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Nick sits in the recliner and he knows I am behind him...I pull the chair back and he jumps! I laugh my ass off cause he is such a scaredy-cat. Nick said " I m scared of heights, I thought I was gonna fall"

I said "Nick, you are sitting down!"



LMAO

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sippa
04:41 Mar 23 2017

RIIIIIIIIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!

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BrokenCrown
15:10 Mar 23 2017

It's scary... LOL

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BestFriendsII
17:15 Sep 01 2017

lol

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Make no mistake...internet "safety" is an illusion people tell themselves to make themselves feel safe. And I get it. We want to make connections in this world of technology. But when it comes right down to it, you need to protect you and yours. Be mindful of who you talk to and who may be lurking/trolling. Sounds paranoid I know but this shit is real.



Most people have a mutual respect when it comes to online things...they keep information to themselves and do not expose personal things. They do not snitch on others or expose personal information of others. And for the most part, people respect each other enough not to cyber bully (which is a whole other post).



Some people do not care and their personal life is an open book online. To each their own. But be mindful that there are NO rules anywhere on the world wide web. If people see abuse - they could report it. If people see you are breaking the law - they could report it. If you mention that you have done certain crimes - people could report it. You never know if the people you talk to are legally obligated to report things or if a civilian is just doing what they deem to be the right thing. Cops could even be trolling looking for pervs or what have you.



Then, of course, you have people that can make shit up because of their own agenda or revenge. SMH to those stupid special few. But most laws protect them to an extent because it only takes a suspicion of abuse/neglect to make a call and people can call in anonymously.



Bottom line it doesn't matter who or what or if it is true. This should be a lesson to EVERYONE - to be mindful of what is said and done online (not just on VR).



People have rights...rights to their perceptions/opinions. That does not make it a false allegation. Let the agency figure that part out.



Though it is sad that it all had to come to this.

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Magdalena
18:33 Mar 20 2017

Of course, you and I already know that we are legally obligated to report anything suspicious where breaking the law is concerned, and as I've already said, many people today either do not know or do not care what qualifies as abuse, and in many cases, what is and is not legal. It's common knowledge though that ignorance of the law is not a free pass.



Guilty parties almost always claim innocence, and many will go to great lengths in attempt to justify their actions; so much so, that they manipulate some others into believing them.



As an instructor once said many times, suspicion is more than enough because it's better to be safe than sorry. Cops can arrest people for reasonable suspicion so long as there are specific facts involved. Some people may complain about that, but again, it's better to be safe than sorry. I have education in Human Services, Psychology, and Criminology and those three overlap quite frequently; however, people don't have to be a member of these fields to report any suspicious illegal activity.



In fact, that's a civic duty. There have been many cases of abuse that were known to many people, but instead of taking initiative, everyone assumed someone else would report it. As such, the abuse continues and worsens; in some cases, the victim dies. People who wait around watching while neglecting to take initiative are no better than the ones inflicting the abuse or engaging in criminal activity.



There are two types of evil: people who do horrible things, and people who are aware of horrible things being done and don't try to stop it, or even worse, condoning it.

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BatsInTheBelphry
19:43 Mar 20 2017

then in our flawed system there are many cases of people who have tried to help people, and then they themselves end up in trouble. which is why a lot dont care to help people anymore...or cases where criminals have broken in to peoples homes get hurt in the process and sue the homeowners. There is many things in this world messed up. Yes perception is different to each person, but before putting a person and or family thru a situation dealing with federal institutions people should be pretty sure of what they are doing, and anon shouldnt be allowed if a person is really worried because its the institution getting the info not the person the complaint is over.

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RaynesAsylum
20:02 Mar 20 2017

Bats, I understand what you are saying. And in situations where it's is false, that would apply. I'm not saying any one is guilty here - I wasn't the one who saw any abuse so I cannot say that the person who reported it was wrong or right. I can only speak the truth and that is....anyone can report suspected abuse/neglect. That is my point. I am not passing judgement.

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BrokenCrown
20:27 Mar 20 2017

But tell us Magdalena, what is it you saw in our Beloved MARY and her daughter that induced you to report her... tell us. I would love to know, I'm sure we all would as we have all been left puzzled.



Education and fancy words call NEVER hide the truth. May justice be served and may we all lay our heads at night with a clear conscious.



So,



Tell us Magdalena, ENLIGHTEN US.

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BrokenCrown
23:58 Mar 20 2017

Conscience typo.

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Fear is a creation of the imagination. Yet it sits in our soul and our energy and our life and it feeds us. It feeds us to the point that we stop ourselves from being who we truly are to the core. We forget who we are. We stop making the right choices for us. And we doubt life, and ourselves when something or someone comes along that shows us our fear.



Fear is just an illusion. Yet it is very believable. And we give it power.

Fear is just an illusion. Yet it is very believable. And we give it power.





When what we need to do is give ourselves the power. Love ourselves. Allow ourselves to heal. And prosper. And thrive. And live! Yet we believe the lie that is fear. And it feeds us as long as we allow it to.



So rise up and beat the fear! For this fear is nothing more to you then your truant in life. It is there to show you how much more you can be, and how much more empowerment you can gain in your life. And how much richer and vibrant your life can become.



Fear is what stops humanity in it’s tracks. We let the past sweep us away and repeat the lies that we’re no good, we can’t, we won’t, we’ll never have, we never will… Lies!



Picture that fear is this big black shadow that follows you everywhere. We all have it. Some fears are more noticeable, others are hidden deep, ready to pounce. And it seems to jump out at the exact moment, when we are about to prosper forward and excel. Some push past this fear and keep going, and achieve that success. Others cower, and step back and go back to what they were always doing, when fear took hold. Became less than they were. Lived in lack. Feared life. Feared love.



So isn’t it time to stand up and defend yourself against all that you afraid of? Fear is an illusion. It isn’t real unless we create it to be. It doesn’t have power unless we give it power. And it doesn’t rule our life unless we let it rule our life.



It is time to take back your life, and follow your dreams. Be abundant in love, money, health, spirit, body etc. It is time to thrive in life, instead of survive. It is time to heal! Not to be afraid. For in wanting to heal yourself, that is about empowerment. That is about seeing that you are worth all that you ever dreamed of and more.



If you are afraid of fear and keep running from it, or allowing it to follow you, then fear has won. And you will keep running. Until you decide it is time to heal.

If you are afraid of fear and keep running from it or allowing it to follow you then fear has won. And you will keep running. Until you decide it is time to heal.





So it is time to see the truth of your life, look fear in the eye, and stare it down. Because this is your life. You are the creator. You create the magic. And you live within the magic every day. Choose life! Choose love! Choose healing!





**http://visionarygoddess.com.au/fear-is-just-an-illusion/

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BloodStorm
20:27 Mar 20 2017

Fear and its Sister Misery, both are made reality by the majority of the population. They are drowning in a babypool of emotional sewage which only requires the strength and bravery to stand up from. Sadly most can never awaken from the illusions which they give immense power by believing more in the fears and misery than in themselves.

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I love him so much, cannot imagine my life without him....yet something is still missing...



Does that make me a bad person? Or am I missing something? Am I not seeing what is right in front of me?



So many of my closest friends and his closest friends, tell me that I deserve better - that I am too good for him. What does any of that even mean?



But yes, I admit I feel a void. As much as I love him, there is a void...

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Magdalena
06:55 Mar 09 2017

No, that doesn't make you a bad person; I think most of us feel that way in our relationships from time to time. Of course, it's unrealistic to expect relationships to be paradise 100% of the time; there will be struggles, challenges, battles to fight, mountains to move, etc... I believe the point however, is whether or not you and he choose to fight those battles and move those mountains together, and how you choose to go about it.



Conflict is inevitable, but how you choose you resolve the conflict is a choice only you and he can make. I think that will reveal a lot about the health of your relationship, and hopefully you come out the other side as a stronger couple. If you're feeling a void, talk to him about how you're feeling.

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Necromance
18:23 Mar 09 2017

At times in a relationship we get to that point. We feel like there is a void between two people. A lot of us want the wild crazy life or honey moon phase for the whole relatioship. You can still have that just have to find the spark that made it what you love. You aren't a bad person for thinking this we all get to that point.

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