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so as of today 5/30/10 I became single because Ian wasn't man enough to break up with me in person or over AIM instead he broke up with me over FaceBook hahahaha. He is definitely not a man hes definitely a child because a real man wouldnt care if i hung out with my friends and didnt tell him. he was mad at me because i hung out with a bunch of people and didnt tell him about it because it was a last minute ordeal and he said he couldnt trust me so whatever i really dont care because im happy. i hate being single but im happy. but its pretty low that he dumped me over FACEBOOK

So yesterday i had to work in 91 degree weather (ferheinheight), it didnt bother me because i was inside and it wasnt to bad inside because sams club has air condition which i was thankful for. sadly my friend Brent had to work outside with carts all day until 3:30 and that really sucks for him. anyways after work my friend justin picked me up and we went to go see the movie "Date Night" with Steve Correl and Tina Fey and i must say that was a funny ass movie. id definitely buy it when it comes out on dvd. but right now im patiently waiting for Alice In Wonderland to come out June 1st and I'm definitely buying the 1 in 3D. does any1 know which 1 is in 3D or should it say on the dvd case?

So i finally went on a date with Ian but it was a double date with our friends amber and billy :D. it went really well becuz as soon as i got to the mall to pick Ian up i went to buy these awesome fucking fuzzy socks with jack skellington on it :D and then found amber and waited for david to drop ian off at the mall. then from there we went to sams club because ian wanted to meet some of my sams club friends. that was fun because my 3 favorite people were working Jon, Eric, and Brent. then we went to the Jade Buffet (a chinese place) where Billy met up with us and the food was good and Ian actually paid for it :D that made me happy but thats because Ian and i had a big ass argument about a whole lot of shit the night be4 but its all better now. then we went to walmart where we talked with Tim and met up with David again and David met my Grandma haha yes my best friend david met my grandma. Walmart was the best part because David took a toilet plumber (or whatever those things are that your supposed 2 use for your toilet in case it gets plugged, but it was clean cuz it was from the store) and stuck it to my belly and tried plumbing me hahaha it was funny you'd have 2 have been there for it. but over all it was a great night :D

so i have a question to ask everyone. first i'll start by saying im angry about this but anyways i wont rant i just want to know the answer to this.



when a guy takes a girl on a date is it supposed to be where the girl wants to go/where she likes to go or is it supposed to be where the guy wants to go/he likes to go? (mind you this if he asks you on a date)?

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Delirium
16:20 May 12 2010

I think it should be a mutual decision.

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sippa
04:49 May 18 2010

well, it should be somewhere you both want to go but he should have the courtesy to ask her where she wants to go

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Risque
21:52 May 18 2010

I agree with sippa

should be a mutual decision on where you go what you do and if split the bill in half or he pays for everything

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Jens
00:40 May 21 2010

Depending on how the two participants of the date are, the date could go a number of ways. If the woman wants to do certain things and the man doesn't, it would be very respectful of the man to do what the woman wants to do. However, the woman may also prefer that the man "treat" her to a special evening. Or they could both agree to do something they both like to do.



So it can vary because each of us is either passive or dominant. Two dominants will drive each other nuts, but do passives will enjoy a quiet evening together. More often than not, one is dominant and so that person usually gets to choose.



I say, just go on dates and see what happens. Sometimes they may go great other times they will go totally wrong, but mostly they will be just okay. :) That's part of life, I say enjoy the surprise of finding out.

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gah i hate my fucking father 2day i was cooking the spaghetti noodles that mom asked me to do and of course i did it wrong and he got all blah and made me feel like i was stupid. nxt time he van fucking make it himself. i really cant wait until i can move out. luckily i have good friends like Brett, Ian, Malky, and several others (if i didnt put you in here let me know what your name is and i'll edit it)

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InsanityHasPigtails
04:43 May 11 2010

Is it just me or do all dads have to be assholes?

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TheDARKNIGHT
19:11 May 12 2010

your dad should have talked to you not make you feel stupid

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Jens
00:42 May 21 2010

From my point of view, if the people don't like what the cook prepared, then they don't have to eat it and can fix their own food. :)



I never understood what complaining about it does... becsides make the cook angry... and you don't want to piss off someone who cooks for you. ;)

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wow that was an amazing movie it actually made me jump a few times. i think its funny that i've seen the original and it still made me jump a little bit. it was very different from the original tho even tho they did a few of the same things in this 1 that they did in the original. but personally i really think Robert Englund did a better freddy he was definitely funny and scary at the same time and idk i guess i just prefer him 2 be freddy then this guy jackie although jackie did an amazing job at scaring but i still prefer robert englund as freddy maybe cuz im used to him being freddy. this movie was mostly based on why freddy became freddy and how he had died and why he's killing the kids in there dreams. where as in the original it just talked about it, it didnt show what happened to him and i personally like how they did that. but i definitely suggest to go see it. i think it was a good movie and i was happy that i got to go see it.

today was really great i love working at sams club because every1 there is nice and there's no bullshit drama or gossip. i've known this guy named jon that works there for a little bit but 2day i got to talk 2 him more and he now has my number. then the person that works at the cafe in sams club named joey finally started talking to me and i find hes like my friend on here named Brett but a little different. Brett is a great guy and im happy i met him i found a lot of things that i have in common with him :). Also today the new nightmare on elm street movie came out and im so excited i might be seeing it wednesday! im just a little disappointed that Robert Englund isn't playing as freddy but thats ok because i'll give this guy a chance :D