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Well, I guess I could do a turn about is fair play deal and go back and rerate Draethis a one like he has saw fit to rate me without making a comment as to why, but why should I waste my time my energy and probably create some sort of rate war...whatever, it's a fucking number and jerks and assholes are just not worth the effort.



It’s been almost a year now since Mother slipped into a coma and passed away, a year, my Goddess it doesn’t seem possible.



I miss her so much. Losing Tiff last week has made the pain I feel for Mother 1000 times worse.



I am so angry right now. Angry that doctors didn’t listen to Mother for 18 months. They didn’t hear her, they merely chalked up her complaints to an 82 year old little old lady nagging. They didn’t listen until it was too late to do anything.



I am angry that a young woman, vital, beautiful with her whole life in front of her is gone along with the baby she was carrying. It isn’t fair. It just fucking isn’t fair! I am so MAD!



So yeah, rerating a jerk who rated my profile a one just really doesn’t seem all that important to me right now.

You know, I have had many people in my life tell me I am too trusting and too quick to believe in things. Maybe they were all right in that statement. Sighs…oh well, live and learn I guess, live and learn. Maybe someday while living and learning I won’t get so damn burnt.

No names mentioned here, but I got something to say…



I invited you to be my friend, not to ask me a bunch of highly personal questions with sexual undertones.



I tried to get along and do what I could in the capacity of a friend. That doesn’t mean you were invited to take advantage of my trust or generosity.



When someone offers to do you a favor it is just that, a favor. Nothing more nothing less. Have you ever heard that old phrase, “Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.”? After someone agrees to do you that little favor you don’t just sit back and pick it apart and in the process making the person doing you a favor feel like a complete and total idiot.



Offering up constructive criticism is one thing, but totally destroying what was done for you in the name of friendship during this favor is completely something else.



So now, this part here is for any new future friends.



I would love to be your friend as long as you can understand these few little things…yeah, I know I can be just soooooooo picky, huh?



1. No, I do not care to see your private anatomy, not now, not EVER!.



2. No I will not EVER say show me your_____!



3. No I will not flash you my __________ on cam.



4. Yes I will be more than happy to make you or help you with a graphic for your coven, your personal stamp, your protection stamp etc…but no I will not sit back and allow you to just pick it apart and make me feel like a total failure and less of a person, not over a stupid graphic! If you don’t like it, fine, just say thanks and then tuck it away or delete it and go with something else or ask me to make several for you to choose from so there is a better chance of you getting something you will use and no one’s feelings has to be hurt and no one has to end up feeling horrible.



5. No I do not care to hear all about the gossip you have about so-n-so.



6. if you are someone with power or position or what you think is such then do not use it to take advantage of others. Carry yourself with the dignity and pride befitting of that position. Do not use it to Lord over and abuse the trust of others. It creates situations no better than work-place harassment and it is a tacky practice to engage in and makes you look like a total loser not to mention a first-class fool.