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My divorce is officially finalized! I’ve got my maiden name back and I’m done with that abusive fuck forever! Well... sort of... he still has visitation with our daughter but he’ll forget about her and stop coming around soon enough. He did it with his other 2 kids. He accidentally sent me a text meant for his gf and hoo boy was he layin it on thick. Of course he’s making himself out to be this super doting/loving person. But that’s not my problem. I know he’s telling her all sorts of lies about me but that’s fine. As long as she keeps a civil tongue in her head there’ll be no need for nastiness. And I know no one’s told her about him beating up on us. But if he wants to get truly nasty I can just pop that bit of proof right into her mailbox and be done with that. She’ll find out. Not my problem anymore. Anyone willing to take his lies at face value without a little bit of digging deserves what they get.

People, if there are any, and I mean ANY, rumors of abuse in someone’s past relationships I suggest you check it out before you get in too deep. Don’t be afraid to get the ex’s side of the story. Bein a ride or die may seem romantic and loyal but don’t be a dumb bitch. And keep your nasty comments out of ear shot of the children. I may not like them but my daughter has never heard me speak ill of them or even seen me so much as frown at the mention of their names. That’s how it should be. And at only 5, she can already tell the difference. She’s upset with her father for him allowing people to spread his rumors and say nasty things about me. Smart kid. I love my little munchkin.

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Ylvax
15:19 Oct 22 2019

Good for you and your daughter. The dude sounds like a complete tool

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I love how well we work together. We’re becoming a family unit. He’s more comfortable with my daughter every day and enjoys taking her out to the park. He’s a far cry from the abusive asshat I spent the last 10 years with. November makes a year with this one. We’ve still got a long way to go but he says hes never been so happy and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. And, I have to say, that sounds pretty darn good to me.

One of my coworkers got really sick a few weeks ago. She never went to the doctor. Just hearing her breathe I could tell something was majorly wrong. I told her it was likely pneumonia and pleurisy. She refused to see a doctor. She was finally sent home today because she was coughing up blood. Guess who has severe cases of pneumonia and pleurisy? *face desk* She hasn’t been able to do anything since she got sick so I’m going over to clean her house on Friday for her. I probably shouldn’t. No one ever offers to help me when I’m that sick. But I can’t just sit back and let her feel that way. It’s not who I am. So I’m going to suck up those nasty feelings and plaster a smile on my face while I help someone in need.