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Ramblings……

In this world today nothing is ever certain. Even when you think all is good there is something that will always creep up and partially or fully destroy you.

I’m not as strong as I thought I was. Things seem to bring me to a low and it feels like my soul is being ripped out. It’s the small things that get to me. The ones that you don’t even realize you’ve said or done. But I always make it through somehow just with more scars.

You have those that are so unhappy that they want everyone to be unhappy. They will wiggle themselves into your life. Taking you down their hole before you even realize what’s happening. They will stay long enough to cause all the hurt they can and then they are on to the next victim.

Then sometimes I don’t need anyone to take me down the hole. I just want to run away to a place unknown. Crawl into that hole and just forget everything (Like someone would look for me, not).

To be continued…

Loving a person that self harms
There is always a good reason.

Judging and criticising will always make it worse.
They know it doesn’t make sense.
But if they don’t want to talk about it …
It’s often not about one feeling.
No, They can’t remember how it felt last time.
They don’t do it to hurt you. Even though it does.
It’s something they do, not who they are.


You need to:
Show compassion
Respect what the person is telling you, even if you don’t understand it
Stay emotionally neutral
Listen, even if it makes you uncomfortable
Encourage them to use their voice, rather than their body as a means of self-expression
Encourage them to seek mental health care but don’t be pushy

The Don’t do:
Pity them
Joke about it
Guilt them about how their actions affect others
Give ultimatums
Remind them how it looks or what people will think
Make assumptions

I relate to this because I’m involved with a self harmer….but he holds my heart.

Self-harm can be a way of dealing with deep distress and emotional pain. It may help you express feelings you can’t put into words, distract you from your life, or release emotional pain. Afterwards, you probably feel better—at least for a little while. But then the painful feelings return, and you feel the urge to hurt yourself again.
Injuring yourself is often the only way you know how to:
· Cope with feelings like sadness, self-loathing, emptiness, guilt, and rage

· Express feelings you can’t put into words or release the pain and tension you feel inside

· Feel in control, relieve guilt, or punish yourself

· Distract yourself from overwhelming emotions or difficult life circumstances

· Make you feel alive, or simply feel something, instead of feeling numb

Monsters don’t sleep under your bed
They scream inside of your head.

The scariest monsters are the ones that lurk within our souls….

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BeautyInScars
12:53 Oct 31 2021

Man ain't no shit there ... And they never SHUT THE FUCK UP

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Never be dependent to anyone in this world
Because even your own shadow leaves you
When you’re in the darkness.

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BeautyInScars
12:56 Oct 31 2021

Your actually starting to get it.... Music and Blades

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BeautyInScars
12:57 Oct 31 2021

Oh I'm taking this one... I kinda like it

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Bora, I am the storm.
I dance to the roar of the thunder with lightening as my partner.
The unsettling wind wraps it’s arms around me holding me tight.
This is my excitement and my fear.

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