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Things like this happen all over the internet. I am sure people on christianmingle.com have gotten some wang in their inbox as well. I am sure even men have gotten the random picture of some woman's business in their inbox- here and other places. But it seems that people would rather whine, for lack of a better term, about it then really take the necessary steps to do something about it.

None of them decided to forward the message onto any administrators. So that is part of the problem as well- proper steps aren't taken so nothing gets done. Well, besides things like this. And they really don't help the situation. People tend to just go 'Oh, brother'.. and move on.

If a message is copied and pasted some place else, it doesn't make 'VR look stupid' or 'all of us'. It makes the people who are involved in the message look stupid. Numerous people make themselves look stupid on a daily basis. That doesn't mean everyone looks stupid, so why should it if a message is pos

...posted some place else.

I totally agree with Moonie. I see several journal rants of this kind but no one takes legal action. They expect the site to do something, but it's people that are responsible of themselves. No one owns you anything in life. We're all resposible of ourselves, we have no babysitters. In life, we have to fight for our rights, no one fights for ourselves. Instead of people taking action, all I see is journal rants and admin bashing. I also ask, did these women sent these pics themselves? If that's the case, why on earth did they do it? I'd never post nude or provocative pics and send them. Not even if I had an S.O. The 'net is dangerous even if you use it wisely, let alone if you don't. You choose what to do in life and it's the same on-line. If 'you' play with fire you get burnt.

No matter how well a website is managed, select individuals will be who they are regardless of the norm of the website. This occurs on every website unfortunately.

sadly we have become "disensetise" of reality, what we do "online" would not be acceptable in most real life situation, in reality. Poeple forget that online there is still humans, often on facebook or skype or any other sites, I sadly saw woman removing their bras or getting in underwear and thinking" its ok its just a website, it not real" then in the real world they would never do that at the office or even on the street or in front of their house... same for the one asking, would that person "asking for a nude or other" do it at work? or on the street? or in front of a house? probably not.
Would we accept seeing a woman/man being pushed to show nude part of their breast, ass or other genital at work to others?... no
Then why do we kind of either close an eye or worst not mention it when we are ask, because we think" its online its not real" Then the pressure or threat or harrasement continue. Imagine would you ask Cancer to show you his.. ya know. I think not. Why ak

Honestly, I really don't give a shit what guys do with pictures I send them of myself or pictures I post of myself online, because I only ever reveal what I am comfortable with anyone seeing.

It happens and depends on how the site is managed

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