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Unfortunately that's how it goes most of the time. The problem I have with my family and close friends is I put my expectations in them to understand, then when they don't it lets me down. Sounds like that's what happened to you.

Just remember this......don't set your expectations high in people that are disfunctional within themselves. They don't mean to hurt you, but they do, so guard your heart, take pieces and bits of what they say and form your own opinion. You're not crazy, you're just upset, but most people don't understand the difference in the two.

What I have noticed is that in predicaments like you are in, it is better to find a really close friend that you know won't judge you for the situation that you are in. If you think your friends or family are going to judge you too harshly, then I find that when I am in those situations I will write down what I am feeling on paper, and reread it until I feel like I have gotten it out of my system. Then I will burn the paper, almost like doing a spell to release what it is that is bothering you. I have also talked to a few people are here, and most people I have met are very understanding and try to help out with what they can. Feel free to talk to me about anything. Although I don't know you personally, I am a great listener and tend to give awesome advice. I will not judge you for what you are going through. You are a brother to me regardless if I know you or not.

That sucks but it happens to me all of the time.............not all of the time but a great deal of it, those closest to us take liberty to judge us more so then others would. BM