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Maybe im just not ready.

16:25 Jan 30 2014
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Ok so maybe im just not ready and should take time to be on my own. I joined a dating site on the spur of the moment and met that nice young lady but i think i expected to much and maybe transferred some of my need in to misreading what was actually happening. And if im honest im still not over the ex so yeah not a good mix so will take some time to be on my own i am still gonna look at the dating site but wont be going on anymore dates for a while.


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xRobin3x
xRobin3x
18:04 Jan 30 2014

I hear so much about 'dating sites' one of the main ones are the 'catfish' stories. Be carefull. I guess that advice can go for most sites you join these days. many play a game of pretending not of whom they seems to be. Just be carefull.





 

Really

18:14 Jan 29 2014
Times Read: 497






Really i guess i got it wrong again had such a nice date and she seemed so positive about seeing me again. Then bang last two days nothing no replies to any message ive sent (and no i havent been a creeper and sent loads). So guess i got it wrong again dam really tempted just to say fuck it i give up.


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queenofchaos
queenofchaos
08:00 Jan 30 2014

You didn't...



Head up wolf...or I will kick that ass again.



You need another prep talk?



Perhaps something came up that is not related to you, regardless...keep being you, that's what you know.



She's out there...you will see.





Theodora
Theodora
17:24 Jan 30 2014

Boy don't I feel this. They are all hot and heavy into liking you, then nothing. It makes you feel crazy or just angry.





 

Posibilities

02:41 Jan 27 2014
Times Read: 512








So had enough sitting around being sad and trying to hold on to something broken. Three months of sad and hating myself is enough.



So i went on a dating site with the intention of just meeting someone who would like to go for a meal or maybe see a movie no expectation of any relationship or romance.



Instead i met someone who likes me for me and seems really interested and ended up going on a date last night. Early days yet but last night was good for me it felt healthy and nice to be with someone who seems to want the same as i do and for an added bonus dam she is hot .

I am sure i will write in here all about it in the next few weeks =)


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XXUltraVioletXX
XXUltraVioletXX
12:20 Jan 28 2014

All the best Lore





 

Shifts victory for working mothers( but loss for everyone else)

16:15 Jan 25 2014
Times Read: 543


Shifts victory for working mothers

Working mothers were handed the legal right to refuse inconvenient shifts yesterday.



A ground-breaking tribunal ruling will let any woman with young children claim she does not have to work early, late or at night.



The new rights, under sexual discrimination laws, will be available to hundreds of thousands of women in both the public and private sectors.



Firms with only small staffs will be exempt, but other employers will face major problems and extra costs trying to cater for mothers on their payroll.



There is also likely to be anger and resentment among male colleagues and childless women who have to do the unpopular shifts. The decision is the culmination of a three-year sex discrimination battle between former PC Michelle Chew and Avon and Somerset police.



Miss Chew, who had just split up with her policeman husband, asked to work the same days each week so her two children could go to a nursery. Her bosses refused, insisting that all officers had to work varied shifts. But an employment appeal tribunal has decided that the force's system breached the 1975 Sex Discrimination Act.



It said women are more likely than men to be looking after children, so anything that disadvantages those with child care responsibilities is discrimination against women.



The ruling will now form part of tribunal case law.



It will be closely followed by other tribunals hearing similar claims unless a higher court - the Court of Appeal, the House of Lords or ultimately European judges --decides to overturn it.



In practice, the ruling will benefit fathers as well - no employer would be able to concede the right not to work shifts to a mother and refuse a father in the same position without risking legal action and a compensation bill.



Miss Chew, 36, who left the Avon and Somerset force on health grounds earlier this year, could now receive hundreds of thousands in compensation.



She said last night: 'I am very relieved. It is brilliant that I can now hold my head up high and say: "I was rightî.



'This is not about letting parents pick and choose to do only the nice shifts, it's about making it possible for them to work at all.'



Industry chiefs warned of the huge problems the ruling would bring to employers like other police forces, the NHS, local authorities, factories, IT firms and many shops and offices.



They said the tribunal has handed sweeping new rights to working mothers at a time when the Government is fighting shy of helping them by imposing heavy new regulatory burdens on industry.



Industry Secretary Patricia Hewitt will announce this week that mothers are not to be given the automatic right to work part-time, despite Government sympathy and pressure from feminists.



Smaller firms, however, will be relieved to find they will not be affected by the Chew case. The appeal tribunal said its ruling applies only in cases where there is a large enough pool of available workers to show that mothers are suffering discrimination.



The Chew ruling will, however-pile extra costs on police budgets already swollen by huge bills for compensation awards in sex and race discrimination cases, currently totalling £20million a year.



Other women are certain to follow Miss Chew's lead and more officers will have to be employed or paid extra to make up for those who no longer have to work shifts.



Norman Brennan, a London transport police officer who runs a crime victims' charity, said: 'Police work is demanding and if you take the job you have to accept shift work is involved.



'That applies if you have a family before or after you join. You have to be part of a team and if you won't do that it is unfair to the rest of the service.'



Ruth Lea, of the Institute of Directors, warned: 'This will breed resentment among men - who often don't mention it because they are usually anxious not to appear sexist - and among childless women. There will be a backlash.



'It is fair enough to want to be able to organise childcare, but the idea that women are not going to do shift work is taking the Michael out of sex equality.



'If women are going to take the same jobs as men they must do the same work.'



The Chew case cements the rights of working mothers that have been building through a series of tribunal ruling which had alarmed industry bosses.



One, in 1998, found that a woman train driver on London Underground had suffereddiscrimination because her need to care for her son meant she could not follow instructions to work early and late shifts.



The Chew decision sweeps away a string of quibbles that have surrounded similar claims in the past.



Stephen Cavalier, of employment law specialists Thompsons Solicitors, said: 'This is another significant step for working mothers and the principle of work-life balance. It is something that employers will have to consider.'



Legal experts said the ruling is unlikely to be overturned by a higher court - in the past senior judges have shown themselves reluctant to undo radical precedents set in employment tribunals.



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DeadCityZombie
DeadCityZombie
16:34 Jan 25 2014

I understand the ruling but, I feel sorry for the workers who will be forced to take up the slack.



Once again, the squeaky wheel gets the grease.





 

Mother nature

15:11 Jan 25 2014
Times Read: 547








So i got up dusted myself down and decided i was going to get out and just go for a meal with a lady you know just spend some time with a beautiful woman and see how things develop. We have been talking about it for a week and had arranged to meet up tonight both really excited.

And today Mother Bloody nature dumps 20 cm of snow on me so guess im not going anywhere today =(.


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Thank you

05:52 Jan 24 2014
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Thank you to everyone who had kept me sane ( well sane ish) you know who you are i really appreciate it


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Thank you

20:46 Jan 21 2014
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I had a great time catching up with a friend and a most welcome break from feeling sorry for myself. You and the boys rock Thank you from the bottom of my heart your company was just what i needed.




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sahahria
sahahria
21:43 Jan 21 2014

:)





queenofchaos
queenofchaos
02:06 Jan 23 2014

yay!





 

I was wrong

07:01 Jan 18 2014
Times Read: 616








I was wrong the weekend didnt mean the same to her as it did to me.



So its all over its all gone and im alone again.



Everyone says get over it move forwards .



But to be honest i dont know if i have the energy better to be alone and that way no one can hurt you.




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queenofchaos
queenofchaos
12:48 Jan 18 2014

Oi..



You know you can't be alone.



Just give it time, you know this.






sahahria
sahahria
14:43 Jan 18 2014

*Points above* what she said.



More importantly, you were open and honest. That is what will make a relationship. What she did, was purely selfish for a moment of gratification and move over; it was hurtful.



You have nothing to be sorry for except for being caring and expressing that care. Which is NEVER inappropriate.





Theodora
Theodora
04:06 Jan 20 2014

It does get better. I know it doesn't seem like it, but it does.





 

Is this me umm somebody thinks it is =)

22:09 Jan 13 2014
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margareet
margareet
15:48 Jan 15 2014

Um,, i cant really say my dear friend,lol.BUT...from what I've heard through the grapevines, Uh huh *grins*,lol





 

Today

21:40 Jan 13 2014
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So i went and met with my new counselor today was very weird having to start all over again with someone new.

I found it particularly painful as issues i had addressed with my previous counselor had to be re examined.

It felt as if wounds that were slowly healing were torn open again.

So yeah today i am feeling vulnerable and sad again.

But on the plus side at least i liked her and felt comfortable talking with her. And hey pain is part of the healing process right???




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xxEmaeraldxx
xxEmaeraldxx
22:57 Jan 13 2014

But it sucks you had revisit old ground. Whats up with these people don't they read case notes?





margareet
margareet
15:52 Jan 15 2014

Not always a good thing to drag up what's been left behind. That's a main cause of PTSD, remembering.Some things are better left lone, old saying.

I have faith you'll get passed it. If she repeats it, ask her to read your notes (though, it helps her understand you better,still, she needs to do her homework from your previous therapist)....Hugs...





 

This Weekend

23:32 Jan 11 2014
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So i did it i drove down there.



I arrived at the door with flowers and knocked with my heart in my mouth.



At first she just stared at me but after a while opened the door and after a few tears and some you shouldn't be here she finally let me in.



We talked a lot about us the past and the future.



We went out for a great meal and a few drinks and laughed and talked and cried for hours before going home.



We reminded ourselves of how good we can be together both emotionally and physically.



So no its not fixed but it is along way further forwards than it was.



We are going to take it slow and not try to have what we had, but work towards having something better together.



It was a wonderful sad, happy loving day and a half.



I am sure that the next however long is not going to be easy but we have something amazing to work towards. We have to fix ourselves first so we don't poison it.



It might be a long road but we are going to walk it.



i would of stayed longer but mother nature has decided after letting it rain all day that she would like it to drop back below freezing for the next few days. So rather safe than sorry i came home.





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sahahria
sahahria
03:48 Jan 12 2014

:)





LadyTika
LadyTika
17:09 Jan 12 2014

WOW..sounds like you had a great weekend! Walking a road like that is never easy..but a worthwhile journey indeed. :)





xxEmaeraldxx
xxEmaeraldxx
22:59 Jan 13 2014

👍





margareet
margareet
15:57 Jan 15 2014

WOW, I seem to meet the wrong ones,lol. Flowers, meal, drinks, wow... i get ...well, you know,we've known each other awhile,(7 daum yrs, wow!)lol....Teach these daum american men how to treat a lady please!!!! lol.

Best of luck to you wolf dear!





 

This is either the very best idea ive had or the Worst.

05:46 Jan 10 2014
Times Read: 721








Ok so its decided tomorrow i am going to drive the 300 km to her house. And just knock on the door with a bunch of flowers, and if she answers invite her out to lunch.



If she slams the door or laughs then at least i have my answer.



Kind of scared and nervous but feel i have to do this.



Hey why not one last dumb romantic gesture what do i have to loose.




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queenofchaos
queenofchaos
09:17 Jan 10 2014

Hmm...good idea wolf.. =D





sahahria
sahahria
14:08 Jan 10 2014

Closure is always a good idea. Text if you need anything.





sahahria
sahahria
14:10 Jan 10 2014

I'm also going to say this, closure does not mean ending. It means knowing which way you are going. So putting yourself out there, being vulnerable- that is the BEST way to get it. And this idea is the best, for it will answer your quest. You will know after which way you need to go.



I wish you strength and as much calm as possible when you do this.





LadyTika
LadyTika
17:10 Jan 12 2014

Sounds like a good Idea to me :)





 

Best Friend

12:34 Jan 09 2014
Times Read: 741








How do you tell your best friend ?



That you still love the one you lost



That you miss and think of her everyday



That without her your alone even in a room full of people.



That when you go to bed a part of you hopes not to wake



How do you tell your best friend?



When your best friend is the one!.

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XDrakkar
XDrakkar
15:23 Jan 09 2014

Seems to me you just answered you're own question





queenofchaos
queenofchaos
09:18 Jan 10 2014

Just by talking.






margareet
margareet
15:58 Jan 15 2014

Just say it





 

Updated profile

19:41 Jan 06 2014
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I have been tweaking my profile all day. Can i ask you all to go look and give me some feedback please.




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if you know me this makes sense (and no not being arrogant).

16:29 Jan 06 2014
Times Read: 777






The WHO



When I think back to the

first time in my childhood

When I saw that face

I thought right then,

'That's a real good looking boy'



I saw myself in the mirror

in profile

for the first time

I thought,

'Hey! That's a real good looking boy'



And I felt then

that I moved

With all those lucky fucks and angels

High in the theatre

In the sky



So I ran to my mother

I said,

'Mom - take a look at me

Have you ever seen a teen

Fly so high?'



That's a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy



She said,

'Son, well, you know,

you're an ugly boy.

You don't really look like him



In this long line

There's been some

real strange genes

You've got 'em all

You've got 'em all

With some extras thrown in'



That's a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy



Wise men say

Only fools, only fools rush in

But I - I can't help

Falling in love, in love with you



Now I'm here with you little darling

And you say, 'You're beautiful as you are'

And I've managed somehow to survive



You arrived in my life like a fragrance and

you help me find a way to laugh

Now I Know how so-called beauty lies



God gave him a face

Then he gave me something above

God gave me a grace

Man, he gave me your sweet, sweet, sweet love



You make me feel like I'm a real good looking boy

I feel I'm a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy

That's a real good looking boy


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Eyes

17:10 Jan 05 2014
Times Read: 792






Our eyes are



Brown eyes and Tawny eyes

Warm eyes and kind eyes

Loving eyes and naughty eyes

Lively eyes and happy eyes

Bright eyes and living eyes



So why have we made them



Sad eyes and angry eyes

Lost eyes and hurt eyes

Stuborn eyes and pleading eyes

Lonely eyes and crying eyes

Dull eyes and dead eyes



These are not our eyes and i for one miss our eyes.



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My Eyes

02:53 Jan 05 2014
Times Read: 820






 photo myeyes.jpg





I wish you could of looked in to my eyes and said what you said to me today.

I wonder if you could of said it ?

I wonder if you would of meant it?

I wonder if i deserved it?



But i am scared to find out.

I am scared to let you see my eyes.

Because just one look and you will realize.

Just how much your in control.

Just how much you have hurt my soul.



But you have made your choice i heard it in your voice.

i wanted to mend it you chose to end it

So i will hide my eyes so you don't realize .




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HauntingWords
HauntingWords
16:23 Jan 05 2014

Lovely~





 

Another Image i have made

16:07 Jan 01 2014
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playing around and modifying images i liked. if you like it feel free to use it.



 photo lie.png

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2014

15:43 Jan 01 2014
Times Read: 849






Well its 2014.



And these are my thoughts so far ( bear with me i have only just woken up)



I have not made any resolutions i know the things i need to do and making them a resolution wont help lol.



Anyway i guess fresh start clean page and all that stuff, so its time to put this rock down and get on with it.



I am going to live this year for me, no i am not being selfish just the last few years i have lived my life for her and that didn't work to well.



I cant live my life for others i have to live it for me.



If you don't understand that last part then your either lost or lucky im not sure which.

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queenofchaos
queenofchaos
17:20 Jan 01 2014

I've always and still remain today...telling you the same thing...



You can NOT live your life for another soul...



You MUST live your life, without restrictions full of laughter, love and happiness.



You will find her...you have alot to offer, even though you're getting OLD.



*smiles*



All the best for 2014 my dear friend.








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