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17:21 May 24 2024
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I'd like to, dedicate my life to make other's better.
I've come to realise mine will never be.
but that, would bring me joy..
10:12 May 24 2024
Times Read: 168
Are you familiar with the “Let Them” theory?
I’ll tell you the more I grow the more I am okay with accepting the “Let Them” in my own life and relationships. Even family can mistreat and disrespect you.
This is something that took me a very long time to learn. I used to tolerate a lot because I didn't want to lose people. I learned the hard way if they were really my people they would never treat me like that. Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being repeatedly disrespected.
Let them be upset.
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you,
Let them ignore you.
Let them be "right."
Let them doubt you.
Let them not like you.
Let them not speak to you.
Let them run your name in the ground.
Let them make you out to be the villain.
Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!
Kindly step aside and LET THEM.
The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you. They just simply don't care. They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you. They did it anyway. People that love you care about how they make you feel.
The end.
Let them go.
There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they've done to you. Let them go.
The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of apology was the closure. The lack of care was the closure. The lack of acountability was the closure. The lack of honestly was the closure. Let them go.
Make the decision to no longer sit at tables where you might be the topic when you get up. Let them go.
You can still be kind. You can even still love them deeply. But do it from the distance they created in their words and actions. Access to you is a privilege they have proven they can’t be trusted with. Let them go.
You don’t need to tell your side of the story. God already knows. Let God fight the battle for you. Let them go.
It’s taken me a long time to get here. Sleepless nights, countless tears, managing a range of emotions filled with anger, disappointment, confusion and deep hurt. Lots of self reflection, self preservation, deep prayer and seeking wisdom from those much wiser than me.
If you are struggling with this please know you are not alone. We will never understand why hurt people hurt people. But we can do the hard work to grow ourselves. Because healed people do in fact heal people.
Don’t you dare let them steal your joy.
Don’t you dare let them steal your light.
Don’t you dare let them steal your peace.
You are in control of that.
Hold tight to what you can control and release your grip on what you can’t control.
Let them go.
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Cadrewolf2
21:04 May 24 2024
While we make others happy we must find our happiness or the stuff we do for others is just a lie
Angelux
21:21 May 24 2024
I strongly disagree..
:)
while i agree it is advised that you look for your own happiness before others, it is not a must..
many people spend their entire lives making other people happy, better or just laughing.
while battling their own sadness..
sometimes it is indeed, what brings them joy.
but i ofcourse understand how some people cant comprehend or understand that.
if you go by in life what others believe to be ''correct'' . youll never evolve.
only one thing is certain in life... nothing is.
Angelux
21:27 May 24 2024
one human stumbles across another human trying to create fire with sticks.
and while he have yet not succeeded. he teaches the other human how to do it.
and the other human have luck making the fire.
they both eat and sleep warm that night.
so should he not have taught the other guy to make a fire even tho he did not suceed making it himself?
DarknessFollows
17:36 May 29 2024
Maybe helping another will help you as well?