Lately I have learned many things about people. People that I know well, and people that I don't know at all. Someone has told me through the time that I have them that people are shit. Well, they were right; a lot of people are shit. I never took it to mean that everyone on the planet is, or like it is an excuse or something, to make one feel better about their actions. I personally know that I am not shit, or scum or anything of that nature. For those who feel like they are, I really hope someday you can get over making excuses for yourself or being so down on yourself all the time. Trust me, I know about down and out, and being blue; doesn't mean I am shit tho.
Here is another warning for all you trustworthy souls out there. When you love, love deep, love true, you don't have to let it guide you or rule what you do to make it real. You should at least try to be true to the ones you love and love you back. If you don't, then save the person some grief, tears and heartache. If you do, then make them know it, actions speak louder than words.
Life is tough all over, for all of us. We should try to make the paths of the ones we know and care about easier, if at all possible. Life ends up much shittier when you think you can rely on people that don't really want to be there at all.
I guess what I am getting at is be real not fake..try not to play with people's heads...or hurt the people you love the most, and that you know love you...it's not a thing to take advantage of or be taken lightly with a grain of salt. I know it's easy to do when you really truly do love someone; even family and friends that mean the world to us. Love is such a strong emotion it seems to make us do wonderful, great, sweet, stupid, hurtful, horrible things.
Remember take care of yourself, and the ones you care about, and your love. Don't be scared to let feelings grow. It's hard to come by people that love and care about you to the point where you know they always will, unconditionally, no matter what happens or what you do , or say. Don't just throw such treasured ones away, like they never meant anything to you at all.
These are just some thoughts from me, maybe a little advice. It's not like you have to take it, hell you don't even have to read it...lmao
Hugs...take care of you and yours ...whoever you are.
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MrsDegs
23:38 Aug 22 2008
good deal here sunshine, luv ya!