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My friends next door his girlfriend leaves to Texas to see her dad he is sick so she goes for a week she asked me to hang out with her boyfriend because he dose not like when she goes away he hates being a lone so he called me a few time to hang out go for a drinks at the bar I said ok i was having a good time I need to get out of the house been stuck inside because of the cold not it's getting warm out so i went well then today was hanging out when he said to me I want to kiss you I said what are you talking about I have a boyfriend and you have a girl friend besides that he is 63 and I am 43 that's gross to me I said no way stop talking like that not right now I been feeling bad because i have not told my boyfriend i am not sure if I should tell him or not ??? can someone tell what they would do ? I want to tell him but i think it could make a mess of things with my friends next door yes he is older but I have known them both for many years hate to fight with them but if i don't tell my boyfriend I well let it make me crazy inside I will feel bad inside for not telling him I wish he never said that to me I love my boyfriend so much don't want to make him mad I can't think what to do ? I Love you Baby !!

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Bijou
05:51 Mar 20 2011

Just be honest with your bf, tell him exactally what happen, and how it made you feel unconfy that this guy came on to you. If your relationship is strong and he cares he wont be mad....but he may be mad if you don't say anything at all.

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ravenairsprite
17:16 Mar 23 2011

I'm with Bijou on this one. I'm sure your boyfriend can tell something isn't right. You did nothing wrong in this situation. However if you try to keep it a secret if it ever comes out your boyfriend may think it meant more to you than it did. Also the relationship with your neighbor friends is unalterably changed. For better or worse. You need to decide if it's really that important to keep friends that are causing a rift like that in your life.

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Muffin15
21:22 Mar 23 2011

there right.

If you love tis guy hun, telling him should be no problem. He'll know your just telling him because y our uncomfortable.

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I Love him and want the best for him but he dose not understand what I am trying to say his dad is very sick and his mom needs him not sure what they would be with out him ? but I want him to be here with me but it seems that mite not happen because his dad is sick needs to be watched all the time it seems my mom and dad is around the same age as his mom and dad and i can't leave them either so it 's going to come to maybe someday down the road and it's going to be a long road too Not sure what will happen but i will love him for ever and he dose not want to give up on me and him getting together he can dream i,m not going to count on it I was before this happen to his dad getting sick now I will just do my own thing yes i will talk to him but no more other talk just small talk He says one way or another he will find away to be together we will see time only knows but i do love him still and glad we got to see each other they were the best 10 days of my life , I Love you Sweety ...