Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 13:39:16 - Dec 26 2008
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There is a guy here who has obviously conned a few females here - I'll admit that I was one of them.
For any of you who find any of this info familiar, please chime in...I just ask that you DO NOT REVEAL WHO HE IS BY NAME!
Isis101
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Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 13:41:14 - Dec 26 2008
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-He says that he's Italian, Irish and Navaho
- wants you at his side in front of the fireplace with a bottle of chilled Merlot
( I thought that Merlot was besrt served at room temperature)?
- loves to ride his Harley
Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 13:45:01 - Dec 26 2008
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wow, i think that i've actually heard about this winner.
and you're right, merlot is best at room temp. anyone that knows wine or bartends knows that
thefeeder
Caitiff (5)
Posts: 1
Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 13:50:43 - Dec 26 2008
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Ahh yes...I was conned...everyone who was conned raise your hand!!
Merlot, yup and don't forget the night ride on the harley and the guitar...
he can take his cyber bull shit and shove it up his virtaul ASS!!!!
Alura
Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 14:01:41 - Dec 26 2008
Times viewed: 17
-Oh yeah -the avatar pic he sometimes uses? It ain't him.
- At some point, did you receive pics of his 'manpole'?
Cyber-Douche Alert!
Posted: 14:02:38 - Dec 26 2008
Times viewed: 17
Rubbishing other members on the public forum is strictly forbidden. Leave your personal issues to your journal, or if there is a genuine concern relating to the VR Terms of Service, then contact an Administrator.
Thank you.
For starters, the asshole's name isn't mentioned...And yeah, right...like a admin here can or will do something about this...yet this guy continues to wreck havoc all over the place. Just brilliant...oh yeah - he's using another guy's pic as an avatar - a violation of VR's TOS...whatever.
Dear______________,
You lured me (a reclusive woman) from my safe shell into a brief world of bright colors and light. Your attentions to me took me completely by suprise.
I thought that you were sincere; your words of kindness, humor, and passion (some of it X-Rated) sucked me into your vortex. Your attractive pictures were icing on the cake.
I should have known better than to think that anything truly romantic could come out of the internet. Yet, when you took my hand, pointed to the stars, and said "C'mon baby - let's fly. Let me play my guitar and sing for you" I was hooked. I followed, like a besotted fool, with my heart beating wildly in my chest.
The three weeks of non-stop correspondence was exhilarating. When you told me that you loved me, I foolishly believed you, loving you back. We made tentative plans to meet in the spring.
Imagine my pain and shame when I found out that you were also charming and hurting other women here. I was beside myself, crying and asking over and over - "Why?"
What a fool I have been. My foolishness has opened my eyes, however. What I have learned is that internet romance is fake and fleeting. (Congratulations to those few who have found true love here).
What surprised me more was when you sent a message saying "Wow. You really take me for a cold blooded mother fucker. Wow"...Wow is right....if you can't see that you are an emotionally abusive sociopath, God help you. (Oh yeah - you call yourself a 'feeder' - a type of psi-vamp)...speaking of God, you really should stop invoking the names of Goddesses, with your poor treatment of me and the other women.
It makes me wonder why you and you ex really broke up. May Innana watch and guide your son, so that he may grow up to be a better man than his father.
If you were truly a godsend that I lost, I would be miserable for a very long time, crying over what a prized catch I lost. As it is, the fact that you, my tainted knight, have treated me so shabbily will make it easier to hate, then forget you.
Sincerely,
Isis101
PS - Karma will bite you in your ass one day for what you have done to all of us - I only wish that i could be around to see it.
PSS - Oh yeah - you can take your guitar and shove it up your ass.
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FYI:
The avatar pic of the guy with the long wavy hair sitting in front of an orange wall isn't him. I bet the guy whose pic it is won't be too thrilled to know that his likeness is being used by a douchebag.
O.o I definitely won't be looking through the net for true love...now if it taps me on the shoulder, I'll listen to what it has to say...but for the moment...NO.
Well said!! And kudos from a woman also bitten by the night bug...
Here here to shoving that guitar and oh yeah, shove the harley too mother f******
Alura
Believe me - I wasn't looking. The douche approached me and I was a big dummy.
o.o who broke my isis heart ill kill the bastid!
AYW...you are so cool - thanks! As it is, even my ex - who is another kind of asshole - wants to drive to this guys state, find him, and beat his ass...LOL!
(He's a trucker - I've seen him beat up other guys - ain't pretty).
See it really is the stupid fucks that make it hard for good guys that when we say "I love you" and mean it hard to belive. I am so sorry to hear that you have been played with. I hope that you dont lose faith in all men because there are some good ones out there.
This guy sounds scarily familiar...Im always skittish around those who charm people through email, men in particular, but I wouldnt be surprised if this is "who" I think it is..what a jackass!!
Hey Isis, lets go over and shave off his eyebrows?!?
Solitary...I'd rather take my bow and shoot him in the crotch...
I say shoot in crotch...
I can only imagine how many innocent women got hurt.
Vampire my ass
I'm still stuck on the guitar-up-the-ass. It sounds so fittingly painful. Never mind the bow, never mind shaving his eyebrows. Wedge a guitar... up his ass.
I'm so sorry Isis,
I didn't know he was doing this to you to, I'm still involveed with him and he promised me it would never happen again. I just can't stop loving him, I choose him from the day I seen his profile. I know there is a honorble man in him, just needs a push in the right direction. I have no problem with telling him he acted like a pig and honey I remind him everyday. Vampires shound have more respect for their fellow female counter parts, we are their eqauls not play things. I know what I was doing when he made his advances and I welcomed then. I beleive that Night did not expect me to come into his life and love him so much, well I know he loves me because he has not ran like a cowrd , he has owned up to his mistakes. I told him that if I hear any more of that shit in the future then I'm gone and he will feel my lose 10 fold. Again Isis I'm so sorry you got hurt and any other women that was involved with him I'm sorry that you had to indure such bad behavior.
I BELEIVE IN SECOND CHANCES AND NIGHT IS GETTING HIS SECOND WITH ME. I PROTECT THE ONES I LOVE AND EVEN WITH HIS BEHAVUOR I'M IN PROTECT MODE WITH HIM SO PLEASE DON'T DOWN GRADE HIM TO ME. I KNOW YOU DON'T RESPECT HIM BUT PLEASE RESPECT MY WISHS AND MY FEELINGS. I'M TRYING TO GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO PROVE HE LOVES ME AND RESPECT WHAT WE HAVE. I DON'T AGREE WITH WHAT DID TO ANY OF US, DON'T GET ME WRONG ABOUT THAT. I BELIEVE PEOPLE CAN CHANGE AND IF NOT WELL KARMA IS A BITCH
Oh man, Ivy...I'll pray for you...all I can do at this point.
The man is dangerous, and I hate to say it, but you will get more pain from him in the end. Sociopaths are incapable of tru loving emotion, hon.
HUN DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME, I HAVE HAD TO INDURE MANY BROKEN HEART BUT IN THE END IT WAS THE OTHER PERSON THAT REGRETED LOSING ME. iF YOU HAVE'NT READ MY PROFILE INTRO IT IS MY STORY AND I'VE HAD TO GO THRUOGH SO MUCH LOSE AND HEART ACHE. I STIL WONT GIVE UP ON LOOKING FOR MY LOVE, EVEN IF IT MEANS MORE HEART ACHE AND PAIN. AT LEAST I CAN FEEL KNOW, FOR ALONG TIME i WAS HOLLOW INSIDE AFTER LOSING MY LAST LOVE TO A CAR RECK MANY YEARS AGO. I WELCOME ANY TYPE OF FEELINGS AT THIS PIONT, i'M IN LOVE WITH NIGHT AND IS FEELS GOOD TO BE IN LOVE LIKE THAT AGAIN. I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN i MET NIGHT AND IT LACKED THE PASSION AND THE FIRE THAT NIGHT MAKES ME FEEL, SOMETHING I HAVEN'T FELT IN YEARS. I don't know what the future is going to bring but for now I can't give him up and I won't.
Er...yeah...He made me feel all special too (I saved every last bit of correspondence). He knew the perfect things to say. And talking to him on the phone hearing that sexy raspy voice...I get it. But I'm not a masochist. Love should be equal and real...one shouldn't have to go thru heartache after heartache to figure that out.
As time goes by more people will come forward...
Ivy you are a sweet woman, but you've picked a rogue. that means he will NEVER stop...he does it in real life not just online. He does it after every gig on FRI and SAT. If you can handle that well, then good luck!
He will not change. He is a Wampire, born to seduce and feed off beautiful women, doomed to his exisitence forever and ever and ever...
Many apologies to Scorpio1031, who left a very kind message here - I have no idea where it went or how it got deleted...?
last Yahoo message:
Dec 25, 2008
nightside--: @};-@};-@};-@};-@};-Merry Christmas baby
Mimi: Oh - Thank you! I hope you and ---- had a fun Xmas morning opening gifts
Later:
Mimi: Wow...
Mimi: talk to me
nightside--: ok im here
nightside--: Idont know what to say
Mimi: I'm still at a loss for words myself - in shock
Mimi: so...i guess I was on the right track when I said that you had a major cruel mind fuck for me, eh?
nightside--: no
nightside--: no not at all
nightside--: thats not how it is your wrong
Mimi: then please, tell me how I'm wrong
nightside--: M-----e I think i should just leave it well enough alone I never ment for you to get hurt that wasnt my intentions and im sorry I know you belive me to be cruel and cold But im none of these things...
Mimi: no - tell me. At least I could learn by my mistakes...And you are cruel and cold. I can't even imagine treating someone the way you treated me, and apparently others on VR. It actually makes me sad for you, because you are obviously so damaged inside. SO, tell me why you did what you did to me. Please.
Mimi: hello?
nightside--: why do you say this to me
nightside--: treating you this way?? were you not happy were you not pleased?
Mimi: Well V-----, look at all of the heartache you've caused. That isn't very nice...But I see that you just don't get it. Of course I was pleased - but that was in thinking that there was something special emotionally as well.
nightside--: Im sorry
nightside--: Im really sorry
Mimi: Yet i think that you will continue along this path...I hope that one day you will work out whatever demons you have inside of yyou that makes you so cruel. I hope that you will truly be happy one day.
nightside--: you should delete me
Mimi: goodbye V-----. if nothing else, you have taught me that cybering is not good - not good at all.
Mimi: I won't delete you...but if you want to delete me, I can't stop you.
nightside--: I wont delete you either
nightside--: I Have to go goodnight
Final message - VR:
Final VR message from Night:
I know you hate me and i know there is nothing i can say thats gonna change that But I am sorry..
HAY HAS HE TRYED TO CONTACT YOU SENSE THE 25TH, I NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHING HE HAS SAID TO YOU. I HAD TO GET A LITTLE GUIDANCE FROM A REV FRIEND OF MINE WHO WORKS THRU ONE OF THE TEMPLES BACK EAST, HE'S GOT ME IN A SITUATION WERE I'm second guessing myself and my beliefs. I HATE THIS, FEELING SO OUT OF CONTROL. DID HE TELL YOU THAT YOUR EVERYTHING TO HIM AND HE WANTS YOU TO BE HIS WIFE TO, THAT YOU WERE THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPEN TO HIM BESIDES HIS SON. HAVE YOU READ HIS JOURNAL, WELL READ MY COMMENT TO IT THAT I WROTE LAST NIGHT. Isis, I feel so stupid, all i want to do is cry, know wonder he acted so funny last night when I told him that I read your journals. He promised me when all this came out that it would never happen again and I was the one he needed and wanted, well if I'm not mistaken this happend befor Christmas. I NEED TO KNOW THE PERSONAL STUFF TO IF YOU DON'T MIND
Ok lets put this a different way, he needs the attention, he needs the fantasy, he needs the energy good or bad...he won't change but maybe he'll try to be honest.
He feeds, he seduces, he's suave, he's smooth
he's Night....that's who he is and he will NEVER change
A sociopath cannot ever be honest - lying on a regular basis in the norm for them...LOL!
In any case, I'm through with the man - he won't be getting any attention from me. I've got important stuff to do now. Cherio!
lol.. I would have to add to the part where you say shove that guitar up your ass, I would have added and break it off in your ass.. ugh.. he is a sick man, with no life.. someday karma will get him ladies.. then we all can sit back and just smile at the scum as he waddles on his belly hunting for pity.. just kick him as you pass.. lmao..
Oh Mau...you are too damn funny! LOL!
A few of us womenfolk here were stalking the asshole - guess it got to him, as he blocked stalking...LOL! So, I guess we we're gettin' under his skin a lil' after all...good!
Oh well - I'm bored with fuckin' with him now anyway...
What Sol had in her journal...I love her! She rocks!
And we know that isnt you in the photo.
05:07:16 - Jan 07 2009
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So not only has he changed his name he also has a second profile.
I wonder.. How many women were conned by this "Cyber Casanova".
I am pleased my instincts about NOT trusting you were all too true.
I was hoping there would be a small chance it was only friendship you wanted.
But *sigh* people do not disappoint. And you hurt a very good friend of mine in the process.
What I find sad and pathetic is the simple fact - You are deluded. Hows the guitar?....
Yep this all sounds very familiar! Same scenario. Same lowlife jackass using fake pics and claiming to want to play a song and sing to me and make me happy blah blah blah. What a pathetic loser. I can only hope when the world turns and exposes him for what a piece of trash he really is, that I am around to see it and laugh about it. Yep, I think I can recall saying about Karma biting back as well, lmao. Kudos Isis!
For any of you reading this, also check out xAstartex's January entry under WTF?
Deja-fuckin'-vu, I tell ya'...
That ass never shoud have hurt you mate
Trust me he will get what he deservs X a million
He shouldnt hurt people
...
Nobody should ever hurt anybody else
...i also wish his son grows up to be a better man than his father was
This is the very first Christmas in which I remained home alone - a wierd feeling, since I'm used to family get-togethers. Opening presents, stuffing my face, and watching movies is the norm. Kinda' lonely but not so bad, since I'm more or less a loner anyway. But still...I wish that we had the perfect logistics to have a family holiday...but with my sis having a bad cold, and with everyone being broke and all, this was a very dismal holiday. Maybe next year, things will be back to normal.
Ah...nothing like having my heart ripped out and thrown in my face.
COMMENTS
Gives ya hugs , we still loves ya Isis !
*hugs* yep ya got us isis.
Maybe I jumped the gun on this one, being overly emotional and shit.
Things are better than I had expected, but I must tread with caution.
*picks up heart, cleans off, places a kiss on it and puts back in your chest*
Mee got hood-winked by asshole on Rave. Me big dummy. Me will get over asshole and be fine.
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That just says to me that natural is cool, the disheveled look means you are relaxed and... crazy? Crazy? I was crazy once...they put me in a rubber room...there were holes in the floor...with worms in the holes...worms remind me of women...women drive me crazy...I was crazy once...they put me in a rubber room...there were holes in the floor...there were worms in the holes...worms re(suddenly kidnapped by Asylum ninjas) :P
nothing is more purdy than bedhead and sugarbelly hehe
Stikki...you ARE crazy...
Nah you don't look Crazy ! and your now just realizing Stikki is crazy?? We have all known that for a long time.
Yes Stikki women drive me crazy to. must be why most my friends are guys !
I'm actually quite calm when I am on my meds properly...plus I can do math!
y = 4/(x - 2):
Lim h-->0 y = [4/(x + h - 2) - 4/(x - 2)]/h
= [(4x - 8 - 4x - 4h + 8)/(x + h - 2)(x - 2)]/h
= -4/(x + h - 2)(x - 2) (I canceled the h's)
= -4/(x - 2)2 (I got rid of the last h because it was going to zero!)
Overall, this year has totally sucked - especially financially. What karmic debt have I incurred? I just received a 'Notice of Deficiency' from the IRS, stating that I owe $539.00 for 2006...fucking great! The timing couldn't be worse - my ass is unemployed right now.
Apparently, the 1099R form for some retirement income was never filed by H & R Block. I know that I got the info to them, so I called to see if they could take care of the problem. After being bounced around a few departments, I was finally connected to their 'Peace of Mind' department. I knew that I had to wait a bit before I got a customer service rep, so I got comfy with a cup of coffee...I listened to a crappy warped tape of "Girl from Ipanema" over and over again. Nonetheless, my cell was glued to my ear, as I didn't want to miss out on getting help.
Of course, with my bad karma, the Gods decided to be cruel. I had to pee - really bad. So, I went to the bathroom to do my business. And wouldn't you know it - the 'business' was expanded to more 'business'. I figured that I could finish my task before a rep answered - after all, I was on hold for over 45 minutes already...I couldn't have been more wrong. I got a rep - a guy - on the line. I told him of my situation with the tax filing, constantly aware that my voice was echoing, thanks to the fuckin' bathroom accoustics. And I tried - oh how I tried - to hold what was coming, but I couldn't. I failed miserably...
KERPLUNKT!
I prayed to the Gods that the rep didn't hear it - my prayer wasn't answered, due to the fact that I heard him snickering. I wanted to die...
Finally, the rep composes himself, to tell me that I didn't pay for the 'Peace of Mine' coverage for the 2006 tax year. I was devestated. All I could do was say thank you, in my tiny 'I'm embarrassed and stupid' voice, and hang up.
Life really sucks.
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lmfao! oh you just made my day with this lil story isis thank you..*hugs* lol
Thanks, AYW! May as well laugh at life's bullshit...
OMG >>>>> Still laughing ....Murphys law I swear, that was great. I really neededa great laugh and to know that I am not the only one that at times has the worst luck . Hugs ya ~
I swear, I am NOT laughing at anything but the music! This is one of the levels of Dante's Inferno... It's called a Musichell! (wah wah wahhhh)
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