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The past

07:15 Jul 17 2012
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I am not a victim of abuse, I have BEEN abused, I am not upset, I WAS upset, I am not bruised, I have BEEN bruised and instead of crying out loud, i cry on the inside.





I do not need protection from everyone, It hurts me that people think just because i spent months being abused that i must need so much extra protection. Do u think I am weak? Do u think that I can't take care of myself? Do u feel sorry for me? It is a lovely thought but I am capable of looking after my self.. I don't need help, Please, understand that. :(


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erebus0
erebus0
02:54 Aug 26 2012

i just dont want to see you get hurt again





ReverantSpark
ReverantSpark
13:18 Sep 28 2012

All the things we endure are double edged swords. They can make us stronger in the face of future trials, or they can leave you wounded. Unfortunately, enduring a lot can make us harder people. Can make us less likely to trust, and can make us prone to shutting people out and not letting people too close out of fear of being hurt.



We sometimes mistake this as being strong, avoiding support from people closest to us because we believe we dont need it. Cause we believe we are strong enough on our own. Whereas often the fact of the matter is we just dont want people to see the way we feel, and we dont want to keep going over whats hurt us cause the wounds are still raw.



You sound like a strong person to me, and I think you'll do just fine. Keep your friends and family close, remember the world is what you make of it. You project onto your world what you believe it to be. So dont harbor any negativity, otherwise thats all you'll find. We see what we expect to see. Helps to remember the world can be as beautiful as you want it to be. So focus on the good, not the bad.



Anyways... Enough of my babblings... Just thought I'd share some insight from my own recent experiences. What you do with it is up to you. Wish you all the best.








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