I’m a lot of different things. I’m good and bad things. I don’t think I have ever had anyone love me without conditions. Not sure even the most enlightened human on the earth is capable of giving love that pure. I think we expect a lot from others.
I think we expect too much from ourselves at times. Drawing that line has always been hard for me.
I don’t have the proper words to tell you that we aren’t a good idea but that I feel we aren’t a good idea. I’m not good at translating things like that into boundaries. I don’t know how to tell you without being honest and causing more damage to your problem.
You feel like a failure when you fail me and I feel like a failure because I can’t love you the way you need me too.
It’s toxic. You can’t expect me to be your all in all. You have to take the responsibility for your own actions, happiness and problems. Yes I have my part to play but so do you. No one else is going to come and save you.
I don’t have the resources and time to help you when I busy helping myself.
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MooniePie
05:02 Oct 01 2024
You do.. you just don't realize it. xox