Perhaps it would be best if Cancer implemented a journal block, that way folks won't have to see the crap being put up and be compelled to reply with their own journal. Just block their journal and you will never see it in the journal section.
Of course, such blocking capabilitis hinges on the member in question not wanting to see the drama and trash talk about them....but since I noticed some actually enjoying stirring the pot so to speak, it might be useless to have. They would clearly like to see what would be written about them and vice versa for the other member...and the bitchfest 2019 will continue.
Or maybe journal privileges should be able to be revoked, or better yet, a site wide two weeks journal silence for all members, to give everyone some much needed downtime. And what I mean by that is not volunteering silence, more like a site feature that prevents everyone from writing in their journal for a certain length of time.
Now, when it comes to the comsumption of alcohol, one must remember to drink safely. So many risks come with drinking so pay attention to these.
1.Never mix your drinks with other alcoholic beverages.
2.Never shoot them back as you must pace yourself.
3.I would say eat something but that would just merely slow the process down.
4.Make sure never to drink anything above 10%
5. Maybe...just don't drink in the first place?
Best advise I can give because I drink responsibly......NOT!!!
I just ignore these tips and mix everything I have in my cupboard, Gin, Whiskey, Spirits, Vodka, Beer and lager.
I drink irresponsibly dammit and I am proud of that haha. Now you should too!
8:16 of the latter clip, I have done that with a bottle many times. Usually for no reason.
Maybe its what vr needs to lighten things up a bit, everyone should get drunk before logging on.
I am beginning to wonder if some of folks around here even have any awareness of their selves whatsoever. If they could just see themselves....
As I said in a journal or two back about the drama that is going in journal, it is a waste of energy, not to mention it makes them look like they have lost I.Q points, either that or they have regressed to 10 year olds.
What is the point really? You cannot physically hurt each other and most would not have the balls to travel to do something about it.
Also when one condemns another in their journal, they are being just as bad as who they are putting down, as they are contributing to the drama.
A vicious circle is then what you get. A has a go at B, B responds in the same manner, and then A does so again. The idiocy is fantastic here, that or they are actually enjoy creating drama. Maybe its a bit of both.
If someone is harrassing you then just block them, it will cease communication, if you then see their journal about you. Just ignore it because a reply with your own journal means you are acknowledging them and worse, it will encourage them to do it more often. Remember that no one is worth that drama.
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couldn't agree more
agreed amen Sir
Truth.
Agreed though I’m sure that I’m the worst *giggles*. Though I must say how petty those can be when they act that way too. As far as the traveling well hopefully no one will ever get me that angry Lol
Jager, jack, fire ball, lambrunski or whatever its callled.
I have drunk so much today that it may come out of my eyeholes. haha.
Its good to be drunk again, that said this one has a good memory, do make sure you haven't crossed a line y'all hear me?
Drink, drink and drink again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Drink responsibly? are you mad? I will drink irresponsibly damn it! XD
You would think folks would mature by now and give it a rest since its been done to death but no, journals are still happily used to bitch at one another and to air dirty laundry.
It is just so boring, a lot of interesting thoughts and facts could be put down, but instead we get what we see in those lists.
Those folks would actually feel better if they didn't focus on their negative emotions and urge to rant and lash out.
It takes energy to hate, I know all to well about that.
All you have to do is let go, no one on this site is worth riling yourself up over. They will die in time from one thing or another, just be happy in that thought. Or do something better in your life, achieve something while they are busy wasting their life on social media ranting about things. Sometimes the best thing to do is to simply forget about it and move on.
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Agrred
Agreed (sorry)
Well said
That's exactly why I have a Rants section in my journal. Sometimes it's about a idiot or collection of just as vapid idiots that I rant about on here or it's a rant about something that pissed me off at work. But, you know some will use their journals to attack people. Never gets old.... to them.
Hello LZ, long time old friend. But you are right. The journal is used as a weapon and medium for those to attack.
I think I still have your old rant section intact on this profile but your view is correct of course, Shame others haven't learnt that yet.
⭐️ Idk sometimes it’s funny/entertaining ... I agree. I personally think journals make great archival for science. That is my thought ...
Funny and entertainment is one thing, utter stupidity is another. Those who use the journal to bash others clearly have nothing better to do other than contribute to stupidity.
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xxxPoisonIvyxxx
13:18 Jan 31 2019
I think a mute option so you you do not have to see a certain member at all. Not affecting anyones scores though, so it won't be used as a revenge thing.
Hermodr
16:46 Jan 31 2019
Start removing levels from members who cause drama in journals, remove levels from all of their profiles even if they use a low level to cause the drama.
vXVampre
17:38 Jan 31 2019
The thing about journals is that they are a personal space. You can write what you want in it as long as it does not violate TOS including hate speech, publishing private information(including real names that are private) breaking this rule DOES revoke journal privileges and makes your journals invisible. This is called suspended and is done by sentorans and higher admins.The block function DOES block comments and deleting comments is allowed by the journalist. If someone doesn't want to read a journal about them it simply can be ignored.
Suspending all journals on the website would be a victory for trolls and drama llamas and be unfair to the mass majority.
The real problem is these people do not have the intelligence to realize they are causing drama. They do not want to block the people bothering them. They are not mentally capable to ignore them.
xXBlackenedxWingsXx
17:41 Jan 31 2019
People have had their journals not only suspended but revoked for going too far here before honestly.
Dakotah
20:14 Jan 31 2019
Mord, I am sending you a challenge, lets get back on the forums.
https://www.vampirerave.com/forum/message.php?message=179060
MordrakusxMortalitas
03:43 Feb 01 2019
@PoisonIvy. Not a bad idea at all.
@vxvampew. Problem is that such personal space is being used to flaun public insults, drama and other baiting words. Its ceases to become a personal space when it is used to provoke the public. I don't mean a permanent suspension with what I said, more like a cool down period. Maybe writing in journals still allowed but cannot be viewed by public until X amount of time passes or something. I just think there needs to be some solution because all I am seeing in the journals lately is drama and it is tiresome.
@BlackenedWings, I think such occurance needs to happen again because either its just me or these dramas are becoming more frequent.
@Dakotah.
I can't see anything there brother, either a bad link or whatever was there before is gone.