephenie Meyer, Stephen King, Stephen Lawhead, Terry Pratchett, Tom Wolfe
Fav Books Read:
Kushiel's Dart, Mission Earth, Overtime (Tom Wolfe), The Ravenloft Series, The Story of O, All the Anne Rice books, Anita Blake – Vampire Hunter series, The True Blood series, The Dragonlance series, The Twilight books
Like-minded friends and kindred spirits from all over the world and always... knowledge!
Always nice to meet new people... I love seeing the world through other people's eyes and discussing the various cultures and beliefs.
UTC/GMT Offset: +2 hours
My favorite colors just happen to be black, all shades of red & white. I also believe that the written content of a profile is a lot more important than the multimedia aspects thereof.
I describe myself as honestly as possible on my page, and even though I will 10-2-1 eventually create an alter-ego for the site, it will be confined to journal entries.
So please do not rate me low just because I do not have lots of graphics and pictures and have not written from a fantasy persona perspective.
The artwork on my page and in my profile is all my own work and based on photographs of my original oil paintings.
My poetry and musings can be found in my journal.
All comments and ratings are appreciated and reciprocated!
Please do feel free to rate my profile and portfolio. You are also more than welcome to have a look at my journal and add it as a favorite if it appeals.
It you decide to do me the honor of adding me as a friend, kindly let me know so that I may return the favor.
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