It's my first night off in 14 days, Do you think i'm sleeping? NO!, Should i be on my sofa with a comfy pillow and blanket w/ all the remotes? NO! Do you think i'd be catching up on laundry? NO! I cant even take the time to make a pot of coffee! I'm in front of my computer.
I am tired of my brother calling me to help him out!! wtf!! My welfare cookies where not good enough for you! Do you remember that? I was too poor to go out and have a good time with the kids! do you remember that!! Do you remember not coming over to visit mom when she was dying? I called you over and over, i left messages on your house phone, cell phone and even text you!!
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Boy, that is a rough situation. You are torn between feeling obligated to loyalty because he is your brother. However, if someone is behaving in a way that you would not normally tolerate from a stranger or friend, why would you allow it continue just because you are related ?
I have concluded in my life; that if I would not put up with crap from a stranger or friend, then why would I allow someone to do it to me because we are blood related. I do not put up with crap from anyone .
There is an old Native American saying that we tell our children to teach their children. That is that we are all gifts to this place and we should never place ourselves in the hands of those who do not treat us as the gift that we are. And equally vice versa. If someone doesn't want to pony up, or see reality, or whine , or waste time, or complain then do nothing about it, won't help themselves etc.... Then they are gone. My time is too precious to put up with childish games, and that includes adults who act like children. In fact , at least a child has an excuse,LOL
Okay there is my two cents wrapped up in an essay,LOL.
So, I am not saying abandon someone when they are down, but if they stay down,even after many attempts to be helped, then why should I continue to waste perfectly good energy and my irreplaceable time.
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Sinora
11:55 Jul 23 2009
Yea, you got it bad lol
ladySnowStrixx
18:23 Jul 23 2009
SSSShhhhh , don't say that everyone else will want it too.
S0RVENA
00:23 Jul 24 2009
i can't remember what life was like before the computer.....it's all a daze.... lol
dabbler
23:09 Jul 28 2009
If they start a clinic, they better have WiFi.