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This is the speech I wrote for my sister's funeral.



Theresa grew up a happy child, who cared more for someone else rather than herself. She lived a good life as a helper to many

and an angel to all. Theresa was taken away from us all on December 22 and brought to a better place. I often

wonder how they could take such an important person, then I realize that she was took her out of her suffering. She was helped out like

she helped others out many times.



Theresa and I have been really close ever since I was little. I remember I used to get in trouble for sneaking up to her room

at night just so I could sleep up by her. It's memories like that, that I will always remember. She had the biggest heart

anyone could have, and I'll miss having her around. I'll miss Theresa's sense of humor, her great advice, her spunk and sassyness,

her kindness towards others, yet most of all I will miss having a sister I can lean on. I always knew that no matter what,

Theresa waould be there to help me out, even if it was just to listen to me cry. She was an amazing listener, who knew

exactly what to say to make you feel better, when you were having the worst possible day. Even today, I know Theresa would want

all of us in this room to smile, and work towards our future. She would want us to move forward because out of every bad thing

comes a good thing. The good things are coming.





My sister loved her cat magic and magic's 3 kittens. Theresa's cats made her happy, as did internet surfing, writing poetry,

taking care of children, and chiristmas time the most. She loved every thing about christmas, and how it brought families together.

That is what Theresa has done for my family now, she has brought us all together again. I know she is watching down on us, smiling

because she accomplished something that opened everyones eyes. She helped my family come together again and support each other

with her passing. I know that's all she ever wanted, so merry christmas theresa, you did it.





My sister loved a song called Life is Beautiful, the main verse in it is "It takes a funeral to make you feel alive"

and alive is what I feel. I opened my eyes and realized not to take things for granted, because life has its unexpected

turns. Yet everything happens for a reason. I think God needed her more than we did, he is giving her a new life to start

all over again and she gets to share her new life with my grandpa lawrence. I know things will never be the same without

Theresa, but she is our guardian angel now. I know she will be watching over my family and I, helping us

through lifes ups and downs.



I'll never forget that night, my dad and I were sitting in the Emeregency room with Theresa, and I was looking at her and crying.

She asked me "what's wrong abb." she cared more about me crying than her own physical pain. That's one thing I will always

remember about my sister, she cared more for others than she did for herself. She knew how to brighten someone's day, by just

being there. My sister impacted people in such a way that I know no one will ever forget Theresa Lenore Hamilton. I love you

Theresa,and may you rest in peace.

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xXSeductiveXLustXx
17:53 Jan 14 2009

I'm sorry for your loss...Death has came into my life personally many times...I lost my baby girl Marionna Aleece April 10th of 2004 due to SIDS, she was only 5 weeks old...I recently lost my grandfather on Marionna's birthday this last year March 3rd...My oldest daughters father hung himself on my youngest son's birthday in 2007...

Your right hun, there is always good that comes from the bad, at times it's hard to see and grasp...

What I do know is you'll never stop hurting, it gets easier to deal with but it will always be there...Bless your heart dear...

If you ever want to talk feel free to message me...*hugs*

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Just ranting b cos I'm really stressed.



I want to know why I had to loose my best friend and sister on December 22, 2008? Why, if there is a "god" would you take such an important person in everyone life? HUH?!? Yea, thats what I thought. God..yea, funny word!! Just a word..that's all it is.

Theresa is my best friend and she is my sister. 1 year and 13 days apart we are. Her 18th birthday was January 8, 2008, yes 2 days ago. And she didn't even get to celebrate it. She doesn't get to graduate high-school, and take care of kids when she gets out of college.

She had so many good things coming for her, then she got really sick. We took her to the emergency room at 8 at night on December 20, for she was feeling really ill and could barely walk. At 4 in the morning the doctors ordered Theresa to be transferred to a Minnesota hospital for emergency operation. Well there was a snow storm in my town so we didnt leave the ER until 7 in the morning. Got to Minnesota at 10 in the mornin on December 21. Theresa went into surgery at 2 in the afternoon-got out at 7. I didn't get to see her until 10 that nice, because she was recovering. I saw her at 10, and she was "under." She had been under since 1 in the afternoon that day. I saw Theresa after surgery and she had 9 IVs in her, going through her arterys, breathing tubes in. She looked so sick. I stayed up until 2 that mornin, went to bed and woke up at 6 the next morning. Theresa went back into surgery at 8 that morning, she had a flesh eating disease called necrotizing fasciitis. The first surgery took out all the dead tissue that infected her body so far, but she'd have to go into several surgerys until all the dead tissue is gone. At 9 the doctors pulled my family into a room and said Theresa went into cardiac arrest, had a heart attack on the table and they couldn't opperate. Then the doctor said you should come now and say goodbye to Theresa. My heart dropped. We rushed into her room and there were all these doctors still working on her, trying to revive her so we could see her alive. There was no reviving her. I knew she was gone.

I walked into the room where she was in..and she was really cold. They still had all those machines hooked up to her, goggles over her eyes. I stood by her and cried forever. I watched my sister die. My best friend. Before I walked out of her room, i kissed her arm and looked at her face for one last time, her lip was blue. Then I held her hand and kissed it, and her fingernails were blue underneath.

That was the last time I saw my sister.

We had her funeral service on December 27, 2008 she was cremated.

Pretty fucked up. Why do the good die young?

Theresa you were suppoed to graduate this year, you were supposed to loose your weight and explore the world with me. You got robbed. That's fucked up. I miss u.

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Sinora
20:15 Jan 10 2009

I'm sorry for your loss.

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