A grateful heart … comes through expressing such gratitude to what we have, those around us , our families, and the joy they bring into our lives.
Learn to forgive yourself
COMMENTS
Rumple and I were being trained in our first mission in South Central, Los Angeles . We met a women named Maria who had suffered a great deal in her life, including struggling with drug abuse, abusive relationships and making ends meet for her and her children. We never judged her and never gave up on here. We gave her encouragement when we gave her lessons. Rumple would play basketball with her boys, and I would do small chorus around her house.
Years later, Maria has changed her life competely. We are very proud of her.
COMMENTS
*throws some glitter in the air* Nice story.
what kind of glitter?
Ummmm, green I guess.
I didn't want to be HOMELESS
I didn't plan to be HELPLESS
I didn't expect to be HUNGRY
But now I am all three
Homeless - Helpless - Hungry
And why?
Partially my Parents fault - because
They couldn't cope with me
Partially my Own fault - because
I always wanted my own way
Partially Society's fault
The School - The Church -The Welfare State
Because none of them tried to help me.
Partially the Drugs and the Alcohol - because
They were too readilly available.
But I do want to get back into Society
Which I rejected - and then it rejected me.
But I'm only nineteen - I'm too young to be
Homeless - Helpless - Hungry.
Won't you - 'Please Please Help Me'
Help me to be able - To help myself again!
(John Knight - Colchester - October 2009)
Homeless - Helpless - Hungry
John Knight
Charity is the most wonderful thing we can do. I'm a supporter of the Clinton foundation for years. I'm deeply honored for those that work hard for this great company. Such names I will not display for private reasons.
Each individual person is given talents, abilities and strengths to serve others. We are here to serve others not just ourselves.
COMMENTS
I don't agree. I am not obligated to share my talents with anyone. I choose to because I have scruples and morals. People must choose of their own volition because that is what builds character.
Telling the Truth by
Benjamin S., age 8 from California.....
At school one day there was a misunderstanding about how long we should wait until we started our project. When my teacher asked how long we were told to wait, I said 20 minutes. My teacher said she believed me because I always tell the truth. That made me feel so happy. I know it is important to always tell the truth.
Individuality and why is it important?
We experiences individuality through our gifts, talents and beliefs. Its makes us different from the rest of society.
If we all were the same, life would be simply boring.
That"s why individuality is important.
“By kindness, and pure knowledge, which shall greatly enlarge the soul without hypocrisy, and without guile
Thomas S. Monson
How would you guys define charity?
For me,
I would consider it the Greatest of All Virtues.
For example donating your time at animal shelter, YMCA, food banks or simply being a listener to a lonely person.
Random Acts of Kindness from Police Officers.
COMMENTS
That's why I back our blue :)
Without them, our children would not be safe.
No kidding. No one would be safe.
Top Ten Ways to Inspire Others to Be Their Best
Michael Angier
We all know people who are inspiring. But just how does one inspire others? Here are ten simple ways you can inspire people to be their best:
Be a good example. People watch what you do more than they listen to what you say. Be someone worth emulating.
Care about others. People don’t care about how much you know until they know how much you care. Ask questions. Take a genuine interest in people.
Encouragement. Everyone goes through tough times. When you support people and encourage them through these times, you’ll be inspiring them to see the best in themselves and in the situation.
Be inspired yourself. Look for people, ideas, environments and knowledge that you find inspiring and motivating.
Share from your own experience. You have more to share than you realize. Mine the rich experiences of your life and share your wisdom from your unique point of view. You may be the only one who can touch someone with your inspiring message.
Be vulnerable. Be willing to share your failures as well as your successes. Others will relate to you. They’ll understand that they’re not the only ones with challenges.
Tell stories. Facts tell and stories sell. They inspire, too. We learn best from parables and we all need to develop our own inspiring stories.
Be a good communicator. Increasing your ability to communicate effectively is a critical element for you to inspire others. Watch how you speak and what you say. Invest in your communication skills.
Challenge people. Many of us have had teachers who at times seemed more like tormentors than mentors. They challenged us to do our best, and we were better for it. Practice "carefrontation"—the careful and caring confrontation of others.
Read. It may not follow that all readers are leaders, but certainly all leaders are readers. Stay informed. Share what you read with others. Tell people about books that have inspired you. Share the knowledge.
I'm going to volunteer my services at a women's center. We all should do our part to volunteer for the community.
Good Deeds Day is an annual tradition of good deeds. ALL over the world, hundreds of thousands choose to volunteer and help others, putting into practice the simple idea that every single person can do something good, be it large or small, to improve the lives of others and positively change the world.
https://motivsandiego.org/gdd/
Here are ten basic self defense tips to protect you from the criminals.
Use a Buddy System
We teach the buddy system to our kids, yet ignore it ourselves. Criminals are looking for an easy target. They make split-second assessments of the potential resistance they are going to face. Criminals are smart enough to recognize that their chances of successfully overpowering a victim one-on-one are better than if they choose a two-to-one scenario. Targeting more than one person means criminals are more likely to be identified, and less likely to be in control of the situation. It has been estimated that traveling with one additional person decreases the likelihood of being targeted by 70%, and with two additional people, 90%!
Stay in Areas that are Illuminated
Action is faster than reaction. Criminals may lurk in darkness in order to get the jump on their victims. Criminals are known to hide behind dumpsters, bushes and cars awaiting an unsuspecting pedestrian. Walk and park in areas that are under streetlights, or away from shadowy places. Trust your gut. Check your surroundings. When you do have to travel alone, which you inevitably will, make sure you minimize the chance for crimes of opportunity.
Stick to Populated Areas
It’s not always possible to have the company of an actual companion, though you may be able to stay in areas that are well populated. Avoid taking shortcuts through alleys or places that have fewer potential ‘witnesses’ or ‘good Samaritans.’ Remember, a criminal’s goal is to offend while simultaneously avoiding apprehension.
Avoid Wearing Flashy Jewelry
Criminals often judge books by their covers. Those who wear flashy and expensive jewelry, or show off their expensive (and easily fenced) electronics, attract attention from robbers. To avoid unwanted attention, don’t broadcast that you have valuable items in your possession. A criminal will weigh the risk of apprehension with the benefit of the crime – the greater the payout, the more likely a crook will be to take that risk.
Don’t Show-Me-the-Money! Or Anyone Else.
Pulling out cash in front of potential criminals is obviously dangerous. Yet there are more innocent circumstances that may also lead to increased victimization. Criminals will go places to find targets that they know will be in possession of a payout, such as automatic teller machines, banks, casinos, and cash stores. They will follow their victims until the opportunity presents itself to victimize. In addition, it is not uncommon for vagrants to ask for money and steal the wallet or purse of the person who opts to give.
Keep Your Cell Phone Charged
Cell phones are a great way to summon help when needed. Years ago, a broken down car meant waiting alongside a road for a police officer, or knocking on a stranger’s door to use their landline. Nowadays, cell phone usage is almost universal. Although cell phones provide a sense of security – they are more useful if they remain charged. Know how to use your cell phone to make emergency calls, and don’t let it become a distraction that keeps you from being attentive to your surroundings.
Communicate Your Plans to Friends or Family Members
Contrary to depictions on television and in the movies, the law does not require a complainant to wait 24 hours to report a missing person. People who habitually communicate their plans to their loved ones and family members are more likely to reap the benefits of police intervention if something goes awry. Communicate. Let some know your whereabouts, the time you are leaving a given location, any stops you are making, the route you are taking, and when you can be expected home. Providing this sort of information will allow a loved one to call the police and request a welfare check, or file a missing person report if you do not arrive at your destination as expected.
Keep Your Hands Free
It goes without much explanation that keeping your hands free is important in personal safety. Occupied hands inhibit movement and slow reaction times. Being selected as a potential target, as mentioned earlier, is all contingent on the quick analysis of the criminal. Keeping your hands free is also important because, if you’re attacked unexpectedly, you will have a greater ability to block strikes and even counterstrike. The hands are a very are important tool in self-defense.
Avoid Distractions
Maintaining focus, especially in a high-tech era, is difficult. Smartphones beep and chirp with every Facebook message, tweet, email, text, phone call, appointment reminder, and phone message. It is enough to distract even the most focused individuals. Resist the temptation to catch up on emails, return phone calls, or update your status when out in public. Wait until you get where you’re going. Put away distractions and focus on getting from point A to point B without being targeted.
10. Avoid The Use of Intoxicating Substances
The use of intoxicating substances decreases inhibitions and retards judgment, which is a dangerous combination in the wrong place and in the company of the wrong people. Most research relating to the correlation between victimization of violent crime and alcohol use was conducted in the 80’s and 90’s. These percentages vary widely but reach as high as up to 50% of victims being under the influence of alcohol. These percentages aren’t inclusive of other intoxicating substances, only alcohol.
In the end, you have the responsibility to look after yourself. If you practice these skills, you will separate yourself from the mass of plugged in, clueless sheep that make easy prey. But remember, there is nothing anyone can do to avoid all of life’s dangers. Once you have a handle on these skills, add an active means of protection to the list. Make sure you carry with you one of the three self sefense tools described in this post. Train with and carry a gun, and truly take ownership of your own fate.
https://www.google.com/amp/blog.beretta.com/10-self-defense-tips-to-defend-against-an-attacker%3fhs_amp=true
Bryan Adams - Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?
To really love a woman
To understand her you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought see every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cause she needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
To really love a woman
Let her hold you
'Til ya know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her really taste her
'Til you can feel her in your blood
And when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman
You tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cause she needs somebody to tell her that you'll always be together
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
You got to give her some faith hold her tight
A little tenderness gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
You really gotta love your woman, yeah
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know ya really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cause she needs somebody to tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
Just tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman?
Songwriters: Bryan Adams / Michael Kamen / Robert Lange
if a man really loves a women, He will let the world know about it. He will not need another women to boast his ego.
Here is some Advice, You can't change a mans behavior. Only he can do that. If you think dating or being with him will correct him will your wrong.
If you are the other women, You think he will leave his wife or gf for you, he will not. If you have feelings for someone you know little of, do your research, do a background check and have a friend or someone you trust talk to the guy. This will save you alot of heart break.
HOW DOGS HEAL HUMAN MINDS
Dogs do much more than detect cancer. YOUR dog can lower blood pressure, heart rate, and overall stress level.
Meet The Dog, he's your best healing secret for both mind and bodyJoan Borysenko, PhD made news in her best seller, Minding The Body, Mending The Mind. She suggests not letting your mind become burdened with worry. A distraction such as gardening, grooming or walking your dog stimulates and heals the mind and the body.
Stress relief? The former Director of two Harvard Medical School Hospitals advises we forgive any wrongs that have been done to us and quit brooding!
Let that soak in. Step on your dog's foot and he may yelp and look at you with wonderment because you hurt him but you are instantly forgiven. He may be more cautious about your feet but he bears no grudge. Learn from that as you think how much you love him too.
Visualization Speeds Healing
Dr. Borysenko says before going to bed, take a moment and be grateful for something that happened that day. Dog owners can easily do that, recalling how the sun glistened on their dog’s freshly bathed coat, the long-awaited litter that was born healthy, the championship points or qualifying score won that week.
She also suggests we imagine seeing a disease leave our body. or a virus or cancer cells being attacked and overwhelmed by an army on white chargers. It isn't like that was her own concept. Visualization was proven two decades ago by forward-thinking cancer researchers. It may sound silly but then if anyone had told us a decade ago that dogs could detect cancer long before medical tests, we wouldn’t have thought it possible.
Dogs Comfort and Calm Your Mind
HOLDING A DOG CAN LOWER BLOOD PRESSURE & HEART RATECertainly this doctor would agree that dogs comfort us emotionally and psychologically. Stroking a dog can calm our thoughts. Dogs make us smile and they are never worried. A dog’s enjoyment of the moment and his zest for the simplicity of life should be an inspiration to us.
Medical science has proven that stroking a pet lowers heart rate and blood pressure. We know that but did you know that the tactile contact of petting a dog or cat can de-stress a human as well as a tranquilizer and with no harmful side effects?
The soothing effect therapy dogs have on seriously ill patients has been well documented but now scientists can hook us up to monitors and prove the effect. So if you are stressed, soak up a big dose of dog therapy!
The Dog You Have Is Your Therapy Dog
The dog you already have can become your Therapy Dog if you will just allow him to take care of you.Any dog can become your mental, emotional, and physical therapy dog. Begin by walking the dog every day. Enjoy the exercise and the stimulation of seeing your surroundings from something other than a car window. Savor the relaxing time away from computers, phone, kids, and business. Your dog will invite friendly hellos so stop and chat with a neighbor you normally only converse with by phone.
Get tuned in to your dog and he or she will become even more tuned in to you.
Your dog may notice that mole on the back of your leg or that your body or urine scent has changed. Pay attention to the dog!
Most of all, learn the art of forgiveness from your dog and as the good doc says, be grateful that you have such a loyal, adoring companion and spend a little time just petting and talking to him. It’s good for the heart, the mind, and the soul!
Dr. Lee's excellent article (below) on "Dog Spelled Backward" sheds more light on the healing connection between man and dog dating back to the first century.
It's unfortunate that most therapists have forgotten what the Pharaohs knew. The fact is: Psychotherapists can heal the human mind. So can a dog. Psychologists can help us to heal emotions and anchor ourselves in the real world. So can your dog. Just ask our wounded warriors who are fortunate enough to have a therapy dog to guide them through PTSD or physical wounds.
Try this simple experiment. Turn the TV off. Take the phone off the hook and turn off away from the computer.
Sit quietly for a few minutes. Breathe deeply. Then call your dog to hand. Make eye contact and without touching, just reach out to him mentally. It can be something that would evoke a response if spoken aloud. "Wanna go out?" or "Are you hungry?" as you envision yourself setting his food bowl down. Or try something as simple as thinking "You really are my best friend. You know it don't you?" Hopefully this is not what you are thinking "Oh I'm so sad, I just can't go on..." but once the dog "listens" mentally, you can unload your worries on him and he will help you bear that burden.
He may be puzzled at first, he's untrained, unsure... but he is a dog and he will sense that you are reaching out to him on a different level. Try it. Really put your mind into this moment. You may have to do it more than once because your dog will sense something is going on but like you, he has to adjust to this simple test.
http://www.thedogplace.org/HEALTH/dogs-heal-minds.asp
COMMENTS
Its very true that dogs can psychologically affect humans. The connectiob between humans and dogs is truly symbiotic, centuries of evolution has made it so dogs already know visual cues without really having to be trained,
thank you for the comment
STANDARD OF MASONIC CONDUCT
This Short Talk Bulletin has been adapted from a paper of the same title prepared by the Committee on Masonic Research and Education of the Grand Lodge A.F. & A.M. of Minnesota.
It has been said that the purpose of Freemasonry is the pursuit of excellence. All of the teachings of Masonry are directed to excellence in performing our duties to God, our country, our neighbors and ourselves. The continuing effort to improve oneself is the true mark of a Mason. This principle was stated well by Grand Master Donald J. Flood at the annual communication of the Grand Lodge of Minnesota.
“We must constantly remember that in every moment of our life - in public - at work - at pleasure - with our families - even when you are alone - You are a Mason!
“The non-Masons who know us will judge each of US, and Masonry itself, by the way in which we conduct ourselves. We have in trust the reputation of Masonry. Let us not betray that trust! Masonry will flourish if we follow these precepts.
“Before we can expect to attract good men to the fraternity by our conduct and reputation in public, we must learn to conduct ourselves with propriety in the Lodge. One of our first duties shall be loyalty to the fraternity and obedience to its laws. This is a fundamental requirement.
“Propriety is not the result of law, but rather of tradition, custom and usage. Like good manners, it has behind it only the force of opinion. While there (may be) no penalties for breaches, there are tangible rewards for observance of the rules and ceremonies of good manners!”
An ancient philosopher advised “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” This also applies to your actions when you are visiting another Lodge, particularly in other states or countries. While the principles and ideals of Masonry are universal, social customs and Masonic traditions and laws differ from place to place. For example, all Masonic Lodges open with a prayer and it is not surprising that the words of the prayer may vary from place to place. When we go to other states in our country we find that the attitude of prayer is not the same everywhere and in other countries the name of Deity may even be different. Likewise we find that the customs concerning such things as the proper way to address a Brother or a Lodge officer, the appropriate dress for a lodge meeting, proper topics of conversation, and even the working tools and the Grand Masonic Word change as we go around the world. But wherever you may be, you can be sure that respect and honesty toward Masons and Masonry, as taught by the square and com-pass, will be the fundamental guide for your conduct.
In this paper we will discuss the principles, traditions and ideals that should guide our con-duct as Masons. This paper does not present a list of Masonic do’s and don’ts. Such an attempt would fail for at least two reasons: first, no one would read it, and second, as Masons, each of us is expected to apply the tools and principles of our Craft to our own lives.
One of the most interesting experiences in Masonry is to visit a Lodge in another Grand Jurisdiction. Whether it is in a foreign country or just in another state, there will be interesting and surprising differences. But, a word of caution, you must comply with the laws and customs of the Masonic Jurisdiction in which you are traveling! Therefore, before you visit, find out what to expect. The List of Lodges Masonic, found in every Lodge, give the names and locations of all the Lodges in the world that are recognized by the Grand Lodge. Since there are clandestine Lodges, it is essential that this book be consulted. Finally, if you are in a foreign country, you should consult the Grand Lodge office in that country.
In the United States and Canada, a current dues card is required as proof of membership. However, there are countries where a dues card will not be accepted. In these cases a letter of introduction from your Grand Lodge is necessary.
Concerning appropriate dress, a dark business suit is often acceptable for a Lodge meeting. But, in some Grand Jurisdictions, for-mal dress is required even for side-liners. Outside of North America you will usually be expected to have your own apron, so carry it with you. Regarding Masonic pins, rings, etc., these are often worn only within the Lodge. Some Grand Lodges even have rules that prohibit wearing these in public. And then there are countries which have outlawed Freemasonry. It is not prudent to even carry a pin into those countries.
Law Suits Between Masons - While this is not an area of strict Masonic regulation, it is a sub-ject addressed by ritual, traditions and Masonic law. Our ritual states that “no contention should ever exist” between Master Masons. Tradition has interpreted this to include the subject of law suits, requiring that Brothers make every at-tempt to resolve such differences without recourse to the courts.
Business Advertisements and Contacts - The general rule in these matters is that you should not seek financial benefit from your Masonic membership. To do otherwise is considered to be in poor taste at the best and unmasonic or even criminal at the worst. Lodge membership lists cannot be used for business mailings. Masonic membership cannot be used in a commercial or political advertisement or sign. The square and compasses cannot be used for any commercial purpose, as a symbol or a design. This point has been tested in the courts and Masonry has the exclusive use of this emblem.
Respect - Every person has a basic need for both self-respect and the respect of others. When our friends show, by word or deed, that they hold us in low regard, we may react as strongly as if we were threatened. On the other side, we would do almost anything for a person who holds us in high esteem. Thus, respect is both the least honor that we require and the highest honor that we can hope for in our dealings with our fellow men.
The term “respect” includes courtesy, tolerance, kindness, sympathy, prudence, temperance, and a host of other concepts that refer to our relationships with people. It encompasses our words, our actions, our appearance and even our thoughts. Inside the Lodge and outside of it, we should strive to demonstrate in every way our respect for a Brother’s honor, feelings, efforts, hopes and any other part of his life that we may contact.
While conduct within the Lodge is the concern of all Masons, it is especially important for the officers of the Lodge. Once again we quote from Brother Flood’s comments:
“We can’t expect our Brothers to know these principles if we don’t teach them and practice them. This is Masonic education in its finest sense.
“It is not from the lack of desire to learn that the Craft suffers, but rather from the lack of instruction.
“Masonry does not exist for the mechanics of ritual alone. Just as important is the learning, interpretation and exemplification of that ritual and of the basic principles of our Order. Equally important, too, for the candidate and for every member is the need to fully understand these principles, as well as our responsibilities as Masons.
“What is required of every single one of us is the dedicated and devoted application of the high moral principles of Masonry. By these simple methods, we develop the character that guarantees our own self-improvement and discharges the duties of God, our country, our neighbors and ourselves.”
Since officers set the example for the whole Craft, before seeking or accepting a line position a man should be certain that he is willing to demonstrate the highest standards.
Dress - In many Jurisdictions there is no mandatory dress code, but this does not mean that we should disregard our appearance. Al-though as Masons “We regard no man for his worldly wealth . . . . “, human society everywhere considers a man’s outward appearance to reflect his inner self and attitudes. Your manner of dress reflects the respect that you have for the dignity of Masonry, its work, its goals, and its members. At all times your apparel should be appropriate for the occasion and those attending, remembering that the altar of Masonry is the altar of God. Thus the clothes you would wear for a golf tournament or a degree in an underground mine may not be appropriate for work done in the Lodge quarters.
At Tyled Meetings - At the sound of the gavel in the East, the officers and brethren take their places and the Lodge comes to order. This means that everyone is seated unless called up by the Worshipful Master or unless rising to ad-dress the Worshipful Master. In most introduc-tions all speaking is directed to the East. Therefore it is improper for two Brothers to speak to each other during an open discussion, unless directed by the Worshipful Master, and it is never proper for two Brothers to hold a private conversation (whispered or otherwise) in a Lodge at labor.
Each candidate at each degree is instructed in the proper way to salute. He is also told that he should salute when rising to address the Worshipful Master and when entering or retiring from a Lodge while it is at labor. These instructions remain in effect even after we have completed our degrees. Always rise when speaking, even if you are only giving a second to a motion. Give salutes that are accurate and precise. A sloppy salute is actually a sign of disrespect! Finally, when referring to a Brother or when ad-dressing him, courtesy requires that we use the term “Brother” followed by his last name. Of course, “Worshipful Brother Jones,” “Right Worshipful Brother Smith,” or “Most Worshipful Brother Flood” are also proper forms.
The proper way to enter or retire from a Lodge is not always clear to new Masons. When entering or leaving a Lodge at labor, the proper place to stand, while giving the salute, is at the west of the altar. Not at at the door or at your seat. The salute is normally given to the East, but the Worshipful Master may direct these salutes to be given to the Senior Warden. Of course, everyone should enter through the Tyler’s door. The preparation room door is for candidates only. Every member guards that door, and the ballot is the key that locks or unlocks it.
There are probably no other topics of discussion that have caused as much ill will, alienation and contention as have politics and religion. In the interest of harmony among Brothers, it is considered un-Masonic to introduce any religious, political, or other divisive topic into a Masonic discussion.
A final word for the officers of the lodge. The flag of our country and the Great Light of Masonry merit our utmost respect, both in their care and their handling. The Bible should be handled with reverence and care, the flag should be treated with honor and should fly freely when being carried. The other jewels, furniture, and regalia should be cared for and kept in good repair to demonstrate the high regard we hold for our Craft and its work.
During Degrees - One of the most solemn and meaningful events in a Mason’s life is the time of his raising. Yet we often see this degree marred by laughter and inappropriate comments. The Grand Lodge of Arizona requires the following to be read at the beginning of the second section of the Master Mason degree:
“My Brethren:
“A candidate is about to be raised to the sublime degree of Master Mason. The Lodge room will be used as a stage to enact a drama which, symbolically unfolds the great lesson of the immortality of the soul.
“To properly impress the candidate with the seriousness of this ceremony, there must be no talking, whispering, laughing or other commotion during the conferring of the degree. Bear in mind the fact the Temple, for this portion of the degree, is supposed to be silent and unoccupied.
“Only the participants in the drama are to speak, and they are instructed to make no facial expressions, gestures or other unusual deliveries which might induce levity. The cooperation of each one here present is EXPECTED.
“An adherence to these instructions will help serve as an impressive climax to the candidate’s progress in Freemasonry and this section of the degrees could well be one of the richest experiences of his life.”
The principles contained in this statement are equally appropriate for all degree work, lectures, preparations and gatherings connected with the degrees. Nowhere does Masonry give any man license to take liberties with another. Comments that are intended to arouse a candidate’s concern for his personal dignity or safety are among the most discourteous acts that can be inflicted upon a candidate. Such actions are a gross misrepresentation of the Craft and are disrespectful to all of its members.
There is one form of disruption of degree work which comes from the best of intentions - side-line prompting. How often have we seen a forgotten word, or even a dramatic pause, produce an uproar as a number of concerned Brothers attempt to help the speaker. Prompting should be done only by the Worshipful Master or the one designated by him. The Masonic virtues of silence and circumspection are nowhere more appropriate than in this situation.
The perfect points of our entrance, as reflected in the four cardinal virtues of temperance, fortitude, prudence, and justice, provide us with a complete guide for truly Masonic action. It behooves each of us to periodically evaluate ourselves against these four standards, to see where we have those rough corners to which the common gavel can profitably be applied.
Am I temperate in my relations with others, or have I been excessive in my actions toward someone? Have I displayed fortitude in pursuing the excellence I can achieve, or have I chosen to do as everyone else does? Do I direct myself wisely and prudently, or do I sometimes go beyond the bounds of courtesy and good taste? Have I given to each Brother, candidate, friend, and associate the consideration, help, and respect which they justly deserve, or have I let my own pride, comfort, and desires blind me to their needs?
These are the standards of Masonry. It is not easy to apply them to ourselves. But then, being a master of any craft is never easy, and being the Master of oneself is perhaps the most difficult of all.
http://www.masonicworld.com/education/files/artfeb02/standard of masonic conduct.htm
COMMENTS
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Mindie
22:03 May 29 2018
I agree. But it is hard to do.
IlluminatiBrotherhood
22:21 May 29 2018
Nice positive message
IlluminatiBrotherhood
22:22 May 29 2018
I love a positive message on here. To much drama
LZAPERVERT
03:07 May 30 2018
I start everyday saying 3 things I am grateful for. It makes the day a bit brighter.