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From Wiki—only because I couldn’t have said it better myself.
Honor is the evaluation of a person's trustworthiness and social status based on that individual's espousals and actions. Honor is deemed exactly what determines a person's character: whether or not the person reflects honesty, respect, integrity, or fairness. Accordingly, individuals are assigned worth and stature based on the harmony of their actions, code of honor, and that of the society at large. Honor can be analyzed as a relativistic concept, i.e., conflicts between individuals and even cultures arising as a consequence of material circumstance and ambition, rather than fundamental differences in principle. Alternatively, it can be viewed as natives — that honor is as real to the human condition as love, and likewise derives from the formative personal bonds that establish one's personal dignity and character.
Dishonor--to bring disgrace upon someone or something; to shame.
Why post this? Wish I could actually say why, but, honor for something bigger than just myself as an individual prevents me from saying why...I will only say this---if you lack honor you lack character, and when you represent more than just yourself the disgrace in your actions affects more than just you. I personally found what was done appalling, and disgraceful, it lacked character, respect and SELF-respect---it lacked HONOR! Hmmm, and to think I was asked if I thought someone was being too rigid in their standings...if it had been me in his place---shaking my head---guess you got lucky.
If you ask me to do something so that you can do what it is you do in kind…then hold up your end of the bargain or don’t pressure me at all to do something I OBVIOUSLY didn’t want to do in the first place.
How was it obvious…gee I don’t know? Maybe because I stopped doing that particular thing there and chose to do it elsewhere???? This is about the time we would hear Holmes saying to Watson, “Brilliant deduction, ole chap, brilliant!”
There are some of us on here that actually DO give a damn about the underage population here on VR! Do I think underage people should be on here, nope I sure don’t. But it isn’t my website, and the person who it does belong to DOES allow them to be here. Allowing them into covens filled with adults, makes us adults in part responsible for their well being! Period, end of discussion!
It isn't an adult site though. It isn't a dating site, it isn't porn-themed, it isn't meant to be as sexual as people think it ought to be--so there's no reason for them not to be here. It's not a site about sex, it's about vampires.
I don’t know if it’s due to the fact I am getting older or if it’s connected with the abusive nature of my first marriage, but I truly do despise feeling like I am pressured into doing something I am not comfortable with, no matter what the cause is good for!
Don’t ya just hate being involved in something that is suppose to take team work and you feel like you’re one of only 2 or 3 out of an entire team of people doing any of the work? Why can’t people carry their own weight?
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