02:09 Aug 08 2019
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Well, I am going to say my peace now, and I will attempt to be as civil as possible. I can't promise I will be, but I will attempt it.
Dave, no one cares or has ever cared that you were with Cat. That was NEVER an issue. Who you choose to be with is no one's business, period. I have told you both that before, so why you were stupid enough to think that was the case is way beyond my comprehension.
Seriously, do either of you really think either of you are such prizes that anyone would really want either one of you? Not even.
What I will tell you is that you demanded people stop disrespecting Cat. To get respect you have to give it in return, buddy. People aren't going to give you respect just because you demand it, it has to be fucking earned. You should already know that. Your fiancé has terrorized this site for over a damn decade with her threats, harassment, theft of profiles, members and even entire covens. She admitted to us both more than once in three-way phone calls if you recall that she has done so. And it didn't end there. She doesn't get what she wants, the first thing she does is attack people by rating 1's with her multiple profiles and give blocks and negative honor. When the same is done to her, she either deletes the profile or she changes the name. So, she is, in fact right now exploiting her own little glitch in VR. Why? Because normally changing your name or self deleting would not remove you from that negative honor list. When it gets fixed, do you have any idea what is going to happen? That's right, all that negative honor with ALL those name changes are gonna add up all at the same time and she is going to be way up at the top of that list and no amount of deleting or name changing is going to get her off of it.
So her throwing her little temper tantrums like a 2 year old child is not getting her any points with the rest of VR who has continually watched her make a complete and utter ass of herself. I mean seriously, if it were me acting like she does on here, I would be embarrassed as fuck to even show my face around here ever again. And she never changes her M.O. Let's set aside all the same old name calling bullshit and get real here. Do you think anyone - I should say outside your little ass-kissing circle of friends who are just as bad as her - on this site actually gives a damn what happens to her? Not anymore. Those who I once thought of as good people I have seriously lost respect for because they can't stop the brown nosing enough to see what is right in front of them. One such person said she lost respect for Payne - well did she ever think that there's a lot more of us who lost respect for HER? And no, I don't mean Cat at this point. She knows exactly who she is.
I digress. Cat - and now you - use your gazillion profiles not to have fun on VR as profiles are intended, but as a weapon against the other members who want nothing to do with you. We all tried to let the shit go and leave well enough alone, but did she? Nope. As soon as we moved on, Cat was right back at it, slinging her usual insults, rating 1's, issuing threats, etc as usual. So what happened? We all decided to fight back this time and stand up to y 'all's bullshit. Granted for the most part you cowered in the corner and ran and stayed quiet for a bit until you put your foot in your mouth. That's YOUR M.O. To run when shit gets deep. But that's ok. No sweat.
But here is the kicker in all this shit. You say we disrespected her. But think back real hard and ask yourself how many members of this site has your so-called fiancé disrespected over the past decade or so? There has been quite a few members of this site who have left because they were tired of seeing her get away with bloody murder on this site every single day. I know for a fact she has on more than one occasion disrespected me - quite a few times unprovoked, at that. She has disrespected Rachy, even going so far as bringing her children into it. She has attacked and disrespected other members - and brought their children into it. She has named quite a few as child molesters and abusers just because she was pissed off she wasn't getting her way on the site. Not because they actually were. And then you have a real live child abuser in one of your covens and she's not outing him or letting all of VR know of his indiscretions? Why? Hmmm...Good question, I will wait for that answer. Inquiring Minds want to know.
The worst is that YOU are the one she has disrespected the most. Why, you ask? Let me tell you why. Because when you are a couple with someone, your actions reflect on that person. You were relatively quiet and pretty much stayed out of trouble since you got caught cheating on that Acolyte test. And let's stop telling the lie that you weren't suspended, because I WAS HERE. You were handed a two week suspension by Images herself and the reason I know that is because I still have the message telling me what penalty was going to be handed to you about it saved. Yes, when that was up you did give yourself a longer self-imposed suspension, because you felt guilty and that felt like you weren't punished enough. Yes, you fully expected to be banned. We know, we know. But to go and tell people you didn't get suspended for it is an utter lie.
No one cared then that the two of you were together. What we did care about was the fact that you made a mockery out of the acolytes. The pool from where all admins are chosen. You were a part of that and made it into a joke. But still, you pretty much behaved yourself for years until recently. You both applied again for acolyte, and passed. But when Cancer was reminded of your indiscretions, and he removed you - which let's get real on this one here - or rather technical about it - you really are banned from being an acolyte. They didn't come out and say the word, but when you will never be allowed to be one again no matter how many times you take that test and pass - it still means banned. What did the two of you do? Threw temper tantrums like children. Yes, exactly like that, whether you want to admit it or not. I know, I was on the bloody phone with both of you when it went down. No sympathies for the way you acted. Sorry, no, I take it back, not really.
So, until Cat decided to become a holy terror on the site again after swearing she was gonna change her ways and behave - she joins Hell where I gave her enough rope and let her hang herself. To my utter surprise, that rope extended to you as well. I hate that you and I lost a friendship over it - but you let your fiancé yap and bark about true colors and tell publicly that you were not any friend of mine any longer. True colors? The only ones showing those were the two of YOU. Fine, if you can throw away a friendship spanning pretty much your entire time on VR away that easily, it just meant you were never that much of a friend anyway, and I don't need friends like that. I really didn't lose much. Your loyalty doesn't mean dick. I am not losing any sleep over either of you and haven't for some time now. You will be the one to truly lose in the end. I would say Karma, but that's already been overused as it is. And you get the idea already.
When people started standing up to your fiancé, you who had pretty much been quiet up to that point jumped on her bandwagon as if Dave no longer had any backbone of his own. Pussy went to your head, eh? Momma always told me a hard dick had no conscience, I find she was right, because you, like most men, start thinking with the brain below and not the one on your shoulders. Here is something I saw on a journal entry about how the two of you seem to have no money for frivolities - but instead of using money to see each other more often, you blow it on VR profiles. Kind of sad, don't you think? That VR views the two of you that way?
Don't worry, not planning on really touching on the whole cutting thing - oh fuck it, yes I will. This pisses me off. She did that solely for attention and instead of putting blame where it really lies, both of you blamed the members of VR. It was HER CHOICE. No one made her do it. She is a grown ass woman and you would think would take responsibilities and own her own actions - like you once did when you got caught breaking TOS. You owned that shit. She isn't owning anything. That speaks more volumes than anything.
She acted like she was cutting deep cuts and trying to bleed herself out. Then starts like the town crier crying all over VR that she cut herself and "we" placed the knives in her hands. All for attention and sympathies. Then I hear from someone else she makes tiny papercut like slices that usually don't even draw a single drop of blood and doesn't even leave a scar. Then cries she is a cutter. No. Not even. I have a niece that is a cutter. I have friends that are cutters. I might not condone it but what she does is not even in the same classification. She makes me sick. She is a truly disgusting individual who doesn't even deserve to be called a human being.
Let's not forget attacking innocent people who have nothing at all to do with any of this. But, since you two are already doing shit only low-lives do, what's one more crime?
The fact that you were a former acolyte have posted threats to members of VR on your journals and profiles, and this fact was pointed out by a member who is not an acolyte that you were breaking TOS - screen shots in PityKitty's journal as proof - really speaks volumes. Apparently you tend to forget that TOS you love to quote to the masses when it suits you but conveniently forget it when you are involved. Wow. You know better.
Annnnddd another thing. You rag on Julie and Lana and call them out for saying they are gonna delete and leave VR and then they come back or never leave, etc...Tell me again just how many times in the past Cat has done the same damn thing? Or you for that matter? Pot meet Kettle, thank you very much.
Calling people retards and such, blaming others for your faults and fuck-ups, attacking innocents, and acting like you have Tourette's Syndrome when she can't have her way is not the actions of a mature adult but a child who needs to go back to kindergarten to relearn how to interact and play with others. Enough said. I will let that sink in. Clearly she has yet to grow up again, so maybe that's why she has a "Daddy".
Now you have hit the rest of them with blocks, etc, I suspect I will be next, not that I care, do your worst, while I sit and laugh that you are the ones being as juvenile as you claimed others were being the other day. Knock yourselves out.
I just remembered something I wanted to say while I am getting shit off my chest. It's all fine and dandy to defend one's girlfriend, but when that girlfriend's actions leads one into not only breaking TOS and making said person look like a first class heel and makes everyone question his integrity, one would think that you would take a step back, take back your balls and your self respect. If you are supposed to be the Dom in the relationship, it sure as hell doesn't look like it to the rest of us. Let me give you a secret that the rest of us already knows. She is the real Dom, and letting you pretend and think you are.
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DarkBloodAb
04:18 Aug 28 2019
You can't leave we love you.