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just a thought

22:19 Jan 02 2018
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its funny how people can have such holds on others even from a far. They can lift you up, bring you down, make you feel important or minuscule with a few words or none. Its a new year but for many the same things will linger on whether we want them or not. We try to make the best of the situations we are in, and push on hoping for a little glimmer in the otherwise dark world around. I think at times I say too much about myself to people, and that it scares them away from me. Maybe sometimes honesty is not the best policy. Maybe sometimes things about us should not be said. Maybe some secrets are best kept to ourselves...Loneliness makes us do stupid things for a bit of attention. We are ok for a moment til the illusion wears off then we are stuck within our dark thoughts again. Worrying what tomorrow will bring and how we will deal with it.

Its a new year...And I wish you all the best and hope that you can all find some sort of happiness or peace in your life.


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AbsintheandBlood
AbsintheandBlood
22:55 Jan 02 2018

I can certainly relate to what you're saying and I am at the point of keeping things that I value about myself to myself . Keep secrets private thats why they are secrets as long as they don't hurt other lives . I have learned the hard way don't share so much about you even with someone you feel you're falling for . Hold out until you have known them a appropriate length of time , at least a year . Honesty is always the best policy . Be careful trusting people you meet online . Bad people make it hard to trust even someone thats honest . I have felt comfortable being a introverted person , its a safe way to be .

Good Luck Bats, I hope this year will bring you great things and a path will open up for you to see your beautiful daughter more often. Keep faith , you can be lonely but never give up faith . I think at times we are tested and hard things are thrown our way to teach us to keep faith . Its hard but it can be done. Have a great New year Bats .





BatsInTheBelphry
BatsInTheBelphry
23:16 Jan 02 2018

sometimes it does seem easier to be introverted, but being alone most of time also start wanting to share things with someone. Just seems somethings maybe shouldnt be shared, even for the sake of honesty because it seems to make people leave.
Thank you for your words. And I hope you have a good year as well.
Im hoping to see my daughter again soon its her birthday in a couple weeks.





dale0302
dale0302
13:34 Jan 03 2018

Yeah keeping 100 can make some run. But shit happens......Do what you think is right. Its your life and nobody else is qualified to judge your decisions. i actually stay pretty quiet on here with occasional outbursts of oversharing lol. Hoping you get to see baby girl for her Bday!





BatsInTheBelphry
BatsInTheBelphry
19:44 Jan 03 2018

yeah this is in general not just here, but real life too..Maybe somethings are better not told if you want people to stay in your life. Just seems hard to figure out who can handle things or if they really know they will stay away..Thats my plan, I have her presents ready, hoping my son can get it off work to go with me as well





whitewolf3001
whitewolf3001
04:37 Jan 07 2018

You're very sweet BatsInTheBelphry'.. Never change for NO one! I love it that you open up! Not all company deserves to hear your honest thoughts or opinions. I also can relate to what you said and how you feel. I get pushed away by some I look up to. That hurts allot! So I stop talking to them so deeply. Yes certain individuals simply don't care how we feel.

But'.. Some do! So yes'.. Bring in this year with honesty to yourself and love, passion. Just make sure it's with someone who deserves you! I also express my feelings often to people I know. You're not alone. My tweets even get deleted. lol I've had to also learn when to just walk away! I normally work on my Webpage to keep my mind or thoughts calm. Yes indeed it gets so lonely'.. Not having anyone. Why I'm here. Not to talk to much. Just others who are like me. We are brothers





whitewolf3001
whitewolf3001
04:41 Jan 07 2018

I said to much! It didn't all post. ;) I was saying'.. We're all brothers





LORDMOGY
LORDMOGY
02:54 Jan 12 2018

I've been at peace and pretty much happy since 2011....When my last divorce was finalized after a 6 month waiting period and the year I fully RETIRED. ^_^





BatsInTheBelphry
BatsInTheBelphry
04:52 Jan 14 2018

Ha thats good I am glad you found your peace! I suppose its easier to retire with only yourself to look after, sorry you had to divorce to get peace








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