I couldn't say if I had to do over the marriage thing , that I wouldn't do it because there wouldn't be a Matthew, my son. I love her but I was so screwed up at the time that I made her miserable. Then tried to blame her, that she was the reason. Yet, it was me.
That it was all work that I didn't enjoy the beach while I was there. I lived there for a year. Should have walked on the beach at sunset and collected shells and driftwood for crafts. Should have appreciated the quiet and beauty.
Regret #2 I didn't spend enough time being a father. Now we are friends. He gave a piece of his liver to his stepdad. Doubt he would do that for me. Dave has been there for him. My mistake. Can't make it up but we can move on.
Regrets, I have a few.
regret#1- Don't get married to please others, like your parents or what is considered the norm by society. It can only hurt the ones you love or come back and bite you in the ass.
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