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So let's see........valentines day went something like this....

My original plan was to have a bbq with just my two boys and Vic. Well then my parents wanted to come over....and the menu got changed up and then......grrrrrrrr so mom and dad came over with a brisket and we hand lunch just my parents and the boys. Then they had to leave for some meeting. Later Vic came over and soon after came Olivia. (a little friend of the boys) So we had some what of a nice evening. But the boys as always wouldn't stop fighting. Yelling chasing hitting........you name it it was going on. Vic tried very hard not to get involved. I gave warnings, I smacked butts and a face once or twice. By 845 I was done and tired of talking and threatening. I put patrick in his room and told olivia it was time to go home. Vic said he was leaving too. He couldn't take it anymore. But, on his way out the door he spanked patrick about 4 swats........and yanked sean out of his chair. Hollard at them both telling them that they will not act like this when he is around anymore. He was gone.

I took Olivia home and came back. I was crying because I cannot believe my children don't listen to me. EVER!!!! I hate that it takes someone else to get their attention.

Sean was pissed and hurt. He said that I shouldn't let anyone touch my children like that. I was crying and told him I wish he wouldn't have to either. But I don't know what else to do with the two of them. Patrick was upset but understood why he got a spanken but was more sad for Sean. (God love that kid) Sean and I had it out. I told him I don't know what else to do to get them to listen to me. IF I have to bring someone in once a week to spank them I will. He went to his room and screamed and cried for 15 mins or so.



I don't know how I feel about this. I wish the boys would just listen to me. I think because they go back and forth between their dads and my house all the time ........its just jacked up.



I am sure Vic doesn't want to be around them anymore. Which again.......what do I do about that? I guess there will be no long term future for us.......... God I just .............why can't the boys just listen?!!!!!

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BLOODLIFE
10:08 Feb 15 2009

Sure there's a future for you and Vic, now who's procrastinating. I could say so much on this .. but it's not my place.

The only reason you feel the way you do is ..............!! Just stop blaming the 'father' and the 'set up' ...



Sorry I shouldn't have said anything. Just wanted you to know I think you're a great mum .. and Vic knows your special :-)

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edora
15:35 Feb 21 2009

Annie it is gonna be ok and we love you and we know it is hard for you and the boys, THEY have to change and get with the program as well, the divorce affect everyone and they need to stop and think about you and mike ... maybe counseling will help them to move forward and mature and start listening to you babe,



I love you Auntie Ronnie....*extra tight hugs*

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welll its ok. I sorta feel like a naked woman thrown into the lions den. It seems that as much as that office wanted a certain person to leave and they got their wish.....they weren't too happy to know someone was taking her place.

I just keep telling myself........be positive be positive. give what you expect it will all be ok. It seems that each office does things differently too. Greeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaat. So what I learned in the Clayton office isn't exactly how they do it in the St. Charles office. lol......all I can do is laugh....and think.....next life....be born to a rich family.....or be born a hawk!!!



It's work and it will pay the bills and I have to be thankful for that..

Keep counting my blessings :o)

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edora
15:36 Feb 21 2009

LOL that is crazy OMG! your going to be fine *hugs*

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