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Searching For a Plan about Love

23:30 Sep 09 2008
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Searching For a Plan about Love



The first part about it is that I’ve been searching for love and it has been harder than what I thought it was going to be. I realize that looks are the most important thing to people my age and that I know that it’s not something I have never had going well for me at all. I know that it’s not my fault or anything, but it would have made things easier if I had gotten luckier in the gene pool. The main thing about this point is that it is another challenge I have to deal in the thing called love.



The second point is this I have also realized that with anything you have to look deeper in a person’s heart to find what you’re looking for in terms of love. You have to find someone who has a lot in common with you or you have to find someone that you have a real connection with them. That point, right there, for me has always been hard to come by because as a lot of people have always said that I am one in a million and I think that finding that someone that would like a lot of the stuff that I like and things that I do would be one and million change of happening.



The third thing I have come to realize is that I have to ask myself should I even have a plan for love in the first place I mean how do I plan on something I don’t know when or where it is going to be happen to me or not. In everything I believe in you can do one of two things: one you can come up with a plan to pursue love and then you can go and follow though with it until you truly get you want in the game of love, or two you don’t have to come have to come up with plan to have love put of your life and you could always remember these things: let love come to you; it doesn’t have plan for you and it will come to you when the time is right and you are truly ready for it.



In the end of all things have to realize that you have to make your own decisions when it comes to love and it all boils down what those decisions are that make and it also has to do with how those situation are affected that will eventually determine how much of a role that love will play in entire life.



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The Breaking and Entering of a Heart

23:29 Sep 09 2008
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When you first read of the title of this poem you would think that there is a crime taking place here with your heart. Nah the truth is that it is about when someone breaks up with another person after they have been together over a long period of time. This could be the result of a

of a devorce or a long realtionship that may seem like marriage , due to time together as a couple. How does one get thought such a hard process of not havin that one person in their life anymore over such a long period time ago? I will try to answer to answer that and more in this piece.



The thing about breaking with someone after being with them for a period of time is that the first point is that it is part of life and it can happen to anyone at anytime. There are side effects that comes with a broken heart from a realtionship.Saddness is one of biggest side effects of a broken heart. It can lead to depression depending on how broken your heart is or how sad you are inside of yourself. Loneliess is another effect that happens with a broken heart. it is the process of gettin used to the idea that your ex is never coming back into your life and that no matter what happens nothing will ever change that fact at all. If you need ideas of how to release here is some ideas that might be useful in that department. basically talk to friends about what has just happened; your friends are your greatest allies in your life and you should use them to use advanage. Write about the pain is another way of getting the negative energy out of your system in a non negative way. The last thing I can subject is that you just get used to the idea that that other person is gone from your life and also just let time to run it course on you. The saying goes time heals all wounds.



There will be some choises that need to made once the healing has been completed and the heart has totally healed from the long and hard breakup that you have just have gone though. Here are some of the choises or paths to take on next in your life.



One of the choises is that you could choose to stay single over along period of time and deicde to not presue a realtionship right after being put out of one. Some of the reasons you may want your life to be this way is cause due to past punishment from the last relationship. Another reason is that if you stay single for a while you wont be any worse off then you are right now when it comes to emotions wise. The last and problay most important reason why to stay single over a period of time is that you wont have to deal with the immuatity or the drama that a relationship brings to your life.



Then comes the other side of the pizzle aka the trying to get into a relationship again side of it all. After being single for a long period of time. You start to think about that some changes are goin to be made in your life. The main reason behind all the changes is that going out with friends, yourself , or with family starts to get old and boring after a while. Another reason to be in a realtionship again is that if you stay single forever you may leading down a path that can lead to a lonely life. How do you want to find the rest of your life with someone if you plan on stayin single forever? The last point about this is that if you decide to stay single forever, to me, you are putting yourself in a worse punishment than spending the rest of your life in jail.



To conclue on this piece, people have to make choises in thir lives everyday. Some are easy ones and other ones to hard to make but never the less they are still made and taken to be done everyday. The same factors must be taken when it comes to relationships as well. The other thing is that how are you to move forward in your life if you dont make those choises when it comes to relationships. Life is made based on choises you make everyday and based on their choises is how you will be remembered after you have long past away from the life that has just ended.

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A Lot Like Love

23:28 Sep 09 2008
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There are a lot of things that may seem like it is real love but the truth is that it real life at all because of the fact that true love is something that takes a long time to be developed and it can’t happen over night as you think it can. People try to do certain things in the life to try to simulate what they think true love is but the truth is that until they are sure that they are in love; they don’t know what the difference is between what fake love and what true love is really is all about. In this piece I’ll give you some examples of what fake love is and show you how to turn into the true love that everyone looks for in their life.



A crush on someone is an example of what they think is real love but the truth is that if the other person has no idea of how you feel about them. Then it can’t have at least have a change to evolve in to real love that you want from them until you at least tell them how you feel about them. So do your self a favor and tell them how you truly feel you never they might just feel the same way about you as well.



When a person is starting out on the trail to find that one special person that they call theirs forever, it occurs to them it will happen very quickly. They think that they will find it with the other sex quickly and while doing this they may seem to think that it is real love but the truth is that until they can truly get to know the other person and has been around them long then and only then can be become true love that you want it to it. As you are getting to know the other person, you can make better decisions on where and how far you want to take a relationship.



The type of relationship that is shared by those who are too young to understand what love is may seem like it is true love to them but the truth is that under they get to an age where they can truly understand what love is really about. This could be defined as like crushes that young ones have for another child in their class or in their live that have left a very positive impact on their life. This also includes young teenagers who have crushes on other people who had left such a positive impact that they think it could be something more but the truth is that it isn’t and it will never anymore more in their lives period. You have to at least finish puberty before you can truly enjoy the true effects that true love has to offer.



The love that hoes, sluts, jiggalos, and pimps try to get from all of the one night stands that they do seems to be like true love for them but the truth is that true love is something that take s along time for it to happen. It can’t be a quick fix to use your problem in life because there is no way that true love can’t happen in that soft of way. It has to be something that has to be worked for and if it is done as such then you will be able to enjoy the benefits of it all in the end of all things that true love is all about.



Those who are either casually dating each other or people who are friends with benefits with each other think that their love that are sharing is true love but the truth is that it can’t be true love if the both of you aren’t committed to just each other and not to maybe a couple of other people. Their relationship isn’t as serious as needs to be if they ever plan on moving it up to the next level that it needs it to be so that true love could happen as they want it to happen in the first place. True love can only happen if the both of you guys are committed to make it happen. Once you both are serious even to just date other then true love can and will happen for the both of you guys in the way that you both want it to happen.



The conclusion that I say about this whole thing that is called true love is that love can’t achieve in a short period of time that you want it to happen. Love has to work for you, as you want it to work it for you. What I mean is that love like anything in life can happen to you in a day, week, or month but it take even longer for the other person to return the feelings that you share for them. So keep working on them until they fall for you because the happiness that comes from your relationship could be something that could last a lifetime.



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The Truth and Consequences of Love

23:27 Sep 09 2008
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Love is a thing that is a part of everyone’s life, that is, if they choice to use it in the right way. The thing is that is no ones knows what love is really about. You know the real stuff that makes love the way that it is and what effects that it has in our lives, plus each and everyone of our lives. The thing is that is what makes love the thing that it is and what can we to understand it better so that we can use it in a manner that brings the true way that we want love to part of our lives in the correct way that love should be in our lives.



The real thing that done is that if you want to have love in your life and you think that you can handle love in your life. Then you must open your heart to at least the possibly of happening in order to encourage love to come into your life. What I mean is that you need to be over whatever past relationship you just had with your ex to be able to say that your heart has been cured and to be able to except love back into your life again. Your heart needs to be cured of the past relationship because if you are on the rebound and you try to date someone, the relationship will not last long at all as your date finds out who were you with before and how long you were with them. Your date will realize you are un-date-able and your date will tell you to go back to old life and that you need to feel better about the past to move on into the future. So that is why it is important to be over past relationship so you don’t blow changes to date and love someone else in the future.



The second thing to remember about love is that love is like a roller coaster, it has it’s up’s and down’s depending where you are at on the roller coaster of love. The up’s part of the roller coaster of love is the positive feelings that you get out of anytime you are in a relationship with another special person. These feelings may include any of the following feelings: happiness, companionship, and contempt ment, in terms of how happy you are, in the relationship. The down’s part of the roller coaster of love represent the negative effects that come with the relationship that you are in. These feelings may include any of the following feelings: heartache, depression, sadness, and rejection from other people in general. The serious and possibly most important thing to remember about the roller coaster of love is that love is such an emotionally ride that if you don’t ride the roller coaster of love correctly, it can leave such a big hole in your heart that your heart may never ever be able recover from it.



The last major thing about what love is really is about is that you have to remember that when you finally open your heart again to love again, or even for the first time, that love is not on a planed timer. That is that love can come at any point in your life, even when you don’t expect it, so it is very important to always have your heart open at the possibility of love. Because if love gets you a change at happiness, and you decide to blow that opportunity, it may be a long time before something like that come again. So that is the mean reason that you should keep your heart open to love so that you don’t blow the one and maybe few changes that you get when it comes to love.

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Matters of the Heart

23:27 Sep 09 2008
Times Read: 878


The heart is an important muscle inside of your lungs that keeps you alive by it pumping the blood throughout your system. It is also the thing that use to describe as when it comes your feelings toward other people and to anything that has to do with love and relationships and other things like that. So the thing is that in order for your heart to make gains that you want to make, in something like love, there are certain things that must be done in order to achieve the goals you want in the game of love.

The first thing that must be done, to have your heart working with you on love, is that to listen to your heart to find out what your heart says is the best direction your heart wants you to follow. If you listen to what your heart has to say to you, you can find learn the right plan of love that your heart wants you to take. The other thing is that if you use this plan or course to the best of your ability then it should the best possible way to attract love in your life.

The second that you need to do to have your heart working with you on love is that after you listen to your heart for your plan of love, you need to follow whatever what your heart has told you what to do. That plan that your heart has just gave you is the best of finding happiness in your heart and if you decide to do that then it would be a good idea to do that if you want that in your life. The other thing is that the plan that your heart has said to you is the path that has been chosen for you for love so it might be a good idea to follow that plan that your heart has chosen you to follow. One more thing to think about is that your heart is the muscle that gets your love machine working and if follow your heart plans exactly then your love machine will would be working on all sinsters.

The third thing you need to do is that you need to stay true to your heart in what ever your heart has told you to do. You can’t go into another way because your heart has told you what is the best way to go in terms of love and it is always a good idea to follow that plan to the end. You should do that to find out if it is the best way to have love in your life and in case it isn’t your heart will give you a new plan to follow.

The last and probably the most important thing you can do to use your heart to get love in your life is that you need not to quit on what your heart is trying to tell you in what the best way is to get love in your life. When your heart has chosen a path for you to go down, when it comes to love, it is always a good idea to follow that path all the way through and not quit on that path of love at all. The other thing is that you should go with what your heart tells you to do because it is something that you and your heart agree upon highly and if you decide to go against what your heart has agreed with you. Then the end results of the whole thing will not as you hope it would be. So always go with your heart when it comes to love because your heart is the best expert, you have, when it comes to love and happiness.


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