So, anyone who cares to know, I may actually stop bitching about working at spencers because (drum roll please) I have an interview with a peircing place. . . .no, not a peircing shop, just a little stand that sells peircings. i'm sure it will be boring work but atleast I'll be working on my own to where I don't have to deal with stupid co-workers pluss with probably a solid no return policy I won't have to deal with stupid people trying to return things, I can just tell them to go away and leave me in peice. hell, I'll be able to sit and read at work. WOOO! I just need to be getting some more books. Now, my husband is out in the feild for an eleven day feild op. it's depressing but I'm figuring out how to cope (lots of long nights and boredom) god, I miss him. I really want to talk to him about anything and everything . . . well, more than what little I get to talk to him when he manages to message me to tell me good night. I truly love that man. Which brings me to a new rant.so this girl I met fairly recently and started hanging out with decided to bad mouth me to another friend. I was in high school and I'm female so I'm no stranger to gossipy girls but I honestly wasn't really expecting it from her. Apparently I annoy her because I only do what Ty (my husband) wants to do. No, I'm not going to go into a family vs. friends rant, It's just upsetting that a fellow MC wife doesn't understand how important my husband is to me. He was my closest friend when I moved here and still contenues to be. so yes, of course I'll be taking him and his wants into consideration when I'm making plans. No, when he's sick I'm not going to leave him home to go run around, when he's finally going to a club (something that is like pulling teeth to get him to do) I'm not going to go to a compleatly different club rather than the one he wants to go to. And when he actually makes plans with someone I'm not going to make him blow them off or leave while he's having fun for a partly mentioned party invite else where. Sorry. She's a sweet girl. I just don't want to deal with that stuff any more. I'm trying not to talk trash or bitch her out for it (mostly because the person who informed me of this doesn't want me to get her introuble for spilling it) I'm just going to move on with life. Life is far too short for back stabbers.But all in all, I'm hoping things will start looking up, either I'll get some sort of promotion at work, The people at work that make my life suck will quit/leave or I'll have a new job in four days. End of Rant. . . .NOW
My job is rediculous. it's easy, yes, it has its fun moments, true, but seriously.I have a supervisor being a bitch to me for no reason that I can seem to figure out. an 8 hour shift is bad enough but 8 hours with only covernsations from 'guests' and wandering about the store which is about the size of a garrage (IF that). And eight hours of getting glares from my co-worker or a dirty look if I HAPPEN to say something. This girl is supposed to be a straight forward girl yet she has decided I get the silent treatment. WHAT EVER. Tonight is the FIRST time i've ever had to get off the clock to go get a drink. hell. Even when I worked in Oklahoma and our food court was a good distance from the store I wasn't forced to clock out when I went BUT no, this lady wants me to clock out to walk oh. . . not even ten freaking feet to get a drink?! Hell, our manager at the store doesn't even make me do that. I think i'm more confused than upset. about a week or so ago me and this supervisor are on good terms, or atleast I thought so, then suddenly she starts treating me like I'm some sort of worthless dumb shit that doesn't know how to do my job, not to mention that I already know how to do her fucking job, considering that I was supposed to get the fucking job over a year ago. (I didn't get it because I transfered to a store out of state due to moving to live with my husband) Now I keep getting passed up by people who don't seem to be quite qualified for the job (because I have to keep telling them how to do it) but they do know Jenny better, they've been in NC longer, hell, They've worked with jenny longer. Fuck it. I've been with the company eight months longer than one of my supervisors but she still got the job, even though I'm STILL helping her do it. *sigh* stupid.I really would like to quit right now. I'm done. I really am. I talked to Ty about all this and he said that if I get passed up again I'm welcome to quit this damn job. I'm thinking of just going ahead and job hunting now. I can get a job putting up with this much stupid with maybe even better pay and perhaps a staff that isn't just a big fucking club. Thats another thing. I wasn't born here, I wasn't raised here, and it feels like I'm treated as such. It really really sucks. Maybe I should go and get a different job so that I can actually make some friends that aren't part of the 'club'. *sigh* Fuck it.
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I'm sorry to hear that they are still being tards... I know exactly how you feel.... And I agree, if they keep passing you up to find a new job.
Sweetie , thats easy to fix , just stop helping her do her job, if she says anything just tell her in a nice way you got the job not me so you should know what to do ,then go about doing your job, you can also suggest that either she tell you what you did wrong or you will talk tot eh better business bureau and have a talk with them about how she is treating you .
Am I alone in thinking it's backwards to ask a manager if you can switch shifts with someone before you ask the person if they would care about having their schedule switched around on them?I work with this girl who has another job, and she's constantly changing the schedule to fit her needs. I'm just curious. Shouldn't the people working their butts off and giving more time to their store get rewarded instead of punished? I got a weeks respite from her trying to constantly call me in when I changed my number but the respite is over, she's got the new one now. *sigh*She came in last night pissed off because she left a note for the manager asking if it was okay to switch shifts with someone that she didn't ask before hand and the girl (The switchie) marked out her name because she couldn't /didn't want to do it and The switcher threw a tantrum because 'she had to right to edit her note' I was there when she edited it and informed her that the switchie didn't like that she tryed to switch without seeing if it was okay with the associate first and she got into my face and said "I don't Think I need to be asking an associate about switching hours when it's up to the manager." Then she had the nerve to turn around and ask me if I wanted to switch shifts with her. I personally hate getting a schedule then having it switched around on me without my knowing. . . . .It's just a big tanget. *sigh*I'm starting to hate my job more and more with the ammount of stupid not just from coust. but coworkers as well. Pluss I'm not in the 'girls club' that seems to be there with the years of them working together and growing up together. I'm seeing it more and more each day. There is favoritism and all sorts of bull shit. Maybe I should get a new start but I know this job so well and I'm clinging onto the dying hope of eventually moving up on the ladder. . . . *sigh*
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ShatteredAngel
09:23 Apr 24 2009
Congrats on the job interview... I hope it goes well for you, and let me KNOW. Like OK.... Sorry minor valley girl moment.
I don't blame you on the whole situation w/ that chick and Ty... I would do the same thing when it came to the one I love...