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LOVE MEANS THIS .................................................... A poem.

Meaning of love can be understood when you love someone by all your heart. It is not just loving for the name sake. Love is in heart."Love" is a beautiful word,

That ties two people in one thread.



Love needs commitment,

And is full of sentiments.



Love means standing by each others side,

And making your loved one smile.

A good man is one who is kind and compassionate.

A good man is honest and hard working. A good man will tell you the truth.

A good man has self control and is respectful when he speaks to any women.

A good man is willing to be corrected or counseled by you.

A good man is faithful and reliable, he is able to forgive you when you do wrong.

A good man is humble, generous and is a peacemaker as well.

A good man knows how to control his temper and has concerns for others.

A good man stays confident of himself.

A good man fears God and is obedient to his word.

A good man is not a jealous man.

A good man always has a positive outlook on life..

Women love….. :-



1.) Men who are willing to makes fools of themselves to show how much they want to be with you. Ah, the power of the public grand gesture. It reminds us just how brave and courageous you are, willing to take risks and possible/likely rejection.



2.) Men who are persistent. Unless she is completely turned off by the sight of you from the initial meeting, she will warm up to your persistence. You can tell if an initial “no” really means “keep trying” if she is unable to hide some form of a smile or smirk. It shows us that you are not easily discouraged, that you are willing to work hard for what you want, that you are ambitious, and most importantly, that you really want us.



3.) Men who only have eyes for one woman. I know guys usually face rejection and move on to the next girl with ease, and a lot of guys can like several girls simultaneously. Girls don’t want to believe this, hence the appeal of Noah, who only has eyes for Allie. I guess the least you can do is make us feel like we are it. Don’t flaunt your other pursuits. Think the opposite of the message in the song Mambo # 9. It shows us that you are loyal, and that you see something in us that is different from all the other girls.



4.) Men who keep their promises regardless of circumstances.



5.) Men who do the loving thing even when it hurts. Noah wrote Allie for a year without a response. Bravo. ’nuff said. This shows us that your hopes aren’t easily shattered, and even after it all, you are not bitter.



My Dearest Darling, I couldn’t sleep last night because I know that it’s over between us. I’m not bitter anymore, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I’ll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I’ll be seeing you.



6.) Men who esteem themselves not because of worldly accomplishments but in the accomplishment of loving another deeply.



I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who’s ever lived: I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul; and to me, this has always been enough.



This shows us that loving others is your greatest priority. That kind of man is hard to find!



7.) Men who really listen. I mean, you can tell he really listened because he remembered her wishes. When she said what she wanted, he looked at her intently, as if he were making a note in his mind. Like Rick Warren says in The Purpose-driven Life, what we really want from people we love is “focused attention.” We want to look into your eyes, and see that all of you is really there, and there is no other place you would rather be. This shows us that we are up there on your mental priority list and that you value our thoughts.



8.) Men who would tell the truth, risk hurting our feelings, and fight with us rather than withdraw and brush issues under the rug to preserve peace.

It shows us that you care enough about saving the authenticity of the relationship to speak out. It shows that you are not indifferent. It shows that you are a man and not a doormat.



9.) Men who are realists. They believe that it will take work and that it will be hard. Love is work; it isn’t leisure. They don’t buy into an easy, pain-free “happily ever after.” It shows us that you are in it with earthly expectations and that you are not just in love with the high of being in love. It shows us that you are willing to work at love and that hard times will not make you hardened. And lastly…



10.) Men who want us till death do us part. Forever isn’t scary; commitment isn’t scary. We want to believe that it is natural to want forever, to want commitment because it’s with us.

Every living things will always try to impress the opposite sex. Chameleon changing their color, peacock showing the beauty of their tail, or male hummingbirds dancing in the air are some examples that animals do these things to impress the opposite sex. Men do it too. Trying to attract a woman's attention is something that they often do. It is the starting point of a relationship. There are two possible results, either she is not interested or she is interested. If she is interested, then they move into the next stage of a relationship.



1. Compliment, compliment, and compliment



Women love to be complimented. For them, compliments are very important to enhance their confidence level. If men have a weakness in their eyes, then women have a weakness in their ears. However, don't do it excessively. Give her a sincere compliment, not just lip service, and give it at the right time.



2. Have a well groomed body and appearance



You don't need to have a handsome face to try to impress a woman, but having a well groomed body and appearance are very important. Having a bright face, clean skin and clothes, and smell good all the time are some examples that you treat your body well. If you can't treat your own body then can you treat her well?



3. Have a sense of humor



Don't be too serious, women like a man who can make them laugh. In fact, sometimes humor can dilute a tense situation or conflict, like opening a window in a hot room. Of course, men and women have different sense of humor. Don't ever tell a woman dirty jokes especially if you don't know her closely.



4. Have good manners



Women dislike rude men and men who like talking dirty. It's too unpleasant to hear. By being rude, she will think that you can't treat her well. Show that you're a well-educated man!



5. Socialize with her family and friends



Make a good impression on her family and friends. When you already have a close relationship with them, you will be easier to get her. Impress them and you'll impress her.



6. Be a smart man



Some teens may have not thought about this, but for those who are already mature, being smart is an important factor. Smart men usually have a bright future, creative, and able to adapt in all situations.



7. Smiling



There is a saying, "don't frown because you never know who's falling in love with your smile". These words are created for a reason, a smile makes a person look attractive, friendly, optimistic and confident. After all, women don't want to be with a man who looks like not enjoying his life.



8. Try to ask her some questions



If you don't know too much about her, ask something about herself. Actually, this topic is their preferred topic. Besides you will know her more closely, she will be more open and feel comfortable toward you. It also gives her a sign that you like her inside and out.



9. Give something special on her special day



Special day, such as birthday, is a very good moment to make her attracted to you. Give something special on that day will make her feel as a special person for you. Try to give something that makes her always remember you. :)



10. Be sincere and honest to her



You have to love her sincerely without any other veiled purpose. In addition, tell something about you honestly, without boasting something you don't have or something you've never experienced. Although you can get her, if you're not being sincere and honest, your relationship won't last long because eventually she will notice.

Social norms dictate what types of etiquette are expected when it comes to treating a lady. Origins of such standards date back to earlier centuries when knights and other men displayed chivalrous acts toward women, which were commonplace for the time. In the modern world, some men continue the social etiquette for how to treat a lady, while others require prompting. Learning how to behave like a gentleman is easy to learn with some coaching and practice. they are :-



1

Open her doors. When you both enter a restaurant or other public venue, take the lead by opening the door before she approaches it and allowing her to walk through first. You then follow her inside. When stepping into an automobile, open her door to the car and close the door once she is seated. If you arrive at your destination, men should get out of the car first, run around to the other side and open the door for their ladies.



2

Help her into her seat. At a restaurant, pull the chair out from beneath the table for her, and gesture for her to sit down. Once the lady is seated, help her push the chair closer to the table. Do this gently to avoid mishaps. You would not want to accidentally tip her over or thrust her into the table.



3

Pay for her when you go out. If you take a lady on a date, it is social etiquette to pay her way and to not allow her to chip in.



4

Offer her your hand. It is a gentlemanly gesture to help your lady make it successfully through rough terrain, or up and down steps or hills, especially if you notice her wearing stilettos.



5

Show her that you care. Ask how she is doing, how work went, how she feels and what she is thinking about. Take her feelings into consideration. If she had a hard day at work, suggesting to go to the ice hockey game may not be in your best interest. Instead, offer to bring in take-out and watch a movie at home together.



6

Carry her bags. At the airport, don't let her struggle with luggage that is twice her size. Instead, lend a helping hand and see her to her car or to the airport bag check area. Or, if you see a lady struggling with grocery bags in the parking lot, offer to carry them for her.



7

Give her your seat. On a crowded public bus or train, if a lady gets on and there are no seats available, offer her yours.



TIPS AND WARNINGS :



Never expect anything in return for being chivalrous. A true gentleman treats a lady properly out of his own generosity.



A self-sufficient woman may offer to pay for you when you go out. While some men find this startling, the modern day woman enjoys being able to treat guys from time to time. Accept her offer to pay once in a while if she insists.



Some women might find it offensive for men to constantly display acts of chivalry, such as holding doors open. After a while, a woman may feel inclined to tell the man that she is perfectly capable of holding her own doors. Be careful that you do not overdo your social etiquette and border on the line of insulting. Gauge your gestures. If a women seems to appreciate your efforts, continue doing them. If she starts to appear impatient with them, hold back on opening the door for her every time.

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mindgeeee
04:26 Sep 06 2012

Its would be nice if guys did this but they dont Sadly reality

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The fact of the matter is the world has lost the art of being a gentleman. Somewhere along the way, chivalry and good manners were replaced with an unfortunate desire to seek our own interest first. Being a gentleman is something that every man can learn to be. There are those who will tell you that being a gentleman means being a sissy or pushover. Those who say this are the ones lacking in self-confidence and self-assurance. We must not be afraid to be gentlemen. Gentlemen are what the world wants and needs.



While this is just a guide to particular situations, the main point should be clear. Being a gentleman means having confidence, being sure of ourselves, never failing to be polite, and always seeking to put others first. Take it upon yourself to be a better man. You will be the one other men aspire to be like, whether they admit it or not. You will be what every woman has longed for for many years now.



Be a man. Be a gentleman.

Finding a man to be your boyfriend actually isn't a difficult thing. The difficult part is finding a man who deserves to be your life partner. Unfortunately, many men out there take advantage of the women's vulnerability to seduction to easily get them. In order to choose the right boyfriend, below are 10 characteristics of a good man to be your boyfriend:



1. He treats you well



He doesn't have to treat you like a princess and spoil you everyday, but he knows what he has to do to show his love and he will never hurt you. If he accidentally hurts you, he doesn't hesitate to come to you, admit his mistake and apologize sincerely. He is a man who appreciates and respects you. There is nothing more disgusting than a man who degrades,commits physical and verbal abuse towards a woman.



2. He is a man of his word



When he says yes, then he will do it, when he says no, then he won't do it. Included in this trait, a man who is loyal to his girlfriend. When he promises that you will be the only woman he loved, then he really doesn't have another woman in his heart. In other words, he takes full responsibility for his own words and realize them in his actions (He's not wishy washy in relationships).



3. He loves you inside and out



Why this kind of man is right for you? Because he doesn't only love you physically. He loves all of the strengths and weaknesses you have. And most importantly, he loves your imperfection, perfectly.



4. He has a bright future



If you're really serious about bringing your relationship to a marriage, then you have to think about this. Do you have to choose a man who already have a well established job and good income? Not really. Most importantly, he is mature in thinking and has good plans for the future. Of course, he doesn't spend most of his time playing video games and watching tv everyday. He is able to balance fun and relaxation with work and productivity.



5. He is able to guide and protect you



In relationships, men are leaders. With him, you can develop into a better woman. He also becomes the first person in front of you to protect you from all kinds of dangers.



6. He is confident in himself



Maybe he's not handsome, but he always seems very excited, his face looks so bright, he dares to face everyone, and he has a pleasant personality. Most importantly, he is just being himself and not trying desperately to change his attitude and behave like everyone else (e.g. a movie star you like) when he is trying to draw your attention.



7. He is an independent man



Does a man who spend every day, hour, minute, and second to please you is the right man for you? Frankly speaking, NO! Because it means he is too attached and in the future, he will be very possessive of you. Independent man also thinks about his own life, spends time with his family and friends, and has other good activities to do. Don't ever choose a needy or clingy man to be your boyfriend.



8. He is appreciative of you



He notices every little thing you do. When you try your best to look pretty, he will praise you. When you fetch him a glass of water, he will say 'thank you'. When you do things that are out of your habit, he notices it.



9. He speaks and acts honestly



He can tell you what really happens when he makes a mistake. He does everything for you with sincerity with no bad intentions. In addition, he is a man who doesn't seek your approval by giving praise and doesn't hesitate to criticize yourself when you make a mistake. Receiving praise is important to make you more motivated while criticism is important to make you become a better woman.



10. He has good morality



His morality also affects your relationship in the future. A man who has grown up as a good man and doesn't have many problems with society tends to act wisely in relationships. On the other hand, a man with low morality (e.g. solving problems with violence, familiar with criminality, drugs and free sex) tends to bring the relationship into violence, quarrels, and infidelity.