Today marked the one year anniversary of my aunt Lori's death. All in all we are still suffering from it, but are slowly healing. Today we spent the day with my grandparents and my aunt Kathy and sat around talking about different memories of Lori. We also managed to go to church, which is a little out of my comfort zone. People tend to stare at me as if they think I'm a demon about to burst into flames by walking into a holy place. Ok maybe that is a little bit of an exaggeration, but I do tend to be stared at. Besides the fact that today was very emotional, today was a great day.
I'm so glad to be snowed in today, it gives me the chance to catch up on some Doctor Who! :)
Oh the irony, I'm at home watching White Christmas while it's snowing over here! LOL
I am so not happy right now. Someone who I thought was a best friend, turned out to be not such a great friend after all. What kind of person lies about the about their boyfriend's past to her friends? Especially when it puts her friends in a dangerous situation?
My friend Ashley has been dating this guy named Tyler for 3 months. They met only twice and suddenly she moved him in for a month with her and my other best friend John. Ashley told me that he is divorced from his wife over her beating him and the fact he doesn't have custody of his kids is because they witnessed the beat down. His parents have sole custody of the twins while the wife have custody of the other child. What Ashley neglected to mention to anyone was, his wife never beat him, actually it was quite the opposite. Tyler was the one who laid the beat down on his wife, then after losing custody of his kids, beat his own mother up! Yep you read that correctly, he beat his mother up. For some unknown reason she felt the need to keep this from us along with feeling the need to move a convicted criminal in. John told him that he didn't like him, along with John's mother. Tyler then became obsessed over them not liking him. The only observations I got from Tyler were, that he reminded me of my ex bf, Chris. He's lazy, doesn't help out with much, and sits around and plays video games all day long, along with coming off with a creepy vibe. Then a couple nights ago he landed himself in the psych ward for threatening to kill himself over fighting with Ashley over sex. After that she dumped him and then revealed that she wasn't telling the truth about Tyler.
I don't know if I can ever find myself able to trust her again. She put the lives of her friends at risk over sex and not to mention desperation to fill the void that her ex husband filed before she left him and she didn't care if she hurt anyone to get what she wanted. In fact I'm not really too sure if I can be friends with someone like that. :(
Oh yea! It's snowing here! Time to get in my pj's, grab a a cup of hot cocoa and watch some Doctor Who because this chick is staying indoors! :D
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