~Me, Myself, and I~
Simplicity, I find, is the best thing in this world. Why complicate things with too many variables. So a simple explanation of myself is as follows:
I'm complicated, loving, trustworthy, loyal. I try to be the best person I can. I'm learning not to judge others, but I still am quick to shut people out my life. I Do Not believe in vampires and werewolves. But that's my own personal belief. We can agree to disagree.
I am an independent woman. I have a job, and place. I am an intelligent young woman and would appreciate it if people treated me as such. Treat me how you'd like to be treated and we'll get along just fine.
I am a very possessive woman. What mine is mine. I tend to take control over social matters. And I definitely do not play well with others who like to be in charge of things. When I'm home I lay all my dominance at the door.
I live in California. Was born and raised here. I love it. I am from a very very small town in Northern California that most people have never heard of.
~VR Family and Friends~
angelofdarkness is my best friend. She means the world to me. You hurt her in anyway, and there will be hell to pay!
LascivoCuore is a very good friend of mine. She has stuck up for me many times from a lot of the jealous females on VR. She is a sweetie and if I could do anything for her, I would.
~Annoyances~
I find it annoying when people I do not know add me to their friend's list. But that can not be helped. Just know it annoys me.
I can not stand people who do not spell correctly. Did you choose to be stupid, or were you genetically pre-destined to be? Learn to spell and use proper grammar. Then you may speak to Me.
I can't stand people who make a mockery of the BDSM lifeforbidden. Now, I'm not saying that I live the lifeforbidden, but I am an avid participant. When people are online talking about their "pets" and their "Masters/Mistresses" that they have never met before... it sickens me to the core. Get a life you idiots. Just because you may like bondage or roleplay/have cyber sex...does NOT mean you are a Master/Mistress. Read up on BDSM and the life forbidden.
Online relationships really bug me. It's one thing to tell someone you care about them. But a whole different thing to declare your undying love for someone you've never met face to face. How can you fall in love with words or a voice?
These little girls on here who like to play like they are older. And even worse, the guys who decide that just because they are online, they won't get into trouble for having cyber sex with this 15 year old girl. NEWSFLASH! On the internet, AOC is 18 across the board. Fucking pedophiliac monsters.
People who say they are "juggalos" and "juggalettes". It's basically for white people who want to act ghetto. It's stupid and those people have no class, no culture. White Trash/Ghetto is what comes to mind when I think of it. I'm not knocking ICP, I am knocking the people who take it so seriously that they end up being uneducated pigs.
~Rating & Adding~
I use all the numbers in the rating system. If you don't like it, too fucking bad. I will still give you what I think you deserve.
~If you claim you are anything but human, you get an automatic 1. Also if you claim you were born before the 1900's, you will receive an automatic 1 rating.
~If you claim you are someone who you are not (ie. Movie Star, Celebrity, bodybuilder etc...) you get a 1. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. I will NOT re-rate.
~ "Juggalos" and "Juggalettes" get an automatic 1 rating. Plain and simple.
~If your text blends into your background and I am unable to read it, you will not get over a 5.
~If you have graphics upon graphics with barely any writing, you will get no more than a 5.
~If I have to scroll for hours to get to the bottom, you will get nothing higher than an 3.
~If you are a new member and have tried to add things to your profile right off... I will take that into consideration and rate you a bit higher.
It seems that Premium Members feel they are entitled to a 10 rating. That just is not so when it comes to me. No matter if you are premium member or a regular member, You get what I think your profile deserves. Same goes for Staff. Give me whatever you like. It doesn't really matter. A higher number is great, but a lower number isn't going to make me cry in a corner like most of the people here.
Feel Free to add me. But it does not mean that I am going to add you. I don't like shit to be bulky, and adding 100 of you people that I don't know, don't like, or don't talk to, seems pointless.
~My World. My Life. My Desire~
I am a submissive woman. Please do not confuse that with weak. I relinquish my own self control to One who I choose.
BDSM is a compound acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&s, D/s, or Ds), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM).
BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. While not always overtly sexual in nature, the activities and relationships within a BDSM context are almost always eroticized by the participants in some fashion. Many of these practices fall outside of conventional sexual activities and human relationships.
BDSM encompasses many activities, including — but are not limited to — forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual roleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange, as well as the full spectrum of mainstream personal and sexual interactions.
An important distinction is that BDSM is not a form of sexual abuse — although some BDSM activities may appear to be violent or coercive, such activities are conducted with the consent of all partners involved. BDSM relationships and practices are exercised under the philosophy of "safe, sane and consensual" (SSC), or the somewhat more permissive philosophy of "risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK).
Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the fact that the participants usually take on complementary, but unequal, roles. Typically, participants who are active — applying the activity or exercising control over others — are known as tops or Dominants. Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners, are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who move between top/dominant roles and bottom/submissive roles—either periodically within a relationship, or from relationship to relationship—are known as S/switches.
BDSM is often practiced within the context of a limited and defined encounter known as a BDSM scene. Such scenes often have ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior, forms of address, codes of conduct, dress codes, and many other aspects of theater and role playing. As such encounters are often, but not always, at least partly sexual in nature, people outside of BDSM have a tendency to view it as a form of "kinky sex".
Some participants incorporate aspects of BDSM into their everyday relationship(s) with their partner(s), especially those who practice dominance and submission or power exchange (especially Total Power Exchange). For these individuals, BDSM is part of their lifeforbidden and in some discussions is referred to as "The Lifeforbidden".
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