Reading a blog where the meaning of love is discussed, and one person said that love is not a priority. She also said “the joy of discovery is a priority.”
Isn’t this the essence of new love? It is also possible to rediscover that love anew with the same person, although as time passes we each evolve, and the other person is no longer the same as when you first met, and neither are you. Doesn’t always have to be a tragedy or a bore. It can be fun if you're open to discovery, are secure, and can shake loose old expectations.
Someone recently summed me up when I revealed my Catholic encrusted childhood. That knowledge muddies the waters in any relationship carrying with it preconceived notions of stereotypical neuroses. Guilt is one. Sexual addiction is another. Together they form their own twisted helix of desire and denial. Totally not me. Really. There is neither room enough nor time enough to properly examine the subject, and I hate long blogs.
The question at hand is Breaking the Rules, which for both Catholics and Buddhists segues into confession and revelation. The former lets you off easy, the latter involves learning something about yourself.
A confession: I delight myself when I break rules. More at Bloodmother
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Avoiding keeping control or being controlled
If I react the way that people expect me to, I become a slave to them – and that is a lesson that applies both to love and work. It is very difficult to prevent this from happening, because we are always ready to please somebody, or to start a war when we are provoked, but people and situations are the consequences of the life that I have chosen, not the other way around.
Anonymous
Marriage is so great everyone should be allowed to do it.
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We, the undersigned, share President Barack Obama's view
that for too long, issues of LGBT rights have been exploited
by those seeking to divide us. It's time to move beyond
polarization and live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect."
Yet, on December 19, 2008, Ken Starr and the Prop 8 Legal Defense Fund filed legal briefs defending the constitutionality
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devoted same-sex couples solemnized before Prop 8 passed.
The Supreme Court will hear oral arguments in this case on March 5, with a decision expected within 90 days.
We, the undersigned, ask that the Court enforce the equality promised to each of us by our constitution and invalidate Prop
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As Americans who believe in the rule of law and fundamental
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COMMENTS
Why are people so afraid? So hateful? So ignorant?
By Paulo Coelho
By changing the way you do routine things you allow a new person to grow inside of you.
(The Pilgrimage)
Been sidelined with life, but like all of you I can't ignore what's happening in our country and in our world. The financial news is harrowing, the numbers staggering, and I can't keep the words "Worldwide Depression," out of my mind.
There's a difference between wealth and money, people. Alan Watts said that forty years ago. It's the difference between actual resources, the bone and muscle and materials required to build a dam, repair a pot hole, or fix a fence . . . and a system of numbers invented to keep us organized. He gave an example of a home builder showing up at a project only to find the foreman and all the workmen doing nothing because they didn't have enough "inches."
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The rate of your growth is determined by the urgency of your desire to surprise yourself.
Not sure who to attribute. Not mine, but I embrace the sentiment wholeheartedly.
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Sinora
14:35 Mar 28 2009
True.