Spring break is over and the kids are back at school! No one I know has died this week(yet), so back to my subject of choice at the moment. I love seeing the positive Advocacy popping up all over the site. Cancer, MS, Depression; what have you all of these need their day(or month)and all of them are seen by others in order of importance relative to themselves. In example, since no one related to me has died from Cancer I understand it's importance but my priority is Diabetes because I live with a Diabetic; thereby if the two were competing for my attention Diabetes would win unless I had money and time to give to both causes.
I am focussing on Autism because of my youngest brother.
So now our journey continues...
Yesterday we went to Dollar General for a few groceries because it is close. When I went to pay, I saw they were fundraising for Autism Awareness. They raise money all year round for Make a Wish and various children in the area with Cancer. Here Cancer is like the plague, kids seem to get it like sniffles. Sometimes they get better and sometimes they don't. My kids are aware of at least three children that have died this last year.
I was moved when I saw they had chosen to make Autism a priority this month. We talked about how little is known and understood about it and how little actual publicity and awareness is actually done. People still don't fully grasp that no one knows where it comes from. Was it the food or the air. Parents of Autistic children range from teens to 60's, all ethnic backgrounds, vegan parents, carnivore parents; there is no escape!
The likelihood it could happen that I have a child diagnosed with Autism Spectrum may seem high because of my brother but it may be just as high for someone with no knowledge of a family member with Autism.
This is why we cannot bury our heads in the sand, it does no good to stuff our fingers into our ears(na na na I can't hear you!). It does no good to play hear no evil see no evil.
At the moment I am focusing on profiles of online members. not for rates, I don't care about rates. In order to heighten awareness it is important to me that I am visible to as many people as possible. I have gotten a little bit of feedback on my profile content and so far it is all positive. I welcome any suggestions or contributions to the enhancement of the experience.
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I think what you're doing is great. So many people don't understand (and I include the so-called experts in that) what Autism or an Autistic Spectrum Disorder is all about.
Thanks and I look forward to reading more :)
I am glad you are following it Selki. My son and my brother are 1 month apart and when I compare the two of them it is frightening.
I had thought for a long time that it was genetic or environmental or both and some of the newer stuff I am reading points the assumption very likely being correct. If a family has an Autistic child as a genetic relation then the genetic markers are there and it is likely there will be another Auti or and Aspi in the family.
Even though my mother is older and stood more of a chance of having a developmentally disabled child; Autism isn't linked to the age of the parents.
Things could have been the other way around.
My brother is 15 years old and is Autistic. He was in Costa Rica with our mother last week and one day they were at the beach they spied a nest with three baby toucans; which inspired the question:
Q. What do you call three toucans?
A. A six pack!
HAHAHAHA
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It took me a second but then I got it. :D *laughs* That's cute.
Not bad, it took my daughter nearly a minute.
Everyone around him laughed so hard they scared the toucans away.
Haha I got that one fast. Funny. :P
He is a funny kid! I told my mother last night,"Such a Pallay! He just wants to entertain!"
Lol
People like that one :)
My youngest brother is an Autistic teen. He was born 1 month after my son and while the two of them walking down the street would turn plenty of female heads; they have a major difference. My son is able to cope with and process the information coming at him from all sides. My son knows that if he sees gum on the sidewalk he should leave it alone and my son understands that he must move in unison with the world even if he is moving in a different direction; He has the understanding that he does affect others and he knows why without it having to be explained.
My brother is Autistic.
By comparison he must be reminded to lower his voice when talking to people or speak loud enough to be heard if he is whispering. It is required in his world to give him a 5 minute warning that dinner will be ready, not so he will be available but so he can start the transition from one thing to another. If that transition has not been processed by the time dinner is on the table then there will be an argument. There could be yelling and overturned furniture because he is not ready to stop one action and start another; and no amount of spanking or punishing will fix it.
Over this month I will be posting articles, video's, personal stories about my brother in this journal section. My other two profiles will be acknowledging Autism Awareness but this is were everything will be posted.
Happy April everybody!
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I wish there was a like button on this.
I really really do.
Thank you Abs, I know what you mean.
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