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Well this is a interesting night and not a situation that I want to be in. My bud Mars just came home with this fucking odd ball of a chick. I mean just fucking ODD! He told me on why he brought her here too. It's supposed to be a "get back in bed" fuck for me. Really? Sorry...not the type of guy to just go around and fuck random women. I'm the kind of guy as he coined it, "...need to have at least a half ass relationship with a girl, to fuck the girl..."

So right now I'm a bit pissed off. Not for the fact that he tried, ok whatever at least he tried, but for the fact that they're in his room with my XBOX360 and I'm not walking in on them just to grab it. Asshole had to put it in his room while I was in class....fuck....I just got BLADESTORM back from my brother finally and wanted to play tonight. Looks like I'm going to have to find something on Newgrounds.com.

Wow sad...as of today I have been single for a year. Should seem like nothing has changed but everything has drasticlly. Left my hometown in Minnesota, moved over seven hundred miles away, back in college and pulling grades I haven't seen since the fifth grade, have finally been able to hold down a job in this economy for more then two months, and made great friends along the way. I've recently talked to some old friends from back up north, they mainly asked, "When are you coming back?" What the hell? Why would I ever want to go back to that small town, that can fit inside a super Wal-Mart, where nothing was going good for me since I graduated high school? The only reason I stayed for almost two years after was for my girl, but she broke up with me four days after her 18th birthday and three days before Valentine's Day. Not to sound like a total jackass, but being dumped by her was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. My life is now finally back on track and I'm loving it. Yes its not glamours and its hard, but the experience of it all is fulfilling. Would I change a thing? Yes, but only that I could finally win the PowerBall. Other then that...nope. I'm contempt with things as they are.

I normally don't put stuff like this over the computer, but I could use some advice from people who do not personally know me.



There is this woman that I am friends with, but I am interested in being more then just friends. She has known this from the first day we met, and I know that she is interested in me also. Sounds like there isn't a problem, now does it? But there is. She has a boyfriend. I have never met the guy, because he lives around four hours away from our town, but he sounds like a good guy. At least by what she has told me. She has told me that if she wasn't with him, she'd be with me. So I am totally confused on what to do. I want to push our relationship further, but then that little bright winged bitch shows up on my shoulder to remind me that she has a boyfriend...DAMMIT!!! What I'm trying to say is, how do I show my affection towards her without coming off as an asshole like almost every other twenty something year old guy? If anyone could help, it would be very appreciated.

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chrysanthemia
04:44 Feb 10 2011

I cannot speak for all women, only myself. But if it were me, I would say;



Just be a really great friend to her, but subtly remind her you do want to be more than friends. Be there for her when she's upset, when she'd like to talk, make her laugh and make her think. Bide your time, and if it's meant to be it will be. Don't be pushy, though.



Good luck.

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drunkenchaos
16:12 Feb 17 2011

Yeah thats pretty much what I have been doing. I can't stand being pushy, but here is the funny thing. We were hanging out at WaffleHouse after class last night, and she seemed to be pushing it a bit. It clicked in my head right away (which it rare) and it confused the hell out of me. Why is she seeming to be pushing the topic, while trying to keep it like she isn't. I dont know what was really going on, but I just stayed myself and played with it a little bit when she left it open for me. haha. I still have no idea what to do, but it seems like if I don't or act like I'm not pushing the topic, she does to a certain point. Welcome to the real world I guess....dammit....

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