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What is wrong with a person being shy? No one can change who they are, and if a person is shy, they are always going to be shy. I still try very hard to be open to people that I meet. However, it is never enough. I think that if social people were more open to shy people, there could be a lot of people opening up from shyness. When I talk to girls, it always ends up turning out bad because I somehow "back off" or just talk less. I don't think that I can keep up that kind of consistency being as how shy I am. If you ask me, I think that open people should reach out more to a person if they start to talk less. Usually talking less comes from closed-ended comments, yes-no questions, and sometimes a lack of topic. And if there is someone in the conversation that knows how to be more open, then maybe they should initiate conversation more. There is nothing wrong with shyness and people take it the wrong way all of the time. And it doesn't always work out when you've got two shy people together.

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LadyRaniofArtic
02:27 May 12 2009

us shy people rock once you get to know us.

i cant look an unknown guy in the eyes but once i know him, he's my friend.

im not as shy around girls but im still shy enough.

its not something you can really help

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