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well normally when I do write in my Journal its me trying to get perspective or saying something nice, mature or encouraging. Well Not Today.



For the past few months I have played chauffeur to my sister in law because her vehicle bit the dust. We are family that is how its supposed to work. Hubby Jon and I have bought her groceries when she needed them. Let me explain the whole picture. I am married and have been for 13+ years we have two kids, I am the only one with a drivers license. I have a 97 dodge neon that is crapping out on me and has 200,000+ miles on it. Jon works full time in retail and does not have a set schedule. We currently live in a hotel because there is no room at relatives houses and we cannot afford a house at this time. (hopefully with our taxes we can). The kids are home schooled. To make a long story short me going and getting her and taking her back and forth to work was because I wanted to not because we could afford the extra gas or because our car could handle it. She has a son who just started kindergarten and she has a stay at home boyfriend. she is the only one working. I didnt want her to loose her job and become homeless. (Jon and I have been down that road recently hence the hotel and being ok with it.)



Now She has this friend to whom she introduced us to once. I talked to the girl less than five minuets many months ago. My sis in law then decides to invite us with her to this friends house for thanksgiving, I tried many ways to politely say no. She kept pushing the issue so I finally said no. the girl never contacted us we no nothing about her, all we have is sis in law saying this chick invited a family of four she doesnt know over to her house. We came to the conclusion that it was sis in law inviting us not this chick. So I finally had to be rude and flat out say no.



Well let me tell you. Suddenly we dont love her and this chick is the only one she can count on and the only one who cares. Sis in law then proceeds to call me while at this chicks house and cuss me out in front of her friends. she screamed yelled and cussed and I couldnt even get a word in edge wise then she hung up. I dont play these kinds of games you see. I had enough of that shit growing up.



So now she is not talking to me but is talking to her brother my husband as though she did nothing wrong. Then thanksgiving night she called her mom and did the same thing to her. Now mom did not invite her to thanksgiving because she proceeded to tell uncle while in his house at his table that he would have to sit somewhere else because there was no room for him at his table. this pissed him off well mom lives with said uncle to help take care of his mother. Mom is a nurse you see.



So now we have a cluster fuck. Mom says that sis is always like this, I cant stand this shit and now am not sure what to do. Hubby says just ignore it and live our lives like we always have. I am torn up inside because I honestly love his family. With that being said I am no ones bitch. She had no right to do what she did and I refuse to put up with it.



I told mom that both of them need counseling. Now I feel because of this the family is falling apart and somehow being in the middle that perhaps im everyone stomping ground. I have enough emotional and depressive problems of my own I dont need this shit. I love hubby Jon and his family but the only ones on a day to day that matter is him and the kids.



So unsure.

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gszander
21:14 Nov 27 2010

I had simliar problems. I talked it over with the wife and she was more piss*** off then I was. Told my brother and his wife to f**k off and call us us anymore. We havent seen them now for 25 years and don't miss them, we have never felt better. It least thats what we did.

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tigerzplay
22:20 Nov 27 2010

ya know hubby and I have been talking about it and its not worth all the fighting and drama we may have just moved here but im thinking we were better off far from here.

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