Glamournatrix's Profile at Vampire Rave.

I generally do not post many details about my personal life on my profiles, and, over time, I have shortened this section as very few people thoroughly read profiles. I invite you to get to know me, and, as you do, you will learn more about me. Additionally, I am a private person and carefully choose with whom I share my life. I am an introvert and I ordinarily find it hard to confide in others, especially people with whom I interact on any social website. While VR is near and dear to my heart, I have found it particularly difficult to trust most who frequent this website.
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Most people who know me personally think I must be kidding when I tell them I am an introvert; however, I assure you, this is a true statement. If you asked someone who knows me reasonably well offline, they would likely describe me as outgoing, extroverted, and social. My job and hobbies have forced me outside of my comfort zone for long enough that I have become a situational extrovert. Yes, that is an actual thing.
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Because this profile is called Glamournatrix, I feel somewhat compelled to write about my intimate life, without revealing too many private details, of course! I am not going into a laundry list of my kinks and limits, so you can message me if you would like to know more about those things. I will respond if I choose.
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After seeing something that Dita Von Teese posted, my sub called me his Glamournatrix. Once I had finished correcting him and reminding him that I am not “his,” he explained. He said that the term described me perfectly because I am a glamour diva; I have a passion for long, metallic or glittery nails, perfectly pedicured feet, high heels, real nylons, curvy corsets, and make-up. I have a penchant for latex and leather, mainly red and black latex. I prefer whips, riding crops, and leather floggers to paddles, although I have a stunning leather paddle crafted by my friend, Kateryna, who resides in Ukraine. My most special implements have been gifted to me by subs and friends within the community; anyone can purchase for themselves, but receiving a handcrafted gift or a gift chosen or designed for you is undoubtedly memorable.
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I have always been of the dominant personality type, but I have become far more patient with my subs and much less easily frustrated as I have aged. I like the mystery and unexpectedness of the BDSM lifestyle because the more you explore your kinks and desires, the more you learn about yourself; anything can happen. I love to create elaborate scenes and allow my submissive(s) to be imaginative within the scene by choosing implements or specific items of clothing. Working on a scene together deepens the bond between D/s and amplifies the excitement of the experience.
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Being a Domme may seem easy, but it requires a lot of intuition, balance, intelligence, self-awareness, compassion, communication, responsibility, and respect. I emphasize communication because I do not feel it is possible to have an excellent D/s relationship without comfortable, frequent, and heartfelt conversation. After all, the goal of being in such a relationship is the mutual pleasure of all parties involved. Sex isn’t a performance — it’s something you share with someone. It is impossible to know what turns the other party on without open communication. Dominant does not mean domineering as so many people, both inside and outside the lifestyle, believe. My goal is to gently influence my sub’s thoughts and desires while being mindful and considerate. My sub and I are continuously learning from each other to create a fulfilling, satisfying, and mutually beneficial dynamic. I believe that a good Domme recognizes that the sub’s willingness to give up complete control ultimately allows for the Domme to have power and control.
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I try to live the lifestyle as much as possible; unfortunately, COVID and social distancing have put somewhat of a damper on that. Also, my job allows for minimal sexual expression, so I cannot live the lifestyle 24/7.
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I have been on VR for about ten years now. I do not remember how I came to find VR; I know that I did and was immediately drawn to the site. Despite taking many breaks from logging in, I have always returned to VR. It is a place where I feel free to express myself in whatever way I choose. Although the site has changed drastically over the time I have been a member, I still love it here; I enjoy experimenting with coding and different profile formats and being able to express the darker sides of my personality.
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Because my life off VR leaves little time for frivolity, you will find me to be quite silly, often joking. I am also quite perverse (see above) and have never met a dirty joke I did not like. Although I am difficult to offend, I have a few ground rules, even for basic communication. Treat me with respect. If you respect me, I will respect you. The converse is also true. If you disrespect me, expect to be disrespected in return. Expect backlash if you call me, my pets, family, or loved ones names. I do not put up with people’s bullshit, whining, or drama. I choose not to associate with grown men and women who act worse than teenagers.
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I live in the real world, where there are no delusions. I am not a vampire, were-creature, or anything else otherworldly, and, news flash, neither are you. I cannot turn you, so please do not ask me to do so. I am also not here to edit or evaluate your profile, so please do not ask me to do this either. I come here in my free time for enjoyment and to talk to a few close friends that remain on the site.
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A message on this site is the same as any social note. It has several parts, including a salutation and a closing. Use all of them.
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Do not send me a cut-and-pasted message that you have sent to every female on the site. Do not message me and say “hi.” I despise non-substantive messages. If either of these things occur more than once, I will probably block you.
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Please ask me before adding me as a friend or adding my journal. This is largely so that I can keep up with who has added me. I like to be reciprocal and add those who have added me.

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This section is my least favorite part of any profile, but I feel I must mention my thought process regarding rating profiles. My rating approach has changed over the years and has metamorphosed again recently. In the past, I have rated compassionately, generally giving a 10 to those who attempted to decorate their profile. You see, I realize that not everyone is a coder by profession or has the equipment and software to code a profile elaborately. I was always conscious of that when I rated. However, recently, I have rethought my rating policy due to some unnamed individuals rating low. I would not describe this shift as revenge rating but more constructive criticism as to how I see your profile rather than “rubber-stamping” everyone a 10. If you are truly new to the site or are not a premium member, I will consider that when rating your profile.
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The VR Manual states: “A valid rating is between 1 and 10 with 1 being the lowest score and 10 being the highest. How you choose to rate a profile is totally up to you. Different members will have different criteria for profile rating. When you rate a profile, it will have more weight the higher your status level.”
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If you use a tiny font that I have to find a microscope to read, I am not rating your profile high. Likewise, if you utilize a color scheme that makes it difficult, if not impossible, to read your profile, you will receive a low rating. If you do not possess a basic knowledge of grammar and spelling, there are free sites such as Grammarly that you can utilize. There is no excuse for poor grammar or misspelled words on a profile, in my opinion. If you make changes or edits to your profile, you are always welcome to ask me for a re-rate which I may or may not do. Notwithstanding the previous, if you rate me a 10, you are much more likely to receive a favorable rating from me.
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If you need assistance with graphics or coding, you are always welcome to reach out. Because I love to code and make graphics, I am usually happy to share my knowledge. I also do not use expensive software to create my graphics. Everything I have learned regarding coding and creating graphics is self-taught, with occasional help from a few dear friends.
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Although I detest focusing on negative matters, I need to address those on the site who are spiteful and purposefully rate profiles low. I believe those who down-rate due to some irrational, dreamt-up policy do so because they are miserable people, throwing a tantrum because someone disturbed their King/Queen of VR crown. Enjoy your perceived power over others. These childish, negative drama queens derive joy from antagonizing other site members by passing judgment on their creative works without considering the merit of the profile’s coding, graphics, or text. Besides a few admittedly neat coding tricks, these boorish individuals do not have elaborate profiles and have only a few rudimentary pictures to adorn their profiles.
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From dealing with children for years, I have found it best to ignore their tantrums and histrionics. But they will come; they always do. And, except for this statement on all my newer profiles, I will quietly take my 1. You are entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to mine. However, I recommend seeking counseling from a licensed psychotherapist; therapy is even available online now. Also, you may wish to consider stepping away from the computer now and then, keyboard warrior. The sunlight might do you some good. Don’t forget your sunscreen. Good skincare is essential even for troglodytes.

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