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Okay, I don't do drama in my profile. Nor do I do 'life updates' so, I've created my journal. I created it today out of frustration over an episode with a dude here.



As a rule, I don't go out of my way to bother people. If someone (who knows me) tells me another person will annoy me, bother me or otherwise get on my nerves, I don't go seeking this person out to see if it's true.



Such has happened with another Rave member.



My roommate (who is also a member) has dealt with this person before and let me know that he basically just wants to find someone with whom he can have cyber or phone sex. So, when I joined VR, I didn't go searching him out.



For whatever reason (probably because we're in the same state), dude finds my profile.



He doesn't rate.



He starts biting me.



I ignore him.



He adds me to his MSN list.



I ignore him (and stay off MSN).



He whines to other VR members about why I won't respond.



I ignore him.



Do we see a pattern?



Yeah, so today he rates me a 7 (almost 2 points lower than my average) and tells me to let him know when I add pics of myself so that he can rerate me.



EXCUSE ME? Nah, mothafucka. I'm not the one.



There is a reason I don't have pictures on my profile. In my 26 years, I have had so many stalkers I can categorize them: Male/Female, Violent/NonViolent, People I Knew/Random Crazies and so on. I don't care to put pics up and encourage the mentally unstable.



WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TO TELL ME WHAT TO PUT IN MY PROFILE?!!



If dude had just not liked the profile, that would be one thing. But I know enough about dude's 'preferences' to know that he was attempting to assert privilege he doesn't have. THAT is what pissed me off. If you don't like my profile because you don't like it...fine. But don't downrate me because I don't cater to your desire to gain sexual fulfillment online.





So, I've sent this message (and blocked him, of course):



See, as a rule, I don't bother people. I have ignored you for 2 months because I was warned when I joined the rave that you are, essentially, looking for cyber/phone sex. People like yourself are the reason there are no pics of me on my profile. I don't feel the need to cater to the whims of assholes online. I wasn't put on this earth for you to fantasize about. Get a life and leave me the fuck alone. No more biting. No more messaging (Of course, you're blocked now, so you can't...isn't that wonderful?!!). I don't want to see your name on my last 10. At all.



You're creepy, rude and have an undeserved sense of entitlement And I'm tired of your annoying mosquito-like presence.



I tried the polite, non confrontational, "ignore him and he'll go away" approach. Obviously, you're too dense to comprehend that after 2 months ignoring your ass, I probably don't want to be bothered.



So, now I have to be rude. LEAVE. ME. THE. FUCK. ALONE.



And, if you think you'll downrate me, please be advised that I am a premium member so I can see everyone who rates me and what they've rated and I won't hesitate to report your ass.





No love,



Leo8280



Geez, asshole. Get a fucking clue.



I'm just not that into you.