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10 entries this month
12:42 May 27 2013
Times Read: 766
I am going to just keep this open, and write with
my words ... my thoughts with what I am feeling at this present time.
I am merely doing this for me...but obvious opening this for anyone to read. Why? Perhaps I'm not alone with some of my thinking, and perhaps I am.
I really don't care at this moment what I write or the truths I say.
Read it or choose not too...
I will still sleep the same regardless of YOUR decision.
I am sick of being the quiet one, and keeping my business private, when that's not respected on the other end.
First off -
There are two sides to EVERY story.
Just because someone has the gift of the gab,
the desire to GAB doesn't mean what is being spewed is accurate, and or correct.
Not two people will remember something the same,
they both will take different points out of what was received.
People makes mistakes, simple.
I am the mellow chick.
I will let A LOT slide, trust me. It's not for "fear" of anything, it's just I
don't give a fuck enough to fight about it.
I choose my battles.
Saying that, I should say too that I have a wicked temper, and when I'm done, I'm DONE. I end it. Whether it's a call, message, meeting...
doesn't matter, I exit. Don't like it? Don't care.
I look at things from both sides. I'm fair, and open to many things.
I get frustrated when I'm not being heard . Like BADLY
I get angry and close off.
I'm a lover. I like to think a good one at that.
I'm submissive... I'm passionate and I can be that classy, respected lady on your arm at the "Office Party" and I most def. will be the whore in the bedroom
you've only ever dreamt about.
I'm educated
I work my ass off, daily.
I've build a business from a dream that once lived within me.
I wish I could share some, but I just don't open that much.
I don't have to brag, and say "hey look at me" that's just not my style, even though there is nothing wrong with that way, it's just not my way.
Meh that's enough about me.
Oh and I've said it before it's HON short for "honey" and not HUN.
=D
Slain
12:03:56
May 27 2013 It's really easy to say "woops" I made a mistake...
The real trick is actually owning up to it like an adult, and understanding and accepting the results of that mistake. Not just living your life past it like you never made the mistake.
Of course you get angry when Not being heard... NO ONE likes being chucked aside like they didn't matter... no one like being ignored and no one likes their story to be down played and belittled to mean little more than capricious whining.
You let slide what ever you don't feel strongly about. Because you don't feel the need nor passion to stand up for whatever it is you claim when it is challenged by someone who can challenge it. But maybe, you have to give a shit about that someone for it to matter in the first place. I don't know. And you don't have to say "hey look at me!" because when you do "do " something about a person that challenges you... you've already made sure people are already looking.
And looking at things from both sides? well... How does that work again Hun? When a person tells you, you are hurting them... you continue about your way regardless of what they've shared?
You don't have to answer to any of this, as you've made it a point to show and repeat numerous times... Hell... if this post even exists after you read it it'll be amazing.
I refuse to lie to you... and I won't sit back and let you pretend the things you've done have not been hurtful.
signed- The Child.
Rant anyone?
09:17 May 27 2013
Times Read: 839
Oh I have to just throw this out there...
To you "ladies" or "gents" that take the selfies while you're on your bed...you know the kinda picture I'm talking about...lips slightly open, lust in your eyes...
...and you have
NO SHEETS ON YOUR MATTRESS
are
fucking
GROSS!
Disgusting for that matter!
Make your bed, pick up the clothing everywhere...and if you're too lazy to do that, get creative with angles, and don't show the stained mattress, without bed sheets.
It's just NASTY and wrong.
-end rant.
Interesting
08:04 May 26 2013
Times Read: 909
Last one for the night...
Can you see a common theme?
"An essential part of true listening is the discipline of bracketing, the temporary giving up or setting aside of one's own prejudices, frames of reference and desires so as to experience as far as possible the speaker's world from the inside, step in inside his or her shoes. This unification of speaker and listener is actually and extension and enlargement of ourselves, and new knowledge is always gained from this. Moreover, since true listening involves bracketing, a setting aside of the self, it also temporarily involves a total acceptance of the other. Sensing this acceptance, the speaker will fell less and less vulnerable and more and more inclined to open up the inner recesses of his or her mind to the listener. As this happens, speaker and listener begin to appreciate each other more and more, and the duet dance of love is begun again."
The truth
07:55 May 26 2013
Times Read: 913
Damn...
This is the truth.
"There's a big difference between showing interest and really taking interest."
*Tilts head*
07:52 May 26 2013
Times Read: 917
"Effective listeners remember that "words have no meaning - people have meaning."
The assignment of meaning to a term is an internal process;
meaning comes from inside us.
And although our experiences, knowledge and
attitudes differ, we often misinterpret each other’s messages while under the illusion
that a common understanding has been achieved."
Hmm
07:49 May 26 2013
Times Read: 922
I found this interesting.
Same for a woman...
I VERY much WISH I was HEARD over anything.
"Many a man would rather you heard his story than granted his request."
— Phillip Stanhope
Earl of Chesterfield
A teeny reflection
04:16 May 26 2013
Times Read: 946
I was thinking about how long I've spent on this site...
and what it's "done" for me if anything at all.
I have to admit that I have met some truly amazing people because of VR.
I've fell in love a "few" times, learned a few lessons...OK A LOT of lessons! But I've learned a lot about me, and what brought my walls up. I also learned that the walls we surround ourselves with, are there to see who cares
enough to climb the mother fucking things.
I've been taken on so many "journeys" and learned about the world.
I've learned to love stronger...learned that I am worth a lot more then
I felt at certain times of my life.
I've learned that there are alot of flip flops of people, and how they just use others for their shear enjoyment. Falling in "love" every other fucking week, or hating this person 1 day, and loving them the next.
How people are so unhappy in their skin, they have to attack others to "feel better".
Oi..
I've learned, heard...shared A lot over the last 7 years...
and what a fucking blast most days.
*Muah*
wow
07:58 May 23 2013
Times Read: 968
Profile Created: May 23 2006
That would be 7 years on this site!
What a rollercoaster.
May 1st
16:07 May 01 2013
Times Read: 1,041
"Hooray hooray the first of may...
outdoor screwing starts today!!"
mhmm
09:58 May 01 2013
Times Read: 1,066
I wish when I spoke,
I was heard.
Period.
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