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why is it that guys always think they need to be in control? to me its like they are always tryin to be in control of everything there girlfriend does. I personally think this is stupid!



it sucks! there is no need for any type of control in a relationship. cuz to me, if you feel the need to control someone it is because you dont trust them enough to let them do what they want without doing anything like cheating and all that other shyt.



There is absolutely NO need for control. And guys, your not our masters. you dont control us. this isnt the 1800's anymore. We are free of speech and free to do what we please without you breathing down our necks and telling us what is right and wrong and what we can and cant do. Its pathetic. Trust us like you should and then maybe things would go better for you in a relationship if you really do like the person you are with! cuz control only leads to one thing...leaving!

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xXBlackRavenXx
18:39 Apr 19 2010

totally agree. I see my friends go though it every day without even saying anything. Absolutely hate it.

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recently, i have lost another best friend due to his stupidity of wanting to live with his girlfriend in another state. Yes, he is 18, but now he has to transfer schools and deal with all that when he could have just stayed here and graduated in as little as 8 weeks. He didnt say goodbye, didnt tell me he was moving. As far as i knew, he was only gone for a week. But, he is apparently so in love with her that he viewed no reason to come back.



He was my best friend and my ex who i have really strong feelings for and i dont know what to do now that he is gone because now i have no one to talk to during the day here at school.



I find it very rude that he didnt even bother to say goodbye or anything. I mean your supposed to be my best friend but yet you dont have the desency to say goodbye.



Yes i am ranting. I jus dont kno what to do about this or how to deal with it besides cry right now.



Anyone got any ideas or anything??