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Unique dating question for older guys here if someone would like to answer please &thank you.



Yes it's an older man and yes understand older men love confidence. Well I have a medical condition ( and yes a serious one-not ADD shit) that makes it very difficult to work in the workforce and he thinks it's " I'm young and no confidence". How in the hell do I get it through his skull, that it's not just a job/ career but also my health? I mean yes I would love to work just like every other peer my age then again someone can sit there all day long schooling me on my spiel and me work but that's not going to change my health. How to tell him????

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BLOODLIFE
19:34 Aug 14 2013

It's sometimes very difficult to see an illness especially when it's not obvious. Your confidence in telling him that is paramount.

People that don’t look ill on the outside often have a battle with society associated with this, more so when claiming a benefit from the state.

I’m sure that once you’re in the relationship things will be more apparent and his patience and understanding will need to improve in a big way or you will just have to concede and move on.

Please remember one thing, not all 'older' men think the same ;-)

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I hate Money and the ideas associated with money, The idea that a slip of piece of fricken piece of paper dictates your whole life - how you live, date, whether you're "rich" or "poor" sadly mooching & ruining friendships, and in some cases medically speaking if you get to even live at all with medical bills. I hate it...

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NLW
15:40 Aug 07 2013

We trade our time- our lives for it. And we are told, by how much we get paid, how much me deserve to live. Some people never experience hardship, some are determined, and lucky enough to get out of it, and some never will because there is no way out. People don't understand this, and assume someone has done something wrong or is a "bad person" if they're poor.



I hate it too.

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NLW
00:33 Aug 15 2013

*we* (oops)

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