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Types of Social Influence
There are three main types of social influence: conformity, compliance, and obedience. Each type involves a different degree of pressure, ranging from subtle to overt.
Conformity: Adjusting one’s behavior or thinking to align with a group. This is often driven by the desire to fit in or avoid standing out.
Compliance: Agreeing to a request, typically from someone with no formal authority, often due to persuasion or social norms.
Obedience: Following direct orders from someone in a position of authority, often regardless of personal feelings or beliefs.
Social influence often thrives on cognitive biases, the mental shortcuts we take when processing information. These biases lead us to make decisions that may not be fully rational, but instead shaped by external factors like group behavior or authority.
Some key cognitive biases that play into social influence are:
Bandwagon Effect: The tendency to do something because others are doing it.
Authority Bias: Placing more value on opinions coming from authority figures, regardless of the content.
Confirmation Bias: Seeking out information that supports pre-existing beliefs and ignoring contradictory evidence.
We've all heard the stories of Fatal Attraction - where there is an instant and passionate connection, yet it quickly spirals out of control and becomes dangerous. While parts of these tales are usually exaggerated, there is some truth to the idea that a seemingly innocent attraction can quickly become an all-consuming and potentially life-threatening force.
It all begins very innocently - sparks fly, hearts flutter and passions ignite. We may believe that this person offers us something we've been desperately seeking for so long and, for the first time ever, we feel beautiful, desired and powerful. But what begins as joyous bliss can turn into paranoia, anger and eventually paralyzing fear.
A disastrous relationship will cause irreversible damage if both people do not seek help in order to make it right again. A pattern of possessive behavior, manipulation and domination often occur in such encounters and can swiftly turn dark, especially if one partner refuses to acknowledge their controlling behavior and take responsibility for their own part in the exchange. With no outlet to express their feelings or have their voices heard, feelings of intense envy, dominance and possessiveness manifest and can lead to unthinkable acts like physical violence or dramatic broken trust.
Unfortunately, too many people stay in a situation like this for far too long before reaching out for help. Perhaps it's because their sense of safety has been completely diminished, or the guilt from the money, power or other resources abused has prevented them from leaving.
What are the signs that a relationship may have gone too far? If one or both partners experience any of the following, they may be in a fatal attraction:
• Extreme jealousy over friends or family
• Frequent accusations or suspicions without evidence that the other is unfaithful Relationship books
• An obsession with spending every minute together
• Compulsive possessiveness of possessions or money
• Refusal to accept "no" or to respect boundaries
• Extreme demands to do things against one's will
• Insensitive comments about appearance or lifestyle
• Outbursts of rage when challenged or questioned
• Refusing to accept responsibility for actions or feelings
• Unwarranted threats of violence
If these signs are present in an intimate relationship it may be time to consider seeking professional help as soon as possible. The effects of this kind of relationship can be devastating - leaving both parties feeling broken and betrayed. It takes strength and effort to make an effort to escape this downward spiral, but it is not impossible. Passions flare then subside in the end.
Fatal attractions can leave a person with deep wounds but healing is possible. Learning about one's own triggers, needs and motivations as well as forging a stronger connection with oneself rather than expecting somebody else to fix everything can also help move through and past the tragedy that a fatal relationship can cause. Awareness is key. For those stuck in this kind of dynamic know that you are not alone and that no matter how dire your situation appears, you have within you the tools needed to make a change.
All to often your in way to deep before you see a warning sign. Keep in mind anyone can pretend to be something they are not to gain access to your life. This can happen to anyone. Watch out for your family and friends. If you need help yourself, the first step is the hardest. Most people are in the most danger when they decide to break away from someone that has become a fatal influence. So many go thru this behind closed doors. With those closest to them oblivious to what is happening to their loved one. There is always hope. Reach out to someone you trust.
Most know me as LadyBloodMoon. I have been on this site for decades on one profile or another. I enjoy being apart of societies. If you would like one of my profiles in your society, just message and let me know. Many Blessings.
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