Stories of Lies and Deceit05:44 Sep 13 2006
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I got this from CountessMoon's Journal..... I think it's important for everyone to read.
I know that this person has delete his profile but, I am still doing this as a warning to other unsuspecting woman out there. Be cautious and be aware. This is the story that was mentioned in my previous entry.
Somethings might be repeated. Sorry for that.
I am done. I am done holding my silence and letting stories and lies be passed around about me. I am sick of all. So, if you want to know the REAL truth behind a relationship full of fables with ACID RONIN or VAMPKAMUI then read. Events are not in order within the month. They are pretty much in order within the order of the month. I am not doing this out of spite. I have had numerous people come to me and tell me that he has done the same thing to them. I now break my silence not only to warn others of the harm that could come their way but, to set my name straight as he has been telling people I am a horrible and abusive person.
The beginning of April 2005. Some of the older crew had decided to make a chat room on yahoo for VR members to go and chat if they couldn't get into IRC. So that we did. I was on-line quite a bit at that time. There were regulars that came into the chat room. One I started to have a crush on. One thing led to another as a friend help us "hook up" and we were on the phone all the time. Within the first few weeks of talking he told me he loved me. I knew I cared a lot about him and 'loved' him. We were on the phone non-stop. Within that first month he had told a mutual friend of ours that he was being tested for leukemia I believe. I was very worried and said that no matter what I would be there for him. Throughout this time he had told me he was 24, owned part of a nightclub with a friend, was from Japan, was part Japanese, also lived in England at some point,had numerous cars, and lived in a very large house. He also said he was quite well off. Told me his father was in a very high position at Dell. I had no reason not to believe him. He also told me that he lived in Japan. That he, the friend that half owned the bar with him, and another girl from the site met at school. He told that that they all were best friends. Always together. He said he could barely read English or spell it because all he knew was Japanese. He also said he hadn't lived in the states but for a few years. He would tell me that he used to be in a gang.There was also a lot of fights that were picked. Things that would upset me and I did the same. Sometimes it was dig after dig. Almost as though it was intentional. He would always tell me that he was drinking or drunk. He and I had a conversation about it and I told him that I wouldn't be with anyone that was a drunk.
He was sweet, charming,funny, emotional, attentive, and knew the right things to say.
After about a month of "dating"( it was in May) and talking all the time. He asked me to marry him on the phone. I said yes. I mean why not. He was everything I was looking for.
During this time there was a contest on VR. He said that he was at work and helping us work on it. He was signed onto a computer and had the mic on. We could all hear a concert in the background. So we all believed he was at work. ( mind you he had told me that Bethany from My Ruin was like his sister. He also said that he was some part of the band for a bit, he traveled with them and she wanted him but, he didn't think of her that way. He also was friends with Ville Vallo and met Bam and some other people.) He also told me that since he was part owner of the bar he took the full summer off and was talking about times when he could come out here. At an earlier time he was at a club telling me that he was bouncing that night. I could hear the little girls come up to him and coo and ahh. He would feed into it. I always teased him about a fan club. He then had some issue with some girls that were drunk. He supposedly kicked them out. He supposedly had Oxycontin for his surgery and o.d. on that. He then told me that his father got into a car accident. He also told me that some of his family died in the bombing in London.
The first time he was supposed to come visit me was the first weekend in June. He kept me on pins and needles saying that he wouldn't know for sure until the day before. I was worried he wouldn't show. He never did. There was supposedly some family issue that he had to stay for. If I remember correctly he said that his niece was to fly back to England that day to live with her mother. He wanted to see her off on the plane. I forgave him and said I understood. Things were normal and we talked every night. I told him later on that month that I felt like I was in a relationship with a computer. That every time he makes plans to fly up here something always happened. He apologized, ( something that he always did) and asked me if I wanted to go down there for the 4Th of July. He said that he and a few people were renting an apartment for a month and having a big party there so it didn't mess up this house. I had his home number he said that he was going to re-route it to the apartment so I could get a hold of him. I didn't know if I would have been able to due to having to be here for other issues. In the beginning he told me he was in a 'House'. A vampiric one. Said that his father was in it as well. He also said that he was supposed to be taking the house over because he was the next in line. Later on this month he told me that he had made the decision to go to London for two years to gather the information that he needed to do his duties. He also told me that I couldn't go with him because the elders said I would be a distraction. ( He had told me earlier in the relationship that he wanted me to go to London with him when he wanted to go. He also told me that he took his ex-girlfriend to Japan to meet his grandparents) I understood. We talked about how he and I felt about the whole situation. Flying to Pennsylvania and buying me a mansion. He told me he was looking at it for me and had his friends with him. and was looking at it. Mind you he told me a few days before to keep somethings packed because he had a surprise for me. He was supposed to fly and get me and then we were supposed to check out a mansion. He told me that his childhood friend( that was his ex) also came with him. It really upset me. I cried. He told me to get to the airport and there would a ticket waiting for me if I wanted to come. i told him no, I didn't want too. I was devastated. He called me with music blasting in the background and said his friend was blasting music just like they were at home. he then knew I was upset and told me he was flying out a few hours later) Told my family that he asked me to marry him. He was always persistent how telling people things that he was going to do or that he was going to buy me. He said he bought me a wedding ring. That he had it made.He said he lost it both times. He called me one time in the mall and said he was buying me stuff what did I want and then saying stuff about the new ring he got me. He was always telling me to plan our wedding. He didn't care how much the dress cost he would get it. He didn't care how much the wedding cost he would pay for it. Then he kept pushing to get married right away.. To get hand fasted
July came around and he asked me to move in with him in his home. I was excited. I wanted to change places and start new with someone that I loved. It was a big decision but, I really thought about it. I wasn't able to go down there for the big 4Th party but, he stayed on the phone with me all night. Saying that all his friends were getting mad because he was supposed to be at a party and he was locked in a bedroom talking to me. He had also told me that his ex-girlfriend showed up along with her friend. That he was trying to stay away from them. Later on in the night it was told to me that his childhood friend from the site and his ex got into a huge fight. I went down there at the end of July. My dad actually took me down. He needed a vacation and wanted to meet him. The plan was going to be that my dad would drop me off down there and I would stay with him for about a month. Then my dad would come back down and get me. ( He kept saying he would buy me a plane ticket but I declined) I was down there for about 4 days. Within those days one of the nights, he lit candles and asked me to marry him. I said yes. We didn't do much of anything. Hung out, fornicated, and just was together. My dad met him. My dad hated him from the start. He had told me about the house and his nice things. My dad met him and made comments about stuff. Why because of the things I had told him previous about things he had told me.
I came home close to the beginning of Aug. He wanted me to come down there for his birthday the following month. He wanted me to be moved in down there by then. I couldn't be I had things I had to take care of here. Things were going on a pretty good flow. Besides some little tiffs here and there. Then again what was new. Throughout the previous months of the relationship he kept telling me that he had problems with his ex's showing up at places, making scenes, and saying mean things. He sparsely told them he wanted nothing to do with them anymore. Which sent my anger into the deep-end. I would talk shit because of what I was being told. I had every right. I thought they were trying to spoil my relationship. It seemed like I always thought I had to fight with some story of ex's and girls that wanted him. He then told me that he wanted to become a women. He and I got into the discussion. I told him that I wouldn't be with him but, I would be with him and help him anyway I could. That was not the lifestyle I was into. I was in it before and I had no desire to go back to it. He then told me that he wanted to become a women. He and I got into the discussion. I told him that I wouldn't be with him but, I would be with him and help him anyway I could. That was not the lifestyle I was into. I was in it before and I had no desire to go back to it. He then told me that he wanted to become a women. He and I got into the discussion. I told him that I wouldn't be with him but, I would be with him and help him anyway I could. That was not the lifestyle I was into. I was in it before and I had no desire to go back to it. Pregnancy scare he wanted me to have a baby quite badly.
In September ( towards the end) I purchased a bus ticket to go down to S.C. I arrived there late in the day. We went and I had gotten somethings ( air mattress, comforter, pillows, a sheet, and a few other things I needed) I asked him why we couldn't stay at his house. He said because his best friend's family was in town and they needed place to stay. He said we could stay at the apartment they rented for the party that they just kept. He also had to leave every morning from about 7 to 3:30 because of work) During the time down there we had some really nice times. Others where iffy. He had took me and introduced me to his friends, which I rather enjoyed. He took me out to eat. His friends, himself, and I went to a really old cemetery. He left me by myself. He told me that asked his friends to look after me. I was highly pissed off. One night we decided to go out. We went and hung out some of his friends. He then had to go take care of some business at the bar. Supposedly they were having someone come in and take over booking bands or something. He asked me if I wanted to go in. ( Mind you he parked WAY out on the other side of a hill across the street from the bar. I had on platform boots that had a heel about 4 inches. There was no way I would had busted my ass going up the hill.) So I sat there and waited. He came back down and said he seen his old friend that he grew up with ( mind you he told me a while ago that she was his ex and very protective of him) I was peeved, I was out there for quite a long time. We were going to go to another place where he said his friends wanted to meet up with. He pulled into the parking lot and told me to wait there for a minute he just wanted to run in and see if they were there. Not only did he run into the bar, he ran across the street. Let me in the car for a LONG TIME. He told me earlier that night that he had a friend he wanted me to meet. She looked just like his old friend he grew up with ( his ex) but, she wasn't such a bitch. I said I didn't want to met her. Come to find out it was his old friend that was his ex. He tried to trick me into meeting her pretending she was someone else. We got into a huge fight.We went and talked it out. I also took him to work at a haunted house around the corner from him. He said that he was the one that put in the most money to run it. He also said told me some story about the two friends he grew up with came. The one of his friends was his ex. He said he made me cry. One night he then took me down to the park. Of course he pointed out where he and 'Bethany' hung out and where he and his other ex girlfriend hung out. We had a really nice time. We went to the mall ( which I hate) and he told me that there was a skateboarding video of him in PacSun. I said I wanted to see it but, he wanted to go into another store first. ( I never seen it) He also took me to a cemetery with all of his friends. We were all walking around and he told his friends to watch me and just let me wander off alone. He never came back until 20 minutes or so later. Towards the end I had to go get a paper faxed to me so I could sign it. As we sat in there a couple of his friends were in there. He invited them back to his house. Mind you I was leaving the next day, had to pack my stuff, and was sad. He didn't ask me if I cared. They just came. He told them they had to take off when they got there because I was mad I'm sure. He kept saying that he wanted me to stay longer. So I called and seen if I had to be home within that time or if I could extend my stay. There was no issues here so I could extend it. Then my feelings really got hurt. All of a sudden I had to leave the next day. He kept giving me reasons as to why I couldn't. My feelings were really hurt. Earlier within the two weeks he needed to have surgery done. I told him I would help him and that was one of the reason's I was there. Well, he then told me that the doctor was also going to go in and scape his knee because it was doing bad. ( he was a supposed famous skateboarder, snowboarder, etc and screwed up his knee.) He then told me that they burned the incision shut so it didn't even look like he had surgery. ( he also told me earlier that the doctor told him if he didn't take it easy on his knee he wouldn't never walk again and would confined to a wheel chair.) We had a few quarrels when I was there. (Before I had went down there he was trying to plan a hand fasting so we could get married asap. He was asking around to everyone and having me talk to his friends on the phone)In and out of the hospital for different reasons. Told me he was going into rehab because he needed help. Then told me that he might have to be institutionalized because he could do something so rare. They thought he was crazy.
I had gotten back to Michigan within the second week of October.
November he came here. I finally told him if he wasn't here at that point in time then I was done. He and I got into a heated discussion about it. I was sick and tired of him always saying that he was thinking about getting on a plane and just coming or he was supposed to be here and it never happened because something came up. Almost dying on XTC pills, cutting himself, stabbing himself in the abdomen with a needle. ( The one time he was supposed to be here he couldn't come because his niece was in the hospital and they didn't know if she was going to make it. So supposedly Ville Val lo was in town and he was friends with them and they hung out in her room in ICU. Then when she got out of the hospital they let her use their plane to go home or something.) So he arrived here shortly after thanksgiving. I had to loan him the money to come take a bus. he said that his family member wouldn't give it to him.He told me that his uncle owned a Japanese restaurant. He told me earlier in the month his step mother would come to his mansion and be mean to him. Then one day when he was confined to a wheel chair his step mother put him outside and left him there. He said he slept out side. When we went ghost hunting with a couple friends of mine he wouldn't listen and bragging about being a demonologist. He told me that he had green eyes and that he wore brown contacts because he didn't like them. I later busted him on lying about it. When he had got here by bus he told me that Bethany;s tour bus was there waiting for him to surprise him. That he took a shower and got cleaned up on there and just hoped back on the bus because that's what I was expecting him to be on.
December rolled around. Times were getting a bit rocky. Stress was getting worse with everything.Sometimes I felt as though I being pulled in way different directions. He kept telling me that He was going to sell his home over in England and Japan and he was going to buy a house here. He even told me that he talked to a real estate agent and he found one that he thought sounded good. Every time I wanted to go see it he said I have to call for directions. Finally I just stopped asking. He also said that he was going to open up a bar up here. Told me that he had a job through a friend he knew that knew one of the guys that owned the local bar up here. He kept telling me he has his mother's ring that he was going to give to me. He would tell me to wait until he was ready. I did I finally asked him if I could just see it. It said he wasn't sure he wanted to give it to me. We took him to the bar. He bought drinks and got Really drunk. Then there was a fight between some people. He kept trying to get involved with it.Before that he pulled me out on the dance floor and asked me to marry him with my best friends ring because he supposedly forgot to bring the one he had. He wouldn't listen and sit down. He had no id and was from out of state
January came the beginning wasn't so bad. When it had gotten towards the end I knew I had to take him home. He didn't buy a bus ticket for the way back. So me and my best friend decided to take a road trip and take him home. She had made plans for my birthday and he couldn't go. He said he lost his wallet and ID on the bus. The bar we were going to wouldn't allow him in. He kept trying to sabotage my plans for my birthday. I knew I had to take him home. Before that my best friend had surgery. She had cervical cancer. She came and stayed with me. i took care of her. i didn't want anything to happen to her. She couldn't sleep on the couch. The doctor told her she had to sleep in bed or she would rip out her stitches. So she slept with me. I blew up the air mattress and had him sleep next to me. He would always try and get into bed. Telling me to move over. He would wait for her to go to the bathroom early in the morning and get into her spot. He would also wait for her to fall asleep in the living room and just not bother waking her so she wouldn't pull out her stitches. It got really insane. We fought a lot. I'd ask him to do things and it would take all night. My dad went away to Florida. My best friend sprained her ankle. I had her there to take care of her. She means the world to me, I wouldn't let her go without. During this time he always had to have my attention. He would say he had to talk to me and then pull me in the bedroom and shut the door. There would be times when he would tell her I said something, when in fact, that wasn't what I had said. He tried to come between me and my best friend. I was drained both physically and emotionally. My stress level was through the roof. At that time I had some bad back issues, I would take him into best buy and be almost in tears because my back would be hurting so bad. He wouldn't leave or say just a minute and run off. I was very stressed out. I had no time to myself. I was exhausted. Sometimes when I tried to sleep he wouldn't stop waking me up, he was on the computer moving stuff around or something. I took care of a lot of things at that time. My best friend was down and out and things with the house. He did help me and do nice things for me but, sometimes I felt it was only for attention or to make himself look good. For instance my best friend had gotten coupons for Christmas from someone she was seeing.They were really nice things. So he went and did the same thing and made the comment about eat your heart out. He also had to keep lying to get more money when he ran out. He had to call his family member and make up some excuse. He also sat in front me and my best friend and told us that he had met a couple of people from the site that I am/was friends with. He made up some story about going out, drinking, and one of them flashing the car next to them. He also told me that he kissed one of them. I messaged one of them after he left and found out that he never met them and they never had any interest in him like he said they did. He would deny that girls would be calling him when my best friend would be sitting right next to him and hear the girls voice After my best friend had surgery he would tell her that I wanted her to go home for a couple days so I could spend time with him and I didn't have the heart to tell her.
So at the beginning of Feb we packed everything up. He kept trying to convince my friend to tell me to have him stay because he wanted to propose to me. I couldn't take him being here anymore. I then started to become a MAJOR bitch to him. Everything was wearing on my nerves. we were on our way to taking him back to S.C. We drove straight threw and stayed one night. He stayed the night with us for one last time. On the way down the drive was miserable. I thought my best friend was going to kill him. ( that would have been a godsend sometimes) He wouldn't listen. The next morning when I woke up in the hotel room, I heard my best friend REALLY pissed off. That morning they had a breakfast down at the front. She went down to get things to eat. She left the flip lock off and went down there. When she came back and put the key in the door and pushed the door open, the lock was flipped. ( which I am assuming he did after she left)She dropped food EVERYWHERE down the clothes she was wearing. I asked him to go down and get some more since a bit of it had been dropped. He him-hawed around and finally went down there. He was gone for a VERY long time. he came back with food caked around his mouth and food on his shirt. Then told her that the plate was for he and I. I was livid. I got into the car and there was food spilled all over in the inside of my car. It was gross.From there on we went and dropped him off home. He gave me somethings and I got in the car and left. I stayed in West Virgina for a few days. Then finally came back to MI. During that time a friend of mine had access to getting a background check. So she did. Come to find out he wasn't 24 and his race was not Japanese. I called him out on it and he gave me the run around for a bit till one day he admitted that there was someone in his family that was mixed. I had gotten even more distant then before. Things were seeming more and more odd.For his birthday I bought him a P.M. to VR. He then deleted it account that had over 6 months on it. I asked him and he said it was because I made him feel like I wanted him too. He couldn't give me an answer. I left to go to my birthday I kept getting messages about something being wrong and if everything was okay. He kept sending out mass messages about girls not talking to him because his devoted emotionally and spiritually to me. I was very sick after everything settled down. He kept messaging me and calling me after I told him I would call him back at a certain time Since it was a few days before my birthday, I was going to come home for two days then pack. He told me that he was going to go into seclusion for awhile and that is what he needed I told him if that's what he felt he had to do.
March-April-May-June-
During these months it was off and on. Nice and fighting nice and fighting. The one time we fought because He told me a girl he knew called me a bitch and some other words. He then showed me the I.M. I messaged that girl and she showed me the real conversation. He had went and changed things to make me believe she was talking bad about me. I talked to her and found out some lies that he had told her as well. Through out that time I had said I was done about 4 times. Each time he said something nice and I chit chatted with him. Back in May I even told him I loved him. I was actually considering going back with him but, never told him. We would fight and he would always say how our break up changed me. The block was after the fight with the fake I.M. I then took the police report I had and made a journal entry with it on VR. He messaged me A.S.A.P and asked me to take it down. We tiffed a bit and then I did. Now I know why.
Before August I was shown a portfolio by NFA it contained JustKarma and Him. I was in shock. I made a journal entry code and really hoped she picked up on it. Well, at the beginning of August I had noticed she looked at my profile. I couldn't figure out why. Then I received a message from her. I knew all to well what she was describing. He had told her the same lines of b.s. he had told me. He had then told her that he and I had a bdsm relationship, he made house payments for me, bought me a car, still lived in Michigan, was still friends with my dad, and my godson he was still close too. He had lied so much I couldn't believe it. He went and was telling people I was mentally abusive and a horrible mean person. He told her he still lived in Michigan and denied I took him home in Feb. Her and I talked and he continued to deny me telling the truth saying I was a backstabber. Awhile back in the relationship I confronted him about cheating on me. He denied it but, later I got a anonymous I.M telling me that he did. Earlier when he was trying to get back in a relationship with me in March, I found out that he was dating another girl on the site. He was being sexually explicit with me. Asking me for "special pics" and saying lude things. I also had found he he was in jail before and recently had to do community service for shoplifting at wal-mart.
Here are the Stats:
He goes by Hasukei Kamui Oda or Kamui sometimes uses the last name Shiro.
These are not his real name. His real name is Brandon Waters. His is of Ethnic decent. He is not rich nor does he own any cars. He has had the name on VR of VampKamui. His current name is ACID RONIN. He does not live in a Mansion. He lives in the lower class part of S.C. He is a MASSIVE PLAYER. He goes after older women. He will lie about his age. He will say he is anywhere from 19-25. He is only 18. He will also promise you everything. He is a smooth talker. We right now know of 5 people he has dated off the site and lied to.
Please read this and pass it along or even post the link in your journal. I do not want this to happen to anyone else. I feel horrible enough as it is that I didn't say anything earlier until he has done this to others.
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